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it genuinely disgusts me with the amount of hate that tmen/mascs go through in the QUEER COMMUNITY
so many in the same community that claims to be accepting just hate on us
trans men/mascs are so villainized and forgotten within the trans community and for what?
and the thing is,
the way they often hate on us is the *exact* way homophobes and transphobes act
i once saw a tweet saying that trans men aren’t minorities and benefit from the patriarchy COMING FROM ANOTHER TRANS PERSON
its almost as they forget that the same way that cis people dont see them as their gender ALSO DONT SEE AS AS OURS
its almost as they forget that some of us have uteruses and are currently being affected by the political climate that tr🤡mp and red states are doing to remove abortions and things that generally protect us
just because you believe that every fucking trans man thats comfortable saying afab is a theyfab doesnt give you the fucking right to be a dickhead
plus, youre wrong too LMAO
there are certain situations where someone may use their agab acronym to explain something because, SHOCKER, some people dont KNOW a better term to use that outright explains what they mean
ie: ME. when I didnt know what to use/say, i used to mention my agab!!! now that i KNOW what to say (i was raised as a woman), i dont fucking treat others like shit for NOT SAYING THE SAME THING
this isnt the fucking oppression olympics, its being aware of the things that trans people go through and being THERE FOR THEM
NOT devaluing their experiences AND the current things they may go through just fucking because theyre a man
you arent apart of the LGBTQ+ with the rest of us if you invalidate ANY of the letters. INCLUDING TRANS PEOPLE
INCLUDING SUB GENRES OF TRANS PEOPLE (ie: tfem, tmasc, nonbi, agender, genderfluid, etc)
like anyone who does this fucking sucks
genuinely
youre a shitty person if you treat another trans person like shit just because you don’t understand them
because that’s exactly like how transphobes act LMAOO
people who think that transfems are inherently "unsafe" around transmascs and that transmascs are a "threat" to transfems:
are t4t transhet transfems a joke to you?
are t4t bi, pan, poly and omnisexual transfems a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasc family members a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasculine children a joke to you?
are transfems who have transmasculine friends a joke to you?
you HAVE to acknowledge we exist. you can't keep pretending we don't.
i don't know how else to break it to you that there are many, many transfems who love transmascs for a lot of different reasons, but if you seriously can't take a second to consider how you're hurting a ton of transfems by shitting on transmascs, i really have no other words for you. care about the transfems who love transmascs. we exist. stop pretending we don't. we are out here and and the transmascs we love don't deserve to feel like shit. it doesn't empower transfems to make them and the transmascs they love feel like shit. stop this.