You’re Allowed To Struggle And Complain Even If You Aren’t The “worst” You Could Be.

You’re allowed to struggle and complain even if you aren’t the “worst” you could be.

You don’t need to be positive and grateful all the time. It’s okay to have feelings about your disabilities. It’s okay to vent about them.

Just because it could be worse doesn’t mean you don’t deserve it to be better.

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1 year ago

Just screenshot this and sent it to my brother in law, who's an electrician:D

i unironically believe electricity is the closest thing we have to magic in this universe. consider:

it's basically what human "souls" are made of (your consciousness is the result of miniscule amounts of electric charge jumping between neurons in your brain)

when handled incorrectly or encountered in the wild, it is a deadly force that can kill you in at least half a dozen different ways

when treated respectfully and channeled into the proper conduits, it is a power source that forms the backbone of modern society

if you engrave the right sigils into a rock and channel electricity into it, you can make the rock think

there is a dedicated caste of mages (electrical engineers) tasked with researching it in ivory towers

whatever the fuck Galvani was doing with those frog legs

look at this and just try to tell me it isn't a kind of summoning circle

I Unironically Believe Electricity Is The Closest Thing We Have To Magic In This Universe. Consider:

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5 years ago
{let’s Keep Trying} {we’ll Get Through This}
{let’s Keep Trying} {we’ll Get Through This}

{let’s keep trying} {we’ll get through this}

7 years ago
That One Night Where Australia Is One Of Us

That one night where Australia is one of us

1 year ago

I could not agree more! You get it. Sometimes (often I feel) being disabled does make you a burden and that's okay. There should be nothing wrong or shameful about that - it is simply stating facts and acknowledging reality.

as much as i appreciate the intent of the “being disabled doesn’t make you a burden” type posts, i don’t really agree. a lot of times being disabled DOES make you a burden

& i think that maybe we should try to shift focus to the fact that even if you’re a huge burden on society and can contribute absolutely nothing, you’re still a human being who deserves to exist.

like. there’s nothing morally wrong with being a burden on other people. you aren’t a bad person for needing to rely on others. you’re allowed to be a burden & disabled people who are burdens on others, i love you


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4 years ago
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That
It’s Easier To Think Of Someone As “lazy” Than To Face The Fact That School Costs Too Much, That

It’s easier to think of someone as “lazy” than to face the fact that school costs too much, that better jobs are inaccessible, that childcare is unaffordable, that people are forced to work so hard for so little that there’s no way they could have enough energy to attempt schooling or finding better work, and that what we give to people who can’t work is insufficient to the point of being shameful. I could say that calling people lazy is, in itself, lazy, but it’s not just an intellectual shortcut. It’s a defense mechanism.

10 months ago

Visibly Disabled Nonexistence

[ Plain text: Visibly Disabled Nonexistence ]

Visibly disabled people don’t exist. We don’t get that privilege. 

We are our aids. Our deformities. Our movements that don’t match abled expectations. We are our weird noises and our inability to speak. We are medical and gross and nonhuman. We are disabled. We are not people.

We get asked about our private, personal medical information and we are to share the correct amount at all times. The correct amount is enough to satiate abled curiosity but not so much that it makes them uncomfortable. We are not to complain. We have nothing to complain about. Because we are not people.

We are fictional characters that make abled people remember how lucky they are. They would kill themselves if they were us. But they are not us. They will never be us. Because we are not people.

We cannot be happy, because we are disabled. And disability is tragic. We cannot be sad, because we’re not immediately dying. And when we’re immediately dying, that’s okay. Because we are not people.

We have to work or be in the hospital getting treatment at all times. If our lives aren’t for money, we shouldn’t exist. We don’t exist anyway. We are fictional characters. We are not people.

Our lives are simply stories made to tell children to behave. You don’t want to end up like that filthy cripple do you? You’re only a cripple when you misbehave. Because behaving makes you human. And we are not human.

We don’t exist. We are nonexistent, ungendered, unsexual disableds. We are stories. We are our disabilities first and ourselves never. Because we are not people.

7 months ago
Time Of Year I Remind Every Cane User To Get An Ice Pick So You Dont Fall And Die

time of year i remind every cane user to get an ice pick so you dont fall and die

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24, they/them, nonbinary lesbian, disabled. Studying medicine, working on my internalised ableism, prioritising finding out what I like to do. I write, ish, or try to at least and that's something

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