Curate, connect, and discover
the reason some try their hardest to make batcat out to be “just about sex” while x other Bruce ship is “true love” is because(besides projection and insecurity) digging even one layer deepr into batcat beyond the pretty pictures of them making out shows you two people with a deeper devotion, understanding, trust and LOVE than any other relationship can hope to match.
They have to say “batcat is just sex” because how else can you possibly hope to compare let alone compete with THEM??