It’s difficult to explain your obessions right?
It’s difficult to explain why you get tired after just 2-3 hours of socializing right?
It’s difficult to explain why making decisions takes so long right?
It’s difficult to explain your sensitivities, the noise around you, people walking by, the light, the jokes that make you feel uncomfortable?
It’s difficult to explain why your overthinking is actually just you thinking right?
It’s difficult to explain your needs and wants to your friends, or your parents saying that they shouldn’t click their pen, shake their leg, shouldn’t be too close right?
It’s difficult to explain why you can’t relax and stop obsessing analysing people right?
It’s difficult to explain your wordfinding difficulties or the reason why you’re talking too fast right?
It’s difficult estimating if you’re friends or not, if you’re friends enough to go up and talk to someone right?
It’s difficult not to obsess about something you like and then after a few months find another obsession wondering if you will ever find your calling right?
It’s difficult to explain why you feel so down and tired and keep focusing on the negatives even after a pretty good day, your obsessive mind keeps reminding you of the little details people dont even remember you doing or saying it right?
It’s difficult to be in this world where ‘’other’’ people seems to know it all, seems to have it all. Nice group of friends, amazing socialising skills where it seems so easy to come up with new stuff to talk about right?
With or without the diagnosis you know you best. it doesn’t make your problems less real with no diagnosis.
I’m so glad someone agrees that Dark is WAY better than Stranger Things
reasons why dark (netflix) is way much better than stranger things:
the main storyline is way just much clever in every way
the (main) characters are just more interesting and every single one of them are important for the plot
every chapter has a plot twist
the cinematography!!!! is just a+
it’s more aesthetic and beautiful
the scenarios are just so gorgeous
the music!!!!
it doesn’t need supernatural elements to give you chills
it will make you think much more
it’s in german and it helps me to improve my german!
stranger things is a nice show, but dark is another level
Life things are tiring.
being a so-called “gifted” kid is fun bc people think your life must be extraordinary but,,,, as far as me and all the other “gifted” kids i’ve met….. its more like *ends up taking god-awful courses bc the teachers think they want to be challenged* *loses sense of childhood* *gets hated by all their peers bc of jealousy for “special treatment” that doesnt exist and better grades* *experiences extreme burnout by age 12 and stops functioning in a school setting entirely* *gets their dreams shot down because they have “too much potential” to chase after small jobs* *cries over getting a b grade* *doesn’t sleep* *gets abused as a kid by people who want to take advantage of their circumstances* *isn’t believed if they say they have a disability because “they’re too smart!”* *doesn’t sleep* *doesn’t sleep* *doesn-
Say what you want about Endgame, but can we pls take a minute to appreciate how many different types of relationships we got to see?? Like yeah, there was a little romance, but it was almost completely family-centric. Sibling, parent-child, found family, best friends, we got it all and that makes me so damn happy.
You are a supervillain with the power of giving life. You wish to conquer the world. Only two problems - a superhero who always manages to stop your plans, and the fact that they have power of death.
One person can make a difference, and everyone should try.
J.F.K. (via infj-misc)
When I was in high school, I was in the GSA club and I was taught that the A in LGBTQIA was for ally. So I was like “I guess I must be an ally” because I was drawn to the community but didn’t relate to any of the other identities. I have crushes on boys all the time but I finally realized my crushes are a bit different than most people’s. I’m like “aw, wow he’s so cute , I just want to make him smile because his smile is aesthetically pleasing and hang out with him, and maybe we could hold hands.” I never knew people actually really had sexual thoughts about other people. I heard it in songs and all sorts of media but assumed it was all exaggerations. I somehow stumbled across the term asexual and was super confused because I never thought about sexual attraction. Like, what is that?? Apparently a thing most people feel, so as I continued reading on about the ace spectrum, I was astonished there was a word for how I felt. It took me a while to use the label for myself because I never heard of the term before and I didn’t want people to think I was making it up for attention. I knew I didn’t like girls the way I liked boys, so I thought I must be straight. I tried some sexual stuff and I was semi grossed out , semi bored. That’s when I started putting everything together and I was like “there’s no way I’m not ace.”
THIS IS WHY THIS WEEK IS SO IMPORTANT. If I was aware asexuality was a real and valid sexual orientation, I wouldn’t have had to try and be heterosexual. If other people were aware of asexuality, they wouldn’t have to invalidate me when I come out to them by saying things like “You’re not a plant”, “You haven’t met the right person yet,” “You’re still so young,” etc. If I haven’t met the right person yet, that probably makes me demi sexual , first of all, because I’m 19 and have never felt sexual attraction. Second of all, isn’t it funny that you’re never too young to identify as straight?? Anyways, I no longer consider myself straight because I’m aware of my differences and I’m aware that there’s nothing wrong with that.
Will they even recognize the term “asexual” or will I be starting at the ground level here?
How many ways are they likely to ask if I’m sure? (Have you tried…? Well how do you really know if…? Maybe you just haven’t met the right person yet.)
Are they the type of person to need me to explain why it doesn’t matter if I have or have not had sex before?
If it has no effect on my physical boundaries with this particular person, is it worth the energy spent?
Will it actually change anything about my interactions with this person for the better if they knew?
so apparently it was pepperony week and no one told me??? i did these silly doodles right after seeing homecoming, inspired by the film’s ending + a goofy convo with a friend :’)))