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What if I made a sideblog where I affirmed people's manifestations? I think that would be cool. Doing stuff like writing affirmations, maybe make Pinterest/mood boards or subliminals.
Remember that your "desires" are already yours, so start acting like it!
Don't tell yourself "Oh I can't wait to see my results!" Girl, you already have them!!! They are yours! Stop telling yourself that they are absent and that you need to wait for them!
Don't just affirm to yourself and then slip in a thought about "Omg, when is all this affirming going to do something???" The affirming is doing something, because you have it already!
If your mind is telling you that you don't, just gaslight it!
I don't see results! What are you on about, I have my results already.
This isn't working! It already worked.
Why do I not sense any changes! Idk, because obviously there is changes.
Don't let your silly brain be fooled into believing that you don't have it yet, because it is yours.
You literally just decide that you have it. That's it.
"I have doubts." Too bad, you already have it.
"I'm not seeing results." Ok? Who cares, it's already yours.
"I'm giving up on manifesting for this." Why are giving up on something that you already have? Hello?
"I hope that I'll get my desire!" Stop hoping for it. That's like saying 'Oh wow, I hope that I can breathe tomorrow!'
"I need to do all these random methods to get my desire!" No you don't...
"Manifesting takes a lot of effort and concentration!" It doesn't have to... you're making it more difficult for yourself.
We overcomplicate manifesting so much when all you have to do is choose to have it.
Stop obsessing over what you see in the mirror, although that's often easier said than done. The key to receiving your desires is to remember that you already have them! But maybe you struggle to "convince" yourself of something that you feel just can't be true. What works best for me is to constantly shut that little voice in my head down before it gets the chance. Although it sounds silly, maybe personify those doubts and make them seem weak, like something that begs for your attention but can never get it (I do this with my OCD intrusive thoughts too). Something that helped me was using my own method, The Letter Method.
Maybe you've done this and still don't feel like you're seeing anything. Well, remember that our physical reality isn't that real. The reality in our mind is. In the same way we are often told to disregard our imagination, we ought to do the same with the "real" world.
Quick note: I don't know if someone else has already done something like this. They probably have but its whatever.
This is for people who are good at/enjoy writing! Okay so first of all, identify your desire. It can be anything really. I personally would suggest choosing one things instead of a bunch of things but you can do that as well.
So now that you have your desire, act like you're the version of you that already has it. Get into that state of mind and really feel like that's who you are right now.
The next step is open any sort of writing app. I used Notion. Now write a letter to your old self, the one who doesn't have your desire. Write all of the details about how you got your desire, how you and people around you reacted to this. Really make it detailed and feel real (because it is).
I want to talk about how I felt doing this. Honestly it felt so strange. I really was the version of me who had my desire when I was typing out my letter, and honestly I still feel like that as I'm writing this post too. I think the more that I do this, the more I connect with this (the one who has the desires) version. I know for sure I will absolutely be doing this again!