If I Could Give One Piece Of Advice To Shifters, From "baby" Shifters To The Ones Who Have Been Trying

If I could give one piece of advice to shifters, from "baby" shifters to the ones who have been trying for five years, specifically the ones still on tiktok, it would be this.

Number one, get off of tiktok. I say this with love toward the shifttok community and as someone who still watches videos on there. Stop depending on other people. Especially on TikTok. People on TikTok love to preach about how much hard work it is and how shifting isn't easy, but everyone is capable of it if they "keep pushing and trying and experimenting with a new method every single night." Which leads me to my next point.

Shifting is easy. People on tiktok love to preach the opposite because they heard the affirmation "shifting is as easy as breathing" and chose to take it literally and then got their feelings hurt when it didn't go their way. Shifting is easy the moment you decide it is easy. And I mean really decide and truly believe, not just saying it a couple of times before bed without any intention behind it and then being confused when you're not in your desired reality.

I used to let myself get obsessed to the point of burn out. I survived the misinformation era of shifttok and unfortunately there still is misinformation on there. But more than that, it's full of people overcomplicating it. In 2023, I barely attempted with shifting at all because I was so burnt out and so drained from my "failures." That bled into 2024 as well where when I finally found my spark again, I would lose it after two tries and then would be demotivated for weeks or even months at a time.

But then at the end of 2024, something finally clicked for me. And it wasn't because of shifttok and it certainly wasn't because of tumblr either (I wasn't actively on shiftblr at this time). Something clicked and I suddenly didn't have any doubts about shifting. I knew with 100000% certainty that shifting is real, and because I knew it was real, I also knew that I would shift eventually. But that was my next obstacle. That one word.

Eventually.

I would spend every attempt believing in shifting but not really believing I would shift then.

Then I came on shiftblr. No, you should not depend on anyone for your shifting journey besides yourself. But I will say it was refreshing to see a switch from "which method should I do?" "What works for you?" "I've been trying for three years and nothing is working" "guys is shifting actually real?" to "obviously shifting is real and it's easy" "all you need to do is let yourself have it" "you don't need elaborate methods, just believe."

I will always love shifttok, but I can admit that it definitely stunted my growth on my journey. Listening to other people and depending on what other shifters, especially successful shifters, were saying fucked me over. You don't need those outside voices. All you need to do is let yourself believe that you can do it. And I mean ACTUALLY believe. The second you decide it's easy, it is easy. Shifting really can be as easy a breathing, if you let it.

And if you were on shifttok, you'd probably have a dozen different people saying in your ear "no, it's not. Shifting is hard because it's taken me years." But it only has taken them that much time because they keep reinforcing that idea over and over in their minds (calling myself out there). If I had the mindset I have right now back in 2020, I would have shifted to my desired reality within the first month of trying.

Although, it is probably a good thing I didn't shift right away to my first dr because that script was rancid and I did not understand shifting back then LMAOOOO

So tldr- stop depending on outsiders on your journey, especially people that overcomplicate it on tiktok. Figure out what you need to do to believe, believe in yourself that you can achieve it too, and then know that you will shift. Every time you want to shift, remind yourself that you will shift and that it is easy. Because it is. You never needed an instruction manual on how to dream or how to breathe. It's already built in. All you need to do is allow yourself.

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definitelymaybelilac

1 month ago

things i realised after shifting

— There was no “oh my god i shifted” moment. it all felt very natural to me. You’ve existed in your dr since forever, your ‘cr’ mind doesn’t take over when you shift, hence why it’s so natural when you shift.

— There’s no right way to shift. I’ve shifted in different ways (sleep paralysis, lucid dreaming, just simply thinking about being there etc). You can shift in any way you like. my last shift i simply went to bed and it happened! Don’t get caught up with worrying if you’re doing the right thing and go with the flow.

— You most likely shift by allowing yourself to do it and not forcing it. That’s why people are more likely to shift on accident and not when they’re forcing it because there’s no pressure. You have either shifted or not. Decide you have and trust yourself.

— It’s the easiest thing in the world because you do it all the time. When you shift back it’s like “wait it’s that easy?”. Yes, you don’t need to affirm 500 times, visualise, meditate. It’s simply just deciding you are there and trusting yourself.

