please don’t ignore: help a vulnerable black trans man escape an abusive relationship and move back home
okay so a lot of you know my bf is a narcissist & an alcoholic, but his abuse has gotten worse and i don’t have the funds to leave. after he found out i was making plans, he snapped and bruised my arm badly today. i fear for my safety. need moving /motel fees so i can stay with family in georgia. i really would like to get out this weekend. anything helps but my goal is 300 for a couple nights hotel, food, and gas. https://ko-fi.com/giowalker1 cash app: giowalkers
Part One Study Basics
The Pseudo Worker looks and feels like someone who is working hard, but because of a lack of focus and concentration doesn’t actually accomplish much. It wastes time and is mentally draining.
Work accomplished = time spent x intensity of focus.
The best students gain efficiency by compressing work into focused bursts.
MANAGE YOUR TIME IN 5 MINUTES A DAY
All your to-dos and deadlines on your calendar become a master schedule. Look at it to figure out what you should try and finish that day. Throughout the day every new to-do or deadline is added to the list. Then transfer the list onto your calendar
Every morning update your calendar and decide what you’ll accomplish. Write the deadlines on the appropriate dates and the to-dos on the days when you plan to complete them.
Move the to-dos you planned for yesterday but didn’t complete to new days on your calendar. Each new day you can throw away yesterdays list and begin a new list for today. Divide it into two columns, ‘todays schedule’ and ‘things to remember’. Figure out how much from your list you can realistically accomplish.
Label each of your to-dos for the day with a specific time period during which you’re going to complete it. Be honest.
The things to remember column enables you to remember to schedule in longer tasks that require attention and effort you don’t have at the time of writing.
DECLARE WAR ON PROCRASTNATION
Use a ‘work in progress journal’ in order to physically write down your excuses for not doing your work. Your ego won’t like the truth so it will kick-start you will to do the work.
Drink water constantly, monitor caffeine intake carefully, treat food as a source of energy not satisfaction, and don’t skip meals.
Make working on difficult tasks an event, Go out of your way to work in a new environment etc.
Build a routine, let a simply good habit greatly reduce the effort required to launch a productive day.
Schedule extremely difficult and intense work days ahead of time.
WHEN, WHERE, HOW LONG
Do work as early as you can as the most distracting hours are after dinner time. Fill in any small patches of free time with productive work.
Studying in isolation frees you from distraction.
Study for no more than an hour at a time without a break
Part Two ☆ Part Three
🎀🧸 bimbo look essentials
the bimbo is the girl whose head is consumed in thoughts of how pretty she is, how hot she always looks, and how everyone is obsessed with her.
makeup:
perfect. 24/7. focus on falling in love with your features and playing them up with your makeup. plump lips, doll like lashes and pretty peachy pink blush are go tos for me personally! highlight under your brow’s arch with a slightly shimmery powder or cream highlighter. bimbos only believe in pink lips, soft pink pretty lips. find a signature pink lippie that’s perf for you and keep one on you. apply it constantly. as Cher Horowitz said: “anything you can do to draw attention to your mouth is good!” she spends forever on her makeup when she’s getting ready but everyone can tell she’s a natural beauty.
fashion:
straight out of a Victoria’s Secret pink catalog from 2009. always cute. always pretty. consistently. her signature color is pink. she’s mastered the cute and comfy but still sexy and alluring look. this can be done with tracksuits, uggs, leggings, comfy sweaters, etc. lots of heels. as high as you can stand it and work your way up. everything she wears conforms and shows off her figure. cutest sandals with glitter and such in the summer. lots of mini dresses. a resident bimbo, Paris Hilton, explains it nearly perfectly here. I disagree with the point about uggs, uggs are essentials to not only bimbos but prissy girls in general. and NO trucker hats, ew. 
nails and hair:
pornstar from 2007 all the way. we want pink. we want frenchies. not too long but definitely not stubs. try cute BUT simple additions like glitter, charms, rhinestones but nothing too gaudy. ponytails. big bombshell hair. scrunchies. hair clips. anything to play up your doll like features while also amping up your sex appeal. shake your hair out with your hands all day to keep it big and pretty.
