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Random headcanon time:
Dreadwing doesn't always read signals well. He is not great with subtle hints, and doesn't always catch little implications (except when he is with a long-term partner where they are well established). He is also deeply concerned with consent, and these things in combination can mean he can be a bit of a nervous lover. Therefore he requires a certain level of clarity and open-ness with someone he has never slept with before. He wants a conversation first: what do you want, what are your no's, here's what I want, here my no's. A partner who has alot of coy, subtle behavior as part of their personality sometimes gives Dreadwing problems. Not intentionally, not maliciously, but if they start acting wishy-washy and he can't figure out what they want, he gets anxious, starts second-guessing, and backs off. It's just how he is. So long as he knows, it's fine. You can even be sexy about it; just whisper all those dirty, nasty things you want him to do to you and he's on board.