If youse have any questions please let me know <3

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definitelymaybelilac

1 month ago

SHIFTING IS A PERSONAL JOURNEY. I'M GOING TO BE A LITTLE AGGRESSIVE HERE BUT SHIFTING IS A PERSONAL JOURNEY. IN THE SENSE THAT YOU GET TO CHOOSE WHICH METHODS TO CARRY OUT, BECAUSE YOU WANT TO DO THEM. IN THE SENSE THAT YOU ARE THE "KEY" TO SHIFTING BECAUSE YOU DON'T NEED ANYTHING ELSE. IN THE SENSE THAT NO ONE CAN POLICE YOUR SHIFTING EXPERIENCES (they can judge because some things raise a few eyebrows but at the end of the day, no one can stop anyone from doing something in their dr). OKAY GOOD DAY.

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definitelymaybelilac

1 month ago

Seriously, I am so glad that shifting exists because this reality is so messed up

“you should appreciate this reality more, it might help!”

me: *takes a good hard look at this reality* uhm… no <3

why appreciate the reality where people’s rights are being taken away when i can be in a reality where things like homophobia, racism, ableism, etc. don’t exist? 🤨

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definitelymaybelilac

2 weeks ago

Goodbye, I'm going home

i am officially divorced from this reality. paperwork done. lawyers hired. fees paid. went to court. the bitch can have the kids too because i'm not bringing that baggage with me. we're over.

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definitelymaybelilac

3 weeks ago

I better shift before I have to leave for college in this reality, I'm not ready for adult life at all lol

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definitelymaybelilac

1 month ago

how to feel "i have it" when i can't see or feel it. i feel confused because it's not there so i can't feel it. even though i live like i have it but it's not there how can i feel it? please help me 😭

you’re thinking having it means seeing it. but feeling comes before seeing. it’s not about forcing yourself to believe. it’s about settling into the knowing. when you order something online, you don’t pace around doubting it’ll arrive just because it’s not in your hands yet. you just know it’s on its way. that’s the energy.

stop searching for proof. stop waiting to feel it externally. let the knowing be enough. that’s how it shows up

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definitelymaybelilac

3 weeks ago

You don’t have to act like the 3D has changed

Yes, read that again and again and again. It is 100% true.

You’re not meant to gaslight yourself and deny the 3D. You must accept that’s how THAT reality will go and that’s also NOT YOUR reality. Having a knowing of that creates disconnection between the old story and who you truly are. Not having a knowing of that and constantly worrying about it and fearing it makes you connected to your old story. Stop worrying about stuff (3D) that has nothing to do with you.

You have nothing to change but self. What I mean by that is change where your mind is at, not your thoughts. Your thoughts and mind are two different things/parts. As long as you change self it must externalize. There is nothing to change or create but your mind, you’re not creating nothing in the 3D because it is already done in your mind, only your mind matters nothing else.

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definitelymaybelilac

1 month ago

Some people do not understand how manifestation works 💀 if I say I’m a master shifter then it means I am one, no matter if I use a method or not, no matter if I shifted or not. I’m still a master shifter no matter what.

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definitelymaybelilac

4 weeks ago

Can you please create a challenge for void just by robotic affirming

Celeste's Void Challenge:

Rules for Success:

No thinking

no questioning

no doubting.

Just follow this step-by-step like a robot.

The void’s inevitable you don’t gotta "try," just let yourself realize it.

Step 1: All Day Programming

Repeat these affirmations ALL day in a chill, robotic tone (whisper, in your head, or however you feel):

"I enter the void easily." "I’m aware of the void." "The void is my natural state."

Don’t overthink it...just say them like a machine, no effort, just repetition.

Step 2: Pre Bed Void Activation

Before you crash, lay down comfortably. Say: "I’m already in the void." Keep saying it calmly as you get deeper into relaxation. Don’t "try" to enter...just assume you’re already there. If you knock out, no worries. Your subconscious got it from here.

Also in the meantime if you want you can also listen to subliminals (if you believe them)

Why This Will Work for You;

Robotic affirming clears doubt and resistance. Just go with the flow.

Your subconscious knows void already you're basically on auto-pilot now.

Reminder: You don’t gotta "try" or "feel" anything. Just chill, let it happen. You’re in the void every night...you’re just gonna notice it now. Void is inevitable. You’ve already won.