more tips:
cleavage and skin! tastefully but show it nonetheless. push up bras will be your best friend
you have to keep the appearance that you’re not thinking about anything. except yourself. pull your mirror out and blow kisses at yourself every 10 minutes
cute jewelry are a must. again, anything to push your doll like features. my signature is hoops, charm bracelet, and heart shaped charm necklace. find any and every excuse to show off your belly button ring. and if you don’t have one, get it.
bimbos don’t care. they simply don’t. so wear what you want and what makes you feel like the second you walk out the door you’re going to be greeted with gifts and men kissing your feet. if you need help adjusting your mindset check this post out! <3
Turning your life around? Coming out of a funk? Getting over a breakup? Need to reignite your spark for life? Need to feel in control? Want a boost of confidence? Dealing with low self esteem?
Where to start:
Exercise every day
Skincare + makeup of personal preference (yes this includes not wearing makeup at all if that is your personal preference)
Hair done
Showered and moisturized
At least one hobby you engage with on a daily/frequent basis
At least one skill you are developing on a daily/frequent basis
If you haven’t gotten a 7 day workout streak and completed the other bullet points on this list yet, stop moaning, get to work, and kill your distractions.
This is level 0.
*゚:༅ 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 ✿⌒*・゚
commanding your subconscious is so simple and so easy, just like any other manifestation technique. to do it, you don't need to do any specific prep or work, you just need to...
know what you desire and claim it
command your subconscious for your desire
trust, believe, and know that your subconscious will get you your desire
continue on with your day as usual without doubts or worries
and that's it! it's that simple. results can come in an instant if that's what you want and what you assume
*゚:༅ 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞 ✿⌒*・
let's say i want 50 dollars
first, i would know and claim my desire. my desire is 50 dollars.
now, i would command my subconscious for my desire by saying or thinking "subconscious, i command you to get me 50 dollars."
after that, i don't second guess myself or put doubts on my command. i live in the state of knowing that my subconscious is getting me my desire and that i will get my 50 dollars.
i continue on with my day, again, with no doubts or worries
i get my 50 dollars, however it may be, because i trusted my subconscious and knew i would get what i wanted.
( ✿ ) you can command your subconscious for anything, there are no limits. you can command it for instant results, getting into the void, self concept, anything.
don't overcomplicate it!
Not the same anon but I have a couple questions. Can I put self concept affs into one aff or is it better to do multiple. And what amino community has the how to shift effortlessly post because on google when I go it takes me to the website where it says 502 bad gateway.
Hi dear, I recommend you to put self concept affs into one aff because it will be easier for you to loop in your mind. Also, smh...the entire app Amino has been down all day today. I will give you a summary of the article. You don't need to do anything to shift, shifting can be effortless as long as you think it is. Simply affirm: "Shifting is so effortless for me," "I can shift on command at any time," "I can shift whenever I desire," "I can shift at any time of the day." Loop these affs in your mind and persist no matter what. Eventually the person said that they were able to shift with their eyes open but do keep in mind it will take time to get to this point depending on how much you affirm and how disciplined you are with your mental diet. Shifting is all about your mindset and setting that intention. I hope that this helps
As summer is unfortunately slowly coming to an end it’s time to prepare for a hot girl school year and semester. Having a hot girl semester to me means being organized, studious, consistent, disciplined, motivated and looking hot doing it 💅🏾💕. Beauty 🎀and brains 🧠. We’re getting good grades, handing in our assignments early, being on top of everything and being THAT student.
Get an academic planner or just a general planner when you get your syllabus for your classes write all your due dates and assignments.
Notion is an amazing app for productivity and organization. Especially for school. There’s academic templates like due dates, grade calculators, study notes and etc. you can customize and make everything your own add pictures and designs to make everything look cute.
Download your required apps. Some schools may require you to download grammarly, Microsoft teams or etc. read your syllabus and make sure you download everything required before hand and make accounts.
Create a back to school shopping list. Essentials needed for school ( eg. backpack, purse, laptop, headphones, tablet, dorm items, textbooks, stationary).
All the mood-boards on my blog are motivation I try to make them for all majors, to be able to print out and place in your school binders, or use as screen savers to look at, to get you started when you feel like giving up. Remember why you’re doing this. When it gets hard remember the goal, your future self and the lifestyle and career you want.
