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So,

I want to be teased and lick your pussy but not to be allowed to cum

I also want to eat cum from your used pussy

We could make me lick you with no cum, or make me cum so I can eat it. Both good options, but don’t fulfil both fantasies.

Or,

We could talk about how that hall pass you have could let us do both at the same time? And you would get fucked and then eaten out as a bonus….

🔐

First time wearing a cock cage at the gym. Bit nervous but no one noticed.

I had been thinking my wife may have taken pity on me and let me take it off, but I think she just expects me to work around the cage now. She did phone to make sure I was still going, I got the impression trying to make an excuse not to go wouldn’t have gone down well.

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My perfect evening: Having her sit on my face and let me lick and suck her clit while she gently scratches my balls and teases me in my cage. Then when she cums to be allowed to lick her pussy clean, maybe even to have her rub her asshole over my tongue.

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The feeling you get when you’re on your way home from work and you get a message from your wife saying you’re taking her out for drinks, but you need to wear your cock cage and some pretty knickers for her.

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Check out Nifrag on Literotica- this is one of my short stories…

She was sat on the couch, her short blonde bob framing her pretty face, her body is large and the black dress she wears is stretched across her large breasts and stretches again in places where her rolls of belly fat are testing the fabric. The long, floaty dress is pulled up above her knees, showing some of her shapely thighs, the pale creamy skin contrasting with the black outfit. She has one foot on the floor and the other is extended out to her husband who is slowly and carefully massaging her toes, rubbing each one in turn. She holds a glass of gin and tonic, taking the occasional sip as she relaxes.

He is wearing almost nothing, the small steel cage on his cock is considered part of his body now and the pale pink knickers are more for show as they hardly cover anything and are almost see through.

She finishes her drink and he takes the glass from her, heading to the kitchen to make another. When he returns she takes the glass and tells him to dim the lights. She slowly sips her drink before telling him to lie down on the floor.

She stands up and walks so her feet are on either side of his head, facing down his body towards his feet. She kneels down, trapping his arms under her legs, stopping him from moving, she then spreads out her black skirt to cover his head and chest.

He cannot see anything as she moves her body so that her pussy is just above his mouth and he realises she has no underwear on.

He breathes in her scent as he feels her lips touch his and he slowly begins to kiss and lick at his wife's fat pussy.

She moves her large sexy body around as he licks, making encouraging and contended noises and helping him reach the places she wants to feel his tongue.

Reaching forwards she pulls his caged cock from the pretty knickers and starts to gently squeeze his swollen balls, feeling his groans vibrate through her pussy.

He continues to explore her folds with his tongue as she plays, loving the mixture of pleasure and pain he feels in his trapped cock as he gets his wife wetter and wetter with saliva adding to her natural lubricant.

Suddenly she pulls away, leaning forwards until she can reach the padlock on his cage with the key on her necklace.

She carefully unlocks him and removes his chastity cage before settling back and pushing herself back onto his face and tongue.

She takes her time getting her husband hard, teasing with her hands while gently moving and rocking backwards and forwards on his mouth, pushing down on his tongue and letting him lick inside her as far as he can reach.

When she decides she has teased enough she lifts her large body and moves downwards until she has her pussy lips on his hard cock, she adjusts her skirt again to keep everything hidden from sight and then tells him that he must let her know when he is ready to cum.

She raises herself up and reaches under her skirt, gripping his cock hard and slowly pushing the head against her hot, wet entrance, smiling at his moans as she pushes down onto him.

He feels her move faster and faster and he frantically tries to get her to go slow, desperate to last longer, wanting his wife to cum first. But she ignores him and does not slow her pace. After telling her he cannot stop himself from cumming, he moans and grunts as he orgasms for the first time in weeks, his twitching cock flooding her pussy with his cum.

She quickly moves off him and turns around before moving back up his body so she is kneeing again over his face.

She bunches her skirts up above the rolls of her belly so that he can see her cum filled pussy being lowered onto his mouth and she can see his eyes widen as she looks down at him over her breasts.

He licks carefully at his cum which is leaking from between her puffy, swollen lips and he watches as she moves her fingers down to rub her clit.

He pushes his tongue as far into her as he can, tasting and swallowing mouthfuls of his bitter, salty sweet cum as he sees her fingers working faster and faster. She pushes down hard and cums loudly, telling him to keep licking.

Afterwards she stands and asks if he enjoyed eating his cum out of her cunt?

She says that his face looks too sticky to kiss and tells him to go for a shower and to get his little cock locked back up.

She sits back down on the couch and starts to sip her drink again. Her husband comes back downstairs a few minutes later, washed clean and with his cock cage back on, she carefully checks his cage and clicks the padlock shut before they cuddle up together on the couch.

I’ve been told I can “help” my wife have an orgasm tonight after I’ve given her a foot massage.

Fingers, tongue or maybe even a release from my cock cage?

She’s away with the girls for a beach holiday tomorrow and has said she will take her key with her.

