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This is a deeply personal topic that might be triggering to many, it's about my groomer so just becareful before u decide to read I guess
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Jayden Eoghen (@the.punk_king), formerly on TikTok, was a cis woman who masqueraded as a trans man in order to lure in young trans people, mostly between the ages of 12–15, who had recently come out and had little to no support. This happened back in 2020. Jayden claimed to be 17 on all of their content and platforms, but in reality, they were 23.
I am one of three victims that I know of. I was a young trans femme, recently turned 14, going by a different preferred name than I do now. There was also Ashton, a young trans masc who was 12 at the time—we don’t know each other anymore and I don’t know if he’s changed his name—and Sam, a trans masc who was 14 and lived in the same state as Jayden.
Jayden referred to Sam as his favorite. We know that Jayden was able to get away with psychical sexual abuse kn Sam for atleast 2 years.
My TikTok at the time was @Pansexual_Lucifer, and I appeared in some of Jayden’s now-deleted videos. I still remember Sam’s old username too I dont know if that would help he also appeared often in person in many kf Jayden’sold videos. Jayden did horrible things to us, and it still affects me every single day. It’s been really hard to talk about.
My parents, who weren’t supportive to begin with, used what happened as justification for more transphobia. They said I was brainwashed and showed me even less support than I had before. There was brainwashing—but not about being trans. That was just how Jayden got to us. What they liked about us was that we had no one else to run to.
It’s been almost five years now as of next month, and I still get scared every time I get a call from a California number. I don’t know if Jayden’s out of jail. I don’t know how long they were sentenced to. I don’t even know their real name—my parents never told me. I know I keep calling them "he" even though Jayden didn’t use those pronouns in real life, only online, and not because they were closeted. I’m just used to referring to them that way still.
All I want is closure. I’ve been trying for years to find out who they really were—just to know if I’m safe. If he’s out. If he remembers me. If he’s looking for me.
The only trace of Jayden left online is a podcast he released shortly before his arrest. That’s it. Everything else is gone.
If anyone out there remembers him, has archived content, knows his real name, or has any idea what happened to him legally, please send something—anything—my way.
Thank you for reading this. Please help if you can.
Hopefully this sums up all the info well enough it's like my third time re writing it