We all know Legally Blonde is THAT Movie, it’s great to watch before the school year. I like to watch it before each semester because even though it’s fictional we can all learn a lot from Elle woods. Her determination, her discipline and motivation we see that brought her success. “ I’m going to Harvard, I don’t need back ups”“ What like it’s hard?” “ I’ll show you how valuable Elle Woods can be”
Motivation is the start, discipline keeps you consistent. Sometimes you may be lazy or don’t feel like studying but you need to get into a routine and form habits that you do everyday to keep you in a consistent cycle. It takes 21 days to form a habit. If you create a routine and a schedule after a while it’ll become a natural thing for you.
Active recall
pomodoro technique (study with Elle woods pomodoro technique)
Flash cards
Listening to recorded lectures
Reflecting on what you took from a lesson and writing down everything you remember ( mind map)
Teaching what you learned to someone
Putting away your phone or putting it on DND mode
Cleaning and organizing your space prior to studying
Making sure you study on a full stomach or snack while studying
Studying in a quiet calm space
Studying to learn and understand, not just memorize
Having group study sessions or study dates
Physical appearance is important. When you look good you’ll feel better. It’s about confidence and self esteem. Presenting your best self. A new school year a is fresh start. Buy a new wardrobe, a new bag, new accessories. Upgrade your appearance, upgrade your style. Back to school shopping is my favourite, it’s so refreshing and cleansing in a way. After summer, a back to school glow up is essential.
As much as it’s annoying to do, for online school looking good and turning your camera on during class meetings and lessons is important. It lets your professors get a better impression of you and they will remember you more. Because of pretty privilege it’s possible physical appearance can = better grades in school. Look presentable for online classes as much as you would for in person and you’ll see a difference with the relationship between you and your professors and your grades. But of course you can’t just rely on that alone you need to also do the work.
Multitask beauty regimes and studying. Study at the salon while getting your hair or nails done, study while doing a face mask and waiting for it to dry, listen to lectures while at the spa or getting your eyelashes done. Don’t neglect your beauty regime and appointments because of school. You can do both or schedule time do complete both.
Be aware of accessibility services and accommodation services within your school like counsellor, social workers, child and youth workers and tutors and book appointments in advance or as needed.
Talk to your professors about extensions on assignments for when you feel overwhelmed or alternative spaces to do test if available.
Practice stress relieving habits like exercising, going on walks, deep breathing, journaling when feeling overwhelmed and under pressure.
There are three parts of a breakthrough. Usually, people go through these steps backwards, so it doesn't last.
Step 3: Strategy
the 'how'
simple is sexy
but willpower alone isn't enough, so we must look at step 2
Step 2: Story
the 'why'
what you believe to be true about life
what you tell yourself over and over again
let go of limiting beliefs
change your story to an empowering story
Step 1: Our State
emotional, energetic, psychological state
energy is everything
good energy is a habit. you can choose your thoughts like you choose your lipstick
bad, stagnant energy leads to bad, stagnant decisions
what are you focusing on?
focus = feeling
pick good feeling thoughts. focus on your compelling future.
it happens over days, weeks, months
Become aware of your thoughts
becoming aware of your thoughts is half the battle
train your mindset like a muscle
"hey that was a thought that didn't make me feel good. Now I know what I don't want and I have more clarity on what I do want. So now I'm going to think more of what I do want and less of what I don't"
this thought makes me feel better so I'm going to think this way
creating new neurological pathways
your mind doesn't know the difference between reality and imagination
It's about identity shifting
don't try to just quit candy. believe you are someone who doesn't eat candy.
choose what is on brand for you / part of your new identity
____________
what was your old story?
what was your old identity?
what were your old beliefs and limiting beliefs?
what is your NEW identity?
what are your NEW beliefs?
those limiting beliefs were subjective, not true, based on experience not fact
_____________
♡ what did you do to get there?
♡ What are you currently doing?
♡ What are you feeling?
♡ What are you thinking?
♡ What state are you in every day?
♡ What are your beliefs?
♡ What are your habits?
♡ Why does that work?