Appointment booked for the morning to get her pussy waxed.

😃🔒

Edit:

And I’ve just spotted her ankle bracelet!

Such a hot wife!

My wife has been my keyholder for four years.

My longest lockup has been 45 days.

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The last time we had sex my wife was lay on her back and I had my mouth on her pussy, licking and teasing her clit. My hands were tickling around her thighs and stomach and I would reach upwards to squeeze her large breasts.

She told me to stop and to use my fingers instead and I knelt up between her legs. One hand playing with her pussy and the other massaging her hard nipples. My cock was struggling inside my cage.

She moaned and twisted on her side, reaching for her key on the bedside table. She handed it to me and as I unlocked myself she turned herself over onto her hands and knees.

I left the back ring on, its tightness making the veins stand out on my rock hard shaft. I ran my fingers around her soaking pussy lips and the mixture of her juices and my saliva to lubricate myself before I slowly entered her.

She dropped her arms down so her face was flat against the bed and I could feel the movement of her fingers on her clit as I fucked her slowly.

She shuddered through her orgasm and then she pushed her backside towards and relaxed while I continued to thrust into her wetness.

I came hard, pumping a full weeks worth of pent up frustration into her. Exhausted and in bliss I lay down next to her.

She rolled back onto her back and opened her legs.

“Lick me now and then I’m going for a shower”

I had to force myself to move and pushed my face into her used lips, flicking my tongue inside and tasting my cum. A taste that is becoming more and more familiar.

“Leave it off tonight, but put it back on in the morning” she told me as she got up for her shower.

I lay there wishing I had spent more time cleaning her creampie and mentally telling myself that next time I will do better.

With chastity I’ll have no release until she is ready to unlock me again.

Just imagining my wife on a night out.

It is a busy club, loud and dark. Most people there are looking to hook-up and my wife is no exception.

She has had just enough to drink and lost her inhibitions.

She has danced with loads of guys, flirting and rubbing her big ass and fat belly against them, feeling their hard cocks pushing against her.

Eventually she feels one which is massive, much bigger than her husband and she is feeling horny.

“Let’s go outside for a bit” she whispers into his ear as she runs her hand along the outline of his shaft in his pants.

Behind the bar they find a secluded alley and she kisses him while undoing his belt. He kisses her back while groping her large breasts and pulling her skirt up to rub his hands over her knickers, feeling the heat and wetness from her pussy.

She releases his cock from his pants, gripping his long meaty shaft, mentally measuring him and feeling delight that her fingers can barely reach around his girth.

She drops to her knees and takes the head between her lips. He is delighted with the hot married bbw he has pulled and wants to use her, he firmly grips her head and pulls her onto him, holding her in place as he pushes inch after inch of hard thick cock into her mouth until he feels the tightness of her throat.

He fucks her face forcefully for several minutes, enjoying the sensations.

My wife is loving the feeling of being used like a whore, coating his cock in thick saliva and she is frantically rubbing her pussy, ready for more.

She pulls back and stands up, pulling her dress and bra down to reveal her large heavy breasts with the key to her husband’s chastity cage hanging on a long silver chain. She closes her eyes and moans as the stranger grabs two handfuls of soft flesh and pinches her erect nipples hard. “Please fuck me” she almost begs.

She is bent at the waist, hands against the wall to steady herself as he pushes the head of his massive member into her tight married cunt.

He pushes and grinds until he is as deep as she can take him, then he grips a handful of hair and starts to fuck her. Hard, fast and deep. She is gasping and groaning with the intensity of his fucking and she tries to spread her legs wider and push her pussy back to take as much of him inside her as possible.

Her fat tits are swaying back and forward and the chastity key is swinging between them as she shudders through an orgasm.

He grunts and floods her pussy with his hot seed, then he pulls his thick cock out of her cheating used cunt.

He smacks her hard across her exposed ass cheek then pulls up his pants and walks away without a word.

My wife pulls her knickers back into place and rearranges her skirt, bra and top. She leaves her key out, on full display.

“I think I’m ready to go home now” she says and I step out of the shadows where I have been watching. She kisses me hard on the lips and cuddles against me. “That was fucking hot” she tells me.

“I can’t wait till you eat his cum out of me” she declares and as she says this she slips two fingers under her skirt and into her used hole, scooping some of their juices and then pushing her fingers into my mouth.

“I wish you could fuck me like that” she laughs.

This week has been great so far.

On Monday night after I had given my wife her foot massage I went to wash my hands, when I came back to the bed she handed me a bottle of lube and stripped naked she got on her knees and elbows next to me facing the bottom of the bed, pushing her knees apart and pushing her pussy out.

I slowly finger fucked her while circling her hard clit with my thumb. I started with one finger and ended up with three fingers massaging her g-spot.

She had a loud, shuddering orgasm and then she cuddled me as she fell asleep.

Last night after I massaged her feet she told me to lie on my back, she cuddled up next to me with her head on my stomach and I played with her hair, neck and shoulders.

