When You Tell Them You Have ADHD And Autism And They Say That's Fine But Then They Find Out It's Not

When you tell them you have ADHD and autism and they say that's fine but then they find out it's not cutesy collecting hello Kitty and bouncy stimming autism and oopsie I can't pay attention ADHD,

its I can't go in the grocery store I can't vacuum I can't do dishes because of the sensory overload

it's we can go eat at a restaurant but as soon as I start getting overwhelmed I'm going to shut down completely and dissociate but tell you I'm fine

It's please snuggle me but I have to keep my headphones on because hearing is too much right now

It's thank you this new shirtjacketbraceletnecklace you bought me is amazing and I love it but I can't wear it because it feels weird

It's I love you but sometimes your voice is too much noise and I can't look into your eyes

It's I need you near me but please don't touch me or talk or breathe too loud or cough because my brain feels like it's about to explode

It's I'm sorry I forgot you asked me to do the dishes but I know when your entire family's birthdays are and will never forget them

It's I meant to cook dinner four hours ago but I got lost in my brain and I just found my way back out and realized it's already 10pm

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He knows exactly what he’s doing with that look

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drinabarnes

1 year ago

Yes, but I’m trying to learn to not give a shit about what other people think..

Idk if that helps.. and it’s definitely not easy

sorry for so many posts

Question for fellow autistics/neurodivergent folks

Does anyone else have trauma linked to their special interest? How did you handle it and heal? How do you enjoy your favorite thing safely again? It’s been years and I’m so scared. I don’t know what to do.

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drinabarnes

1 year ago

You’re ok. I’m right here. You’re safe.

Name 5 things you can see

- You, moon, stars, curtains, blanket

Name 4 things you can feel

- Bed, blanket, your arms, your breath

Name 3 things you can hear

- Your breath, my heartbeat, the wind outside

Name 2 things you can smell

- Your hair, your skin

Name 1 thing you can taste

- Your lips

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1 year ago

You've heard of adhd/autism supremacy, now get ready for the ot3 equivalent:

Adhd/autism/anxiety

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drinabarnes

1 year ago

I have the urge to play with his hair and cuddle him all night long🥺🩵

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I wanna braid it

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drinabarnes

1 year ago

After more than two years of total silence, here I'm again.

It has been a very tough time for my mental health and I almost completely stopped drawing. This is one of the few pieces I was able to do in the last years and... it's quite indicative of the state of mind I was in xD

Thankfully it's so much better now and I'm starting to enjoy drawing again <3

(Pss… If you want to follow me also on patreon you will find many - happier and spicy - new drawings!)

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