✧・゚:* ~♡
Happiness
happiness does not come from the destination
progress is what makes us happy
becoming the person we have always wanted to be
changing for the better
[an loa rant, ⚠️blunt, honest not sugarcoating !!]
i usually try to be nicer BUT i just needed to put this out there.
i love answering asks and helping everyone. i love hearing when people get success. but sometimes i get the same asks over and over again and I'm repeating myself over and over again. and then i see a lot of bloggers getting the same ask. honestly, this is the law of assumption. it's nothing more than assumptions creates reality.
baby, if u feel tired, take a break. practice self care and pamper urself. if ur gonna constantly scroll on tumblr or whatever, then that's on u. if ur donna decide to overconsume instead of apply, instead of deciding that your desires are already yours, well i can't do anything about that. only you can change yourself. only u can change ur reality. nobody else can manifest for u. only if you change yourself first, you 3d will change. it's the law. aint nothing can be done about that. either apply and get ur desires or do nothing and get nothing.
and literally manifesting should take no effort. it's just thinking and accepting and knowing that it's already happened. if ur too lazy to even do that, then what are you gonna do? u didn't even need to move a finger to do this and yet you decide it's too much "work" for you? you keep copy and pasting the same ask to 9999 bloggers and that aint enough for you? you keep asking for "motivation" when you wouldn't even put in the work? and this "work" you refuse to put in doesn't even require lifting a damn finger? what?? i don't understand then. you gotta put in that "work" before you even feel motivated. trust me, you won't feel motivated until you get started and start applying and get towards ur goal. get off ur damn phone already. please. at least go outside and touch grass.
sweetie, you don't need to put ur life on hold either. literally give urself a break. let go of those non-existent "doubts." go take a walk, do some self care, spend time with friends and family. enjoy life while manifesting. if 3d circumstances are tough, be tougher. don't let it break you down. use ur imagination. take care of responsibilities in the 3d but persist in ur assumptions still. oh my god, what else is there that u need to know? please apply it alright.
i wrote this in this ask but i feel like i should put it in a separate post.
get off tumblr stop reading this info u already know what to do u don't need bloggers to give u advice or motivate u. u need to change and control urself. i keep getting the same asks again and again and i keep repeating the same thing over and over again. apply. accept and know it's done bc creation is finished. persist. be consistent. I'm so sorry if this sounds cold or blunt but i feel like I'm sugarcoating way too much when i answer asks so they never actually apply what i say. doesn't matter if there's motivation or not. u need to actually apply before u feel motivated.
THE REALITY YOU ARE EXPERIENCING RIGHT NOW IS THE RESULTS OF YOUR PERSISTED PAST THOUGHTS.
IF YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE NEW REALITY, THEN YOU HAVE TO PRESIST IN THE NEW THOUGHTS OF YOUR NEW REALITY.
THAT MEAN
NEW THOUGHTS = NEW REALITY
THERE IS LITERALLY NOTHING RIGID IN YOUR REALITY (EX. 24 HRS IN A DAY) BUT THEY SEEM RIGID CAUSE YOUR THOUGHTS ARE RIGID.
IF YOU JUST PRESIST IN A NEW THOUGHTS (EX. 48 HRS IN A DAY) THEN THAT WILL BE YOUR NEW REALITY.
EVERYTHING IN YOUR REALITY IS ORIGINATED FROM YOU PRESISTED THOUGHTS THAT MEANS JUST BY THINKING DIFFERENT THOUGHTS YOU CAN LITERALLY CHANGE YOUR REALITY.
WE ARE ALWAYS MANIFESTING THAT MEANS YOU CANT FUCKING STOP MANIFESTING. SO WHY DON'T MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE
THERE IS LITERALLY NO PROCESSS OF MANIFESTING ANYTHING (UNLESS YOU THINK THAT WAY) THAT MEANS YOU CAN SPEAK & UNDERSTAND ANY LANGUAGE WITHOUT EVER ACTUALLY LEARNING THAT LANGUAGE OR YOU CAN BE A MATH GENIUS WITHOUT EVER TOUCHING A MATH'S BOOK.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO FUCKING WORRY ABOUT BEING SPECIFIC ABOUT YOUR MANIFESTATION CAUSE YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND/HIGHER SELF KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT CAUSE THEY ARE YOU, THEY NOT SOMETHING SEPERATE FROM YOU. THEY ARE YOU.
