If I Don’t Get A SydCarmy Kiss Or At Least Some Form Of Confirmation That They’re Canon Before The

I love him but it’s true

Can’t wait to see more of this sad little man in season 3

Me eating up any SydCarmy crumbs FX is willing to give me

Thank you!!! @gingergofastboatsmojito

YEP, IT'S HAPPENING, START YOUR ENGINES COZ TONIGHT WE ARE GONNA GET STARTED WITH THE WARM-UP PRE-BEARDAY, I MEAN JUNE 27 #WATCHPARTY

REBLOG AND INVITE WHOEVER YOU WANT I WILL BE PASSING THE LINK TO JOIN AROUND 8:45 PM TO ALL OF THOSE WHO CONTACTED ME, VIA DM. LET'S GO, CHEFS!

I will never stop talking about this show pt.2 (or sydcarmy)

LET’S GOOO!

The Bear S3 Trailer

The fact that some people still think Syd is inferior to Carmy or that they have a mentor/mentee dynamic after Carmy HIMSELF said “I couldn’t do this without you, I wouldn’t even want to do this without you, you make better at this” is actually insane

I like to think to that Michael never intended to take over the world in his little Peaky Blinders ass fit, he just saw it in the back of Deans mind when he possessed him with all his other lil outfits and said hold on wait a minute this one kinda fucks. And when Sam saw him for the first time he had to do a double take because he’s seen that exact outfit in Deans closet before.

THIS!!! He’s far from perfect and his behavior has been questionable but he’s also unlearning everything he’s ever been taught and that takes time. We saw everything he internalized from the Chefs he worked with, the good and the bad, everything that made him who he is as a chef and a person. It’s going to take time and therapy to go through all that trauma and learn how to let go of things that aren’t benefiting him. Carmy’s got a long way to go in the healing process but so does Syd and maybe they can do it together

ngl watching how some of y’all talk about Carmen makes me so fucking depressed as someone with a lot of baggage and trauma

no one said you have to put up with bullshit behavior forever, but if you think that someone who was torn down every day of their life is gonna be perfect the moment they realize they have a problem to fix in themselves, you’re going to be disappointed. repeatedly. forever.

none of y’all deserve Sydney either, bc she’s a damn good depiction of what it’s like to be someone who loves and cares for someone who’s fucked up. A side of the equation I ALSO happen to be familiar with. you hold that person accountable for shit behavior, back away when you need to for your health, and because you love them, you fucking come back.

Idk what kind of interpersonal relationships y’all have that can so easily be thrown away the moment shit isn’t perfect the way YOU need it, but this fucking “I don’t owe anyone anything least of all my shoulder to cry on” mindset sucks dick and balls when applied to media as much as it does in real life.

People are burdens. Plain and simple. Community requires sacrifice, love and partnership requires sacrifice. Or at the very fucking least: compromise.

Like. If you met someone who understood you better than anyone, a person whose entire life has been parallel to yours in a way that uniquely binds the two of you, y’all would really just fucking walk away WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING just because they’re hurting and lashing out? Because that’s what y’all are advocating for, and that’s the fucking problem.

So many of y’all have this “I shouldn’t have to speak up and set a boundary” mindset. you just fucking sulk and stew in it and then blow up because you never set your foot down when you needed to.

Even if Sydney walks away from Carmen, she needs to fucking speak up or she’s gonna get walked on AGAIN. She deserves better but she also has to fucking ask for it. And that’s entirely separate from the fact that Carmen needs to pull his head out of his ass.

Either way, I think we would all do well to fucking self-reflect.