Imaginary Caregiver - Blog Posts

Reasons I prefer to have an imaginary caregiver

low social battery - I struggle to respond to texts regularly and it wouldn't be fair to them if I was only coming to them when I'm regressed or need something from them

I struggle to make new connections - the easiest way I could probably get a caregiver is by finding someone online but I struggle a lot to build connections and start trusting new people so it's easier to stick with having a caregiver that stays in my mind

They're perfect - I love writing stories about them doing exactly what I need them to do for me and I couldn't expect an irl caregiver to perfectly predict my needs like that

They're always there - I don't have to worry about them being busy when I need them or too tired to help me through my struggles

There are other ways to find community within age regression - I love texting on agere discords, texting in a group chat is a lot less stressful and it allows me to still human connections without as much pressure

I don't have to worry about harmful relationships forming - another problem with finding a caregiver online is you don't really know who that person is. As someone who is 19 I'm slightly safer from this but I still don't want a caregiver who is secretly significantly older than me or who secretly is nsfw. And I have BPD so I don't want to accidentally become codependent with someone or hurt them by doing things like venting too much or not giving them enough space.

this isn't to knock irl caregivers but just saying imaginary caregivers can be fulfilling too :3

Also always remember that irl caregivers are real people. If you have a real life caregiver they won't be 'perfect' like an imaginary caregiver could be (always being there, always knowing what you need, not needing anything in return) and that's okay because they have a ton of their own strengths (being a person you get to learn about and grow close to, being able to physically do things with you, they aren't bound by your imagination)

꒷꒦︶꒷꒦︶ ๋ ࣭ ⭑꒷꒦ Sleepy Caregivers ꒦꒷⭑ ࣭ ๋︶꒦꒷︶꒦꒷

Cuddling your little and softly singing them lullabies as you doze off into sleep long before they do

Your little chronically under sleeps until you start saying you need to hold them through the night to sleep ("you have mr.teddy to sleep with but you're [title]'s mr.teddy so I need you to come cozy up in bed with me, okay?")

Falling asleep while watching your little's favourite movie/show and having them excitedly explain the entire plot of it after

Taking a nap on the couch and waking up to see your little has covered in you in makeup and stickers

Getting the coziest blankies and stuffies for you and your little to snuggle up under

Your little still into their games even when you're too tired to play ("We must rescue princess teddy without waking the evil dragon!")

Having the third sense for when your little's breaking a rule and waking right in time to stop them (and sometimes pretending you didn't notice cause they deserve a cookie or two)

Picking your little up after they had a long day and falling alseep on the couch cause neither of you had the energy to make it back to the bedroom

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・・・・・ fictional story about my imaginary cg・・・・・

︶︶︶ ⊹ ︶︶ ୨ ♡♡♡ Morning Wid Me n My Mama ♡♡♡ ୧ ︶︶︶ ⊹ ︶︶

Deaw diawy...

I had da best da ever wid ma mama. Iz waz sooo gud (˶˃ ᵕ ˂˶) .ᐟ.ᐟ

I gotted to eep over wid her yesterday n iz was so nice n she hewped me wid da buttons on m onzie n i gotta snuggle up so close to her (˶˘ ³˘(´͈ ᵕ `͈˶) so i was tinking i would wake up next to her bu when i woke she was gone ( ˶°ㅁ°) !!

iz was so weird n i was so sad, where did she go? (๑﹏๑//) I awmost started cwying bu den i called out to her n she came in cause she was just in da kitchen ( ˶ˆᗜˆ˵ ). She said she twied to wake me to teww me she was going bu dat i was eeping too hawd

Anyways i was no sad anymoar cause she gave me pancakes!!! (っˆڡˆς) Dey had smiwey faces on dem wid chocowate chips 🍫 n stwawbewwies 🍓 N!!! She let me has ice cweam wid dem. Iz waz soo yummy 🥞🥞🥞

me waz sooo happy, waz pwetty messy so gotta cwean ma onzie (,,>﹏<,,) bu was defwnitwy wort it

hello! this is kinda different from what I normally post but I write a lot of stories about imaginary caregivers so I'm trying to form a more solid imaginary caregiver I can use for comfort

feel free to insert your own imaginary or fictional caregiver here :3

Imagine stepping out of the shower and your caregiver is ready with one of these and wraps you up in it and you sit on their lap as they wash your face and put moisturizer on you and boop your nose and give you little kisses