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IDKwhatimdoing/random fuckery

Pretty much what it says on the tin^ ao3 account @Haylee_BB ace/aro beanšŸ’œšŸ’š In a committed relationship with Barbara Manatee.

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1 month ago

the thing about disability is it really does sometimes boil down to "wow i wish i could do that" and then you can't. and it sucks.


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1 month ago

i think the reason why the assassination of Julius Caesar is one of the funniest political assassinations is for this very simple reason:

1 guy stabs 1 guy: not funny. that's murder.

2 guys stab 1 guy: even less funny. that's two against one.

60 guys stab 1 guy: uproariously funny. why do you need so many guys.


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1 month ago
Writer’s Blessing From Get Your Words Out On Dreamwidth. I Bestow It Upon Thee. Go And Be Weird.

Writer’s Blessing from Get Your Words Out on Dreamwidth. I bestow it upon thee. Go and be weird.


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1 month ago

We're soarin', flyin'

There's not a star in heaven that we can't reach

If we're tryin', so we're breaking free

We're Soarin', Flyin'
We're Soarin', Flyin'

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1 month ago

do you think insight can be gained about an author from the stories they write?

no. authors are like squids and can only be understood through spirited but ultimately futile combat

1 month ago
I Love Josh’s Anti-classism So Much. I Grew Up In A Single Parent Household That Didn’t Have Time/the

I love Josh’s anti-classism so much. I grew up in a single parent household that didn’t have time/the ability to cook. I taught myself as an adult and ended up loving it. I cook with this stuff a lot. Shit, the RealLemon juice ends up in a lot of my cocktails. Sure, I like fancy ingredients when I can afford them and I have things I get picky about using - but I have bad hands, mincing garlic is painful as fuck. There’s a lot to be said for knowing how to work with what you have. Don’t shame people for trying, don’t shame people for feeding their families things that they enjoy.

1 month ago

HOLY SHIT THIS IS SO GOOD!!!!

Billy SurvivesĀ / Billy Rescue Mission

aka how I cope post-ST4 LOL. Dedicated to @memes-saved-me thank you so much for making this possibleĀ ā™”


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1 month ago

ā€œwhat radicalized youā€ bro EMPATHY

1 month ago
Martha Gellhorn, From A Letter Featured In The Selected Letters Of Marth Gellhorn

Martha Gellhorn, from a letter featured in The Selected Letters of Marth Gellhorn

1 month ago

ace culture is making a lot of sex jokes because it's hard for you to think of sex as anything but a punchline or narrative tool

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2 months ago

the idea that it’s ā€˜creepy’ to interact with things posted a long time ago is so terrible for artists and contributes to the pressure to be constantly creating new work, at an unhealthy and unsustainable rate. I hate it so much.

2 months ago

and I am simultaneously both

There are two types of writers:

1. 'It's fiction, it doesn't need to make sense!'

2. 'I didn't account for the rotation of the planet and how that affects the constalations while my characters stargazed at different times of year, I have failed as a writer, and this entire thing is trash'


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2 months ago

"The Sins of the Father" Invalidates the Individual

I'm a woman with PCOS, which means I have an excessive amount of body hair, most noticeably on my face. This is something I struggle with a lot, and my mom once apologized to me for it. She told me a story of something she did when she was younger that could have led to this happening as a sort of "Sins of the Father" type thing.

I won't get into the details of that discussion as it was very personal, but it did get me thinking about the concept as a whole, and it's one of the many things I've been taught growing up with religion that, upon reflection, is super fucked up.

Using myself as an example, not only is it unfair that I would be punished for something I had absolutely nothing to do with, but I also don't like what this implies about my personal autonomy. My problems are my own. My struggles, my pain, are my own and not something to be used as a punishment for someone else. I know my mom didn't in any way mean to be invalidating. This is just a part of her beliefs, and I respect that, but it did make me think.

How many people open up about their pain, only to have that pain taken over by someone else?

How audacious to think that you, a person who has not experienced what I have and do not know how it affects me, feel those affects more deeply than I do. And that is what this implies, that this problem I have is somehow more your cross to bare than mine. It's insulting.

It is also so unnecessary. Religion already places so much guilt onto our shoulders, we are born in sin, we live in sin, we die in sin, and the only way to escape is to live our lives constantly apologizing for ourselves. Don't add to that weight by taking burdens that aren't yours.


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2 months ago

Daydreaming is an important part of writing. Even without words pouring out onto paper, you're still the author of stories.


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2 months ago

one tectonic plate approaching another

ā€œso are you a top or a bottom?ā€

2 months ago

Metanoia-verse Family Tree

Shit is gonna get real complicated, but no more so than canon, I'd say.

Metanoia-verse Family Tree
Metanoia-verse Family Tree
Metanoia-verse Family Tree

You may have to zoom to make out the words. These are just shitty pictures of my computer screen because I do not have the space to download the full file lol


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2 months ago

Wtf happened to Mina?

This might be dumb of me to ask, but I genuinely cannot remember any mention of her after they broke her out of the loop? Did she cross over? Is she just hanging out in the theater by herself? It seems odd that they would introduce her and then do nothing with her, especially as this season is delving more into the ghost lore and adding to the ensemble cast. I wonder if the writers forgot about her or if she'll come back up at a later date.


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2 months ago

thank you dash for giving me what I needšŸ˜­ā¤ļø

Reminder: It doesn't matter if you're "behind" from others. It's alright if you feel like people have accieved more than you. Life isn't a race of who can do more in their first 30 years. Hell, I see teenagers saying they have failed or that they aren't good enough, when things like that are not in the least important. You have so many years infront of you, no one's chasing you down. Don't beat yourself up.


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2 months ago

You should be able to say ā€œdon’t touch meā€ to anyone ever in any context and not have it be considered in the realm of surprising or insulting imho if we ever needed to normalize something it’s this

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