She pulled my caged cock out of my pants and spent half an hour or more just teasing my balls with her fingers and nails, squeezing gently and tickling me until my cock was throbbing and pulling on the elastic strap holding the cage in place.

Being locked for your wife is such a sexy fun thing to do!

Being sent photos of her using her vibrator.

Then a message telling me to put my cock cage on.

We were talking last night, my wife was telling me about the things she enjoys about me being locked in chastity; the attention, the cuddles, the foot rubs and of course me doing my share of the housework.

She says that there is a point after about a week of being locked where I get sulky. I tried to explain that it’s a hormonal thing and she told me she knows, it’s in the FLR book she has been reading.

We talked about her teasing and spanking me and I even told her about a dream I had a few nights ago where I had her tied up and blindfolded on the bed with her legs spread wide open, I was playing with her clit and she told me to cum on her and the lick her clean. In my dream I stood and masturbated onto her open pussy and then buried my face in her wetness and my cum.

She laughed and told me that she wouldn’t want to be tied up, but the rest sounded sexy. I love my wife.

Very sexy dream this morning.

I was wearing my cage, black knickers and hold up stockings with a black skirt, tube top and blouse.

My wife was naked on the couch, sat with one of my friends.

They told me to come and kneel down and I carefully pulled his pants down as I watched him play with my wife’s huge breasts.

They stood up and I took him in my mouth while I was on my knees with my hands behind my back. He had one hand on my head moving me back and forth and his other hand groping between my wife’s legs.

My wife put one of her hands on my head and looked me in the eye as she started to kiss him and they both pulled my head forward so I had my nose pressed against his stomach and his cock at the back of my mouth.

There is nothing more fun than shaving my wife’s pussy.

She lies back on the bed and I kneel between her open legs.

Her hairy pussy is presented to me and I get to trim her down to just a short tuft, pulling at her lips to open them and allow me to get the longer hairs inside.

As I work away she opens her legs wider and wider and once she is shaved almost bald I get to brush off all the hairs and give her a few licks before burying my face into her spread open cunt.

My cock strains against its cage as she tells me that’s enough and she disappears for a shower and to shave her legs.

We are off out for drinks and I’ve suggested she wears a sexy sundress and her ankle bracelet. She has a tiny thong on, and I’m sure anyone who has a chance to get a flash will be delighted.

When she finally gave me the key to unlock myself she watched with interest as the flat cage front came off and my cock appeared as if from nowhere fully erect. She gave a giggle and pretty much stripped herself naked, grabbing the lube and spreading her legs. The back ring and elastic belt worked like a cock ring and I was hard as a rock, I came fast and a lot, but she had me press into her as she teased her clit and she climaxed loudly before we cuddled naked.

A few days later and I’ve been left unlocked, until I’m told to go and get it and to show her how it goes on, needless to say it is a lot harder to get a flat chastity cage on while your wife is watching/helping and asking questions. She decided that it would hurt to just squeeze a full erection into the cage so I should have an orgasm first. The next thing I know I’m getting a full on sloppy blowjob and having a mouthful of cum shared with a kiss. Finally managed to get soft enough to get myself locked, but a very sexy way to do it.

Wearing a chastity cage isn’t really chastity.

It’s just a game.

Even when your balls are swollen, your cock is aching and you are begging your wife to let you lick her pussy and give her an orgasm.

Real chastity is when she squeezes your balls, laughs and tells you to go for a cold shower because she just wants a cuddle.

So, my wife might unlock my cage for occasional penetrative sex, and may let me cuddle her (and help) get herself off with fingers (and sometimes tongues), but I often wonder how often she is getting herself off in bed on her own, or in the shower, or with a FWB, or any other way you could imagine, when I’m not there?

Any mid 40s wives of 15+ years with two kids and a stressful job (and stress-head husband)… how often do you go solo (or outside the marriage) to get some action? And would you ever admit it to your husband?

A week in my new cage already, and tonight is date night, just a couple of drinks at a local bar.

I’m hopeful she will come home happy and horny and will use me to get herself off. Tongue and fingers only of course, my wife thinks nothing of keeping me locked for a full month between orgasms, so a week hardly even counts anymore.

It has been a few months without being caged by my wife because I now have to wear a suit at work instead of baggy jeans. I had been worried about my bulge being too visible.

We have been looking at a flat cage and I had been unsure if I would even fit, but we took the plunge and went for a Bound micro cage in black with a black elastic waistband to keep it pulled tight to my body.

It is tiny. Took me about ten minutes to get almost 18cm of cock into its new 12mm home. But after a few tries with different base rings I’ve found it’s easier than a traditional cage to put on.

I’ve told my wife I think her clitty is bigger than mine now and we have agreed that it is best to keep a key each at first - mine is for hygiene and emergencies only - hers is for if and when she wants penetrative sex.

Tonight I’ve suggested a trip to the local wine bar and for us to try and give her an orgasm just using my tongue.