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happy pride month! being queer does not absolve you of your white privilege and now is not the time to be centering yourself! ACAB!
girls with stretch marks are stunning.
chubby girls are beautiful.
slim girls are gorgeous.
all girls in between are outstanding.
your body is stunning, all women are perfect, please don't let anybody tell you otherwise.
and that's my OC, Zerrin! ✨
my twitter & instagram: @flowb_ray
tibbie r hard to draw
also this is a redraw of some shit from july 2018 here's the comparison thing ft. my shitty handwriting
How to Argue Like an Asshole
Good evening, friends, let me tell you some Secrets on how to argue like (and with) assholes. I’m writing this because I keep running into a particular asshole, and I need to stop engaging with them, and so this is an instruction sheet for myself as well as you guys.
First, try to avoid assholes; they don’t deserve your time and energy. But, if an Argument is unavoidable, here are a few tips on how to emerge unscathed.
Let go of the idea that you’re going to win.
You’re not gonna win. Nobody wins in an argument with an asshole. But, on the other hand, you can make them lose. You can deprive them of their entertainment and their triumph.
How???
Do not present your side of this debate.
This is so counter-intuitive for most of us who believe in things like, oh, science, or real facts, or the idea that real facts can be determined by science. Here’s a cool terrible thing about humans: certainty has nothing to do with facts. And when people are certain, that is when they become assholes.
When someone’s only goal is to win an argument, any real evidence or facts you give them is just ammunition for them to turn against you.
You will not convince them. So what should you be doing?
Destroy their arguments.
This is a thing of joy, because it’s what assholes are used to doing. They are, at heart, morons who don’t know how to construct, only how to destroy.
I used to be super emotional about arguments like this. I couldn’t think of anything to say while the other person ranted on about their horrifying bigotry. Now I’m a lawyer, and I’ve learned to weaponize my essentially nitpicky nature. For money.
So here are some easy tactics you can remember and deploy:
- Make them define the words they use. Nitpick the definitions.
- Turn questions back on them. If they ask you “why do you believe x”, ask them why they believe y. If they pull some “I asked first” shit, ask them why they’re afraid to defend their beliefs.
- Call them emotional. If possible, pick out specific emotions. This is especially devastating when you’re debating a man, as he will get more emotional as a result.
- “Why is that funny? I don’t get it.” Making people explain mean jokes can be a delight; they just wilt the more you question them about the underlying assumptions.
- Laugh at any especially dumb shit. Like they use some slogan or catchphrase that’s obviously untrue, due to science, or essentially ridiculous, like “we’ve made America great again,” and you just blurt out laughing. If they get mad, tell them – oh, so sorry, I’ll shut up, I’m giving you the floor to talk about your beliefs. I’m respecting you. This is a goddamn power move. It gives you the high ground, and also the implied control over the situation. The floor belongs to you, but you are yielding it to someone because you can.
- If they make an awkward exit, let them. Especially if they call the discussion “political.” It means they’re feeling attacked. Graciously allow them to retreat with their tail between their legs. If they storm off, allow them to do that too. Congratulations; you’ve ended the argument and you don’t have to deal with it anymore.
Basically: hand the asshole a shovel, and let ‘em dig. Relieve yourself of the burden to convince them they are wrong, and just sour their fun instead.
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Additionally, these are the tactics that assholes use, consciously or subconsciously, all the time. Recognize them. Once you know what they are, you can become immune to the intimidation and belittling tactics.
Good luck.
if someone says “stop touching me” stop fucking touching them, you asshole
Did I watch all of Imnotokwiththis in one night
YES
Did I fall in love with syd
Mmmmmmm YEA
Am I dumb love stuck gay
Yea
I AM NOT OKAY WITH THIS (2020) | 1x05 “Another Day in Paradise”
stan: knocked tf out
dina: distraught
brad’s head: gone
I forcibly remove myself from homecoming
Short comic, while I work on something bigger on the side. It is nevertheless a very important topic. A lot of seabirds die because they eat plastic. They feed their chicks with the waste. It’s really tragic.
I Am Not Okay With This is literally a superhero origin story AND a gay teen rom com at the same time, and i for one, appreciate that so much
Reblog this and put in the tags your top 5 MARVEL favorite characters.
I Am Not Okay With This (2020- ), Titanic (1997), Stranger Things (2016- ), Silver Linings Playbook (2012), Black Panther (2018), The Breakfast Club (1985), Sex Education (2019- ), The Walking Dead (2010- ), Bring It On (2000), Derry Girls (2018- )
brielarson: “You cannot see me from where I look at myself.” #FrancescaWoodman
i love girls not just because they are soft and delicate I mean they are but also they are bold and intelligent and fearless and powerful and have so much fire in them when they are passionate about something so when they love they love with all they got. so yea I like the soft and delicate side but damn girls got so much more going for them
These Joyful Photos Celebrate The Beauty Of Trans Women
“As we celebrate Pride, it’s important to remember that trans women of color including Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and Miss Major Griffin-Gracy were at the forefront of the movement. As model and activist KhrystyAna puts it, “This is Pride month; a month we would not have without trans women of color.
Yet, despite half a century of progress, trans rights still fall behind those of others in the LGBTQ+ community, with trans women of color remaining the most vulnerable members of the queer community.“
KhrystyAna teamed up with photographer Amanda Picotte, model Seana Steele, and stylist Guvanch (all four of whom are part of the LGBTQ+ community) to create this photoshoot celebrating trans women. T
he photos are part of the KhrystyAna’s Real Catwalk Project, dedicated to throwing out conventional beauty standards and championing inclusivity. Thirteen trans women, including Steele, posed for photos wearing high fashion pieces in pink, blue, and white to represent the Trans Pride Flag.
The 13 women featured are Daniella Carter, Alexandra Lee, Daria Dee, Mojo Disco, Jasmine Infiniti, Alana Jessica, Jari Jones, Shay Neary, Jazmine Shepard, Seana Steele, Garnet Rubio, Angelica Torres, and Nicki Vrotsos.
The photos are beautiful and joyous — very different from how the media typically portrays trans women.”
(read more)
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Gays heard the phrase "louder than gods revolver and twice as shiny" and took it as dress code instructions.
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Sapphics, your fifth most recent emoji is your reaction when you see a pretty girl.
A lesbian is not 'useless' for wanting a girlfriend yet choosing not to date her lesbian friend who also wants a girlfriend. Lesbians can be be friends without wanting to date each other, don't you dare call me dumb or stupid for choosing not to get into a relationship.
Which one do you like the most? 🍦
