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In need of sugar advice!
I'm supposed to be meeting a pot tomorrow. I've been asking him to share photos, he won't because he is married and needs discretion. I've looked up his cell number, no name. I've searched his email, nothing useable. I told him up front that sex is not a priority for me so I am not worried about him trying anything. If I do decide to meet him I am driving my own car to and from. I am meeting him in the middle of the day in a public place for lunch. I am pretty confident that I am setting up a safe meet. I just can't seem to get over his mysterious way. I feel like I should call it off because I've read so much about red flags and these things seem to be red flags to me. Opinions? Advice? If you know of any pages that answer questions please let me know! Please repost!
Ashley Madison
I've been trying it out and see a lot of the guys from SA here. Though there is much more BS to sift through, it turns the tables and puts us in control. Guys have to pay for most features. So far I've racked up 3 pots who I will actually be meeting. Dates tba but definitely potential... If anything it's great practice. Anyone have any luck with AM?
okay this theory might be a little controversial..
First things first, we are ignoring the show's "genetically altered sugar" sugar bowl excuse, because that feels like it was pulled out of someone's ass.
Hear me out: there is nothing in the sugar bowl + esmé is still good.
So we know that the schism didn't start with sugar bowl gen, but thats when it really exploded. Esmé Squalor is personally mad, not because Beatrice Baudelaire is a volunteer, but because her trust was betrayed.
Esmé while talking to Dewey Denoument gets told, "The container is yours. Not what it contains."
This means VFD believes the sugar bowl itself is still Esmé's. We know sometimes Lemony will use metaphors for the plot, like the great unknown.
I believe the sugar bowl is a physical stand-in for the betrayal Esmé felt with Beatrice.
When VFD split, friends became enemies. We know this, right? And we know that Esmé and Beatrice were friends that became enemies.
What if the sugar bowl is just a figurative(?) show of that? Esmé doesn't really care about VFD or arson, she just wants her sugar bowl.
And while we get the 'olaf knows' scene, Esmé probably already knew. It doesn't say 'olaf and esmé know'.
Now hear me out again– Esmé holds out the information, not telling Olaf. In hopes that Beatrice will see that she is trustworthy and give back the sugar bowl.
Esmé was obviously there when the dart was thrown. She was standing directly across from Beatrice. She definitely saw Beatrice throw the dart.
So why do we still get the 'olaf knows' scene? If Esmé was truly evil, wouldn't she immediately tell Olaf so they could incriminate them?
Esmé wants to be trustworthy, she wants to be Beatrice's friend again, she wants to hold the sugar bowl again.
Esmé only hurts the baudelaire children at Olaf's command.
"I helped you chase those orphans through the least in places in the hinterlands" That's what she says. She could care less about revenge.
In Penultimate Peril, Esmé has the opportunity to poison everyone. She doesn't. She genuinely does not want revenge.
(This is definitely less believable than my Poe is an ex-volunteer theory.)
But.. thats just my two cents lol
To all my newbie SW girls out there
When I first started off escorting I didn’t want to take my own photos. I wanted to actually put my photos out there in a more professional way. I couldn’t call myself a high end escort if I didn’t look the part. So I found a app that connects you with freelance photographers for the low. You can literally do a whole photoshoot for around 150-250 dollars. This is for the escorts who are just starting off and don’t have the money to host a photoshoot that can cost thousands. Some of them you will have to buy your photos separately. So the whole procedure should cost around 400-500 dollars all together. But I met one lady who did some amazing shoots for only 200 and I got to keep 40 of my photos for free.
But be careful and check the reviews. Some can and will take advantage of you or blackmail you into doing things.
Hope this helps some of you guys and good luck ladies
@societywh0re