JUST REMEMBER THAT ONLY PRESISTED THOUGHTS MANIFEST IN YOUR REALITY, SO DON'T WORRY IF YOU GET NEGATIVE THOUGHTS ONCE IN A WHILE.
YOU ALREADY HAVE WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR 4D WORLD, THAT MEANS YOU'RE NOT IN THE PROCESS OF MANIFESTING ANYTHING.
YOU'RE JUST BEING CONSCIOUS OF WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR 4D REALITY, SO THAT'S WHY IT IS IMPORTANT TO PRESIST IN YOUR NEW REALITY.
THE MOMENT YOU START BEING CONSCIOUS OF YOUR NEW REALITY, THE OLD REALITY YOU SEE IN FRONT OF YOU HAS ALREADY DIED(SO WHY WOULD YOU REACT OR WORRY ABOUT YOUR OLD DEAD REALITY & REACTING TO YOUR DEAD REALITY MOST OF THE TIME IS LIKE GIVING LIFE TO A DEAD).
IF YOU EVER HAVE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS, JUST KNOW THAT THAT IS YOUR DEAD REALITY'S THOUGHTS, STOP RIGHT THERE TELL YOURSELF - "THAT'S MY DEAD REALITY'S THOUGHTS, CAUSE I HAVE ALREADY WHAT I WANT IN MY REALITY".
SO ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE WHAT'S WRONG OR RIGHT, JUST DO WHAT YOU WANT.
- I WILL BE TAKING A BREAK FROM A TUMBLR & WAIT FOR ME TO COME UP WITH MY OWN SUCCESS STORY.
- I HOPE IT WAS HELPFUL & SEE YOU ALL SOON:)
Hello my loves! I post about shifting quite often but I've realized that not everyone knows how to shift. It's actually very simple! Trust me, a full guide isn't really necessary but I know it can be fun to read it out. By the end of this, you'll be surprised at how easy it is!
First, what exactly is shifting?
Well, there are actually a lot of theories! There is no solid answer because that'll change based on your own personal beliefs. In its simplest definition, shifting is shifting your awareness to a different reality. The belief of shifting requires you to believe in other realities, regardless of how you think that works.
What are some key terms?
DR- Desired/Dream Reality, WR- Waiting Room, CR- Current Reality, OR- Old/Original Reality, Methods- a process to help you shift, Safe Word/Action- A word/phrase that you say or an action that you do that shifts you somewhere else, most often used to shift back to your CR or WR.
How do I shift?
It's very simple! The intention to shift is all you actually need. Methods, scripting, meditation, and all that other extra stuff are just tools that you can use to shift. However, it's important to remember that they aren't necessary. You don't need them at all! All you need is an intention to shift.
So how do we do that? How do we just set an intention and shift? Again, it's very simple!
By definition, intention means, "a thing intended; an aim or plan". Deciding to eat an apple when you're hungry is an intention. Deciding to wake up at 8 am is an intention. Don't overthink this! Literally just making the decision to do something is how to set an intention. And then decide to follow through with that plan.
I know it may seem difficult, maybe even confusing - I completely understand. Whenever you want to shift, simply decide that you're shifting. Tell yourself that you're going to shift no matter what! Trust in your ability to do that. Shifting is easy! People have been doing it for hundreds of years, so trust me when I say you can too. Set the intention by making the decision to shift and just let yourself go. Try to trust in yourself and in your abilities.
What are methods?
A method is simply a process you do to shift. They can focus on visualizing, feeling your DR, focusing your mind, etc. Oftentimes methods help you feel more relaxed and help you focus your attention on your DR/WR so you can shift easily. However, it's important to note that they aren't needed to shift. Always remember, it's not the method that shifts you, it's you. That's why some people will shift instantly using the Raven Method while others never do. It's all about the person!
For specific methods, I recommend searching "shifting methods" and finding one that looks interesting to you!
Some important things to note about methods:
You don't need to do it exactly the same way as other people (change them to your heart's content). If you like a method but a specific part seems boring or uncomfortable, just don't do it. Trust me, changing a method won't affect how well it works because
Every method works well.
