Aaa-bdsm-instruction - A Collection Of Instructive Thoughts

Often times the first step on the path of developing a BDSM practice is the seemingly simple yet often very complicated step of accepting parts of yourself that you are unsure about because of social conditioning leading you to think less of yourself by accepting them. There’s nothing wrong with you for wanting to allow someone else to control certain parts of your life. There are healthy ways to do that and there are unhealthy ways to do that. An appropriate and mindful BDSM practice is about developing the healthy ways while learning about the unhealthy ways that might rise up as obstructions to your success. 

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This isn’t difficult.

Women are equal to men.

Period.

If a woman chooses to give the gift of her submission to someone that does not make her unequal to him. It does not make her inferior. It only means that she has given, likely and appropriately subject to certain terms and conditions, consent to explore certain scenarios.

Even if those scenarios include degradation and objectification of her as lesser, she is never actually lesser.

It is an exercise in the suspension of disbelief so a certain energy flow is able to be experienced.

No matter how much she likes that energy flow or how constant or even permanent the desire to experience in it is. She is always actually and in all ways equal.

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exactly this ^^^^

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I'm a submissive woman but being a woman will always take precedence over being submissive

Sometimes there will be elements of your practice while training that will include elements of conditioning.

Conditioned responses are perfectly normal. Part of a training practice.

Practice sometimes isn’t simply about repetition. Yes, practice can be about repetition and only about repetition in order to improve a skill. However, sometimes the development of a skill isn’t the only purpose of the practice. Sometimes improvement of the skill is important, but that improvement needs to also include a shift in the way you relate to and think about whatever you are practicing.

In order for a practice to accomplish those goals within your training, oftentimes it is important to change the way your mind relates to the thing being practiced.

That part is usually where conditioning occurs.

It might be conditioning to become more resilient to intrusive negative thoughts about what you imagine others might be thinking about you.

It might be conditioning to become more aroused from performing the activity itself.

It might be conditioning to express more appreciation or to express appreciation in a different way than you have previously thought was the best way to do it.

It might be conditioning to make access into your subspace through the practice easier.

There are a lot of different kinds of conditioning. Those are just a few examples that came to mind.

The point here is that acceptance of conditioning as an essential element of submission and that practice which includes conditioning is commonly an important element of training.

Enjoy it.

The instructions are back!

CW: light degradation, some name calling, praise mixed with degradation. Not a hypnosis file!

I tell you what I want you to do each day of this week and how long at a minimum you should edge, and how you should do it. I won't ruin the surprises. You'll have to listen. As always, my messages are open, and I enjoy hearing from you. Have fun, and get edging!

Perfect isn’t possible, but being a person who consistently practices makes you a good girl

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The first step is accepting that you need training.

The next step is asking someone that you think might be willing to train you for them to put the time and effort in to provide you their training.

The next step is to discuss all of the elements of what training would include and negotiating together so that the greatest chances of success and fulfillment from training become possible.

Then, you will have to work together in order to create and fine-tune a practice that reflects both of your needs, goals, and enjoyment.

Then you will have to do the work. Both of you. Training takes time and energy and focus to create appropriate systems and practices. Being trained takes time and energy and focus to put the effort in that is required in order for the practice to become effective in helping you reach your goals.

Regular discussion about how things went in past experiences and sessions is essential to fine-tuning future practices.

Training is as much an art, as it is a practice, and the only way for the art aspect of it to blossom is to be sincere and give it access to your heart. Dedication to practice can, through sincerity, open the heart to true enjoyment and artistry, and it is OK for that to be the pathway.

Choosing IS feminism.

Why are we cursed with such an ignorant population of men so desperate to control women that they reveal their stupidity on the topic of women with such relentless enthusiasm…

Everyone learns in different ways.

Reinforcing lessons, to a point of acceptance of that lesson, might require a variety of approaches until it is finally understood to a point that it no longer needs to be taught.

Acceptance leads to sincerity of practice.

If you lack sincerity in your practice then you are still in need of the lessons and the consequences that come from not yet understanding the importance of the practice.

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