So We Are A System Without RAMCOA/OEA/TBMC Trauma, But We Have An Alter That Uses A Number (not As A

so we are a system without RAMCOA/OEA/TBMC trauma, but we have an alter that uses a number (not as a name usually, more of an assigned number) based on an ICD code

i won’t share the actual code, but a similar one (that i made up) would be D35 or something like that

we were wondering if this is offensive to systems with number name trauma? his number is based on some of our own trauma but it’s tied to medical trauma, not TBMC

sorry if this is a bit rambly

It’s not offensive to us. It takes the target off our backs and other survivors are able to hide in a crowd.

Yes, there’s trauma related to those number names, but it doesn’t just have to ramcoa/tbmc based.

The one thing I hate the most is people constantly saying that ramcoa systems are the only ones that can use numbers as names. It separates us from the crowd and makes us easier targets if people remember those numbers.

Use it, it’s a name.

That’s like others using colour coordination and stuff being offensive because of programs revolving around colours. No, it’s helping you organize.

I will always say it’s okay for any system to use a number name to help survivors hide and to make sure that there’s no separation to where people can find survivors easier. I might get attacked by other survivors or something but I don’t really care lmao

Use what’s comfortable.

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3 months ago

Hehe we've been here since twas just a tiny blog, since the first post.. The orange text.. All those fun things, also lead me to remembering this masterpiece, which I still absolutely love

Hehe We've Been Here Since Twas Just A Tiny Blog, Since The First Post.. The Orange Text.. All Those

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7 months ago
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when I drew this comic 3 years ago I had NO idea how far it would reach. I'm happy to finally share a corrected version with proper abbreviations, and even MORE state names of indigenous origin ♥️

however, the goal of this comic was to inspire people to do your OWN research on indigenous history. To question everything we have been taught, and everything that has been pointedly left out. This erasure, this “forgetting”, of history is not just of the past… it is happening now. - Across so-called Canada, the US, and US-occupied islands, native women are victims of murder at 10-12x the rate of non-native people, and are the most likely to go missing without being searched for by the law. - Native reservations have the highest rates of poverty in the US, with over HALF of tribal homes with no access to clean water (with more joining this list by the year) - Native people are 6-10x more likely to be unhoused than the rest of the population, and native teens suffer suicide rates higher than any other demographic. This list of modern day genocide goes on (thank you for compiling @theindigenousanarchist <3) and yet take a look at those environmental stats!

Native people manage to do SO much for the planet as a whole - thanklessly - and with all this stacked against them. Don't even get me started on kin fighting in south america. Could you imagine if there was help? #landback is resistance to genocide, and it is the key to saving our warming earth.

So look into it and the other hashtags, cuz a cartoon goose ain't a substitute for a proper education. Love to my grandparents who always kept a map of tribal territories of turtle island on their wall, to speaking on our Tsalagi & Saponi heritage. Love & solidarity forever, happy research, and happy #indigenouspeoplesday

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1 year ago

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10 months ago

PAJAMA FACTZ RAAAHHHH 🔥🔥🔥‼️‼️‼️

He's so zilly goofy cute, i luv him 🫶

Pajama factsssss!

So so like we said, it uses

- It/Its

- Shi/Hir

-Rot/Rots

Pajama's two nicknames are PB and PJ

Shi has insomnia, has one of those little nests of pillows and blankets BUT! When rot sleeps, it's ontop of the blankets, and using the pillows as blankets

Its little nest is in the back end of a closet

Oh oh! So Pajama doesn't have a mouth, and was made that way because our autism causes us to have an extremely hard time talking to the point where sometimes we just feel it'd be easier to communicate another way!

Oh! And maybe the most important! Pajama has a sibling named Quarter made by @thetetrisco a good friend of ours!

9 months ago

This is so painfully us

[Text: This System Has A Lot Of Fictives Fronting At Times.]

[Text: This system has a lot of fictives fronting at times.]

Like/Reblog if you save or use!


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1 year ago

Reposting this as it's 5:25am and we haven't slept /silly

a userbox that says this system needs to go the fuck to sleep

This is us constantly so made a userbox for it


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10 months ago

Y'all should totally send us money for our birthday /j

But in all seriousness, it's our birthday, we're 19 now, and man do I wish we weren't, we're too traumatized to be an adult adult


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