If a method doesn't work, it likely has to do with your mindset, not the method itself (because again, all methods work).
No method is stronger than another, it's all about the person using them.
You should ideally be using a method that makes you feel comfortable. Don't force yourself to use one you don't like just because other people have had success with it.
Time Ratio
Your time ratio is essentially how time moves while you're in your DR/WR. If you were to shift with no script/intentions, time would pass normally while you're there. So if you shift to your DR and you stay there for a week, when you shift back to your CR a week would have gone by. If two months pass by in your DR, two months pass by in your CR. Time essentially moves at the same pace in both realities!
However, not everyone wants time to pass in their CRs so to avoid this we can script/intend a time ratio. This ratio can be anything you want! For instance, if one year passes in your DR, only one hour passes in your CR. With this time ratio in mind, if you've been in your DR for one year, when you shift back, only one hour would have passed (so if you shift at 2 pm, when you shift back it would be 3 pm). You can also script/intend that no time passes while you're shifting. Pretty cool right?
This time ratio is often used by shifters to avoid missing things in their CR however, it can be flipped to make time move faster! For example, if one week passes in your DR, 1 year passes in your CR. People don't do this as often but you can do it!
Mindset
Do you need a good mindset to shift? No? Does it help? Yes.
Your thoughts about shifting are important! Do you think shifting is hard to do? Do you think you need methods? Do you think you need to be 100% relaxed and have no doubts to shift? Do you think you need to meditate, affirm, and count to 100 multiple times a day?
All of these things are called beliefs and, as most of you probably know, sometimes beliefs can be limiting. As in they literally limit you from your full potential. Now, it's perfectly okay to have doubts and limiting beliefs and you can still shift while having them. However, if you find that you have difficulty shifting, it's likely due to your mindset and potential limiting beliefs. When you have the time and energy, go through what you know and believe about shifting. Is there anything up there that could be discouraging you or even outright stopping you?
How to have a good mindset?
Know that shifting is inherently easy and that you can shift easily whenever you want
Believe that you have a good mindset
Work through any limiting beliefs you may have
Know that you can still shift while having doubts and limiting beliefs
Know that you can still shift while having a "bad" mindset
Don't put shifting or your DR on a pedestal
Know that you don't need to do anything special to shift (you don't need to meditate, script, count, drink extra water, etc. you just need you).
Scripting
What is it and how do we do it? Like everything else that involves shifting, it's pretty easy!
Scripting is a way to visualize and plan your DR. It's not necessary; you do not need to script. You can write out your script anywhere! And you can be as specific or as vague as you want. Scripts are personal so don't worry about it being perfect. It's literally just a tool to help you shift! You don't need it, it doesn't have to be perfect, and it doesn't need to be aesthetic or organized. Just write down whatever you want to include about your DR!
Scripts often include details about your DR and DR self. It can also include points on safety, relationships, rules, specific moments, etc. But again, please remember that this step isn't necessary and you don't need to add all of this even if you do make a script.
I'm going to be posting a more detailed guide on scripting soon and I'll link it here when it's finished. For now, stop worrying so much about all the fine details, and just let your mind flow! You can script however you want!
What are clones?
Please read these two posts first! TLDR: clones are you. It's your consciousness, your body, you. Clones are honestly named very badly. They aren't an actual copy of you and as such you don't need to worry about them doing something you wouldn't. They are you. The term "clone" is merely describing the process through which your physical body and mind still exist in your CR while you're shifting somewhere else. It's essentially you on autopilot. You know how your DR self already exists and is living their life even though you're not actively aware of that reality yet? It's the same thing with clones! They're just yourself in your CR when you're not there. But they are not a separate person and you'll never have to worry about them doing something horrible or weird. Your clone is you.
Affirming
Affirmations are phrases that affirm something to be true, often repeated to really drive the message home. You do not need to affirm to shift, however, it can help you to shift, build confidence, and have a healthier mindset toward shifting. You can say them in your head or out loud, and you can say them once or however many times you want.
Some common shifting affirmations are: I have shifted, I am shifting, I am in my DR/WR, Shifting is as easy breathing, I am 100% in control of my reality, I am a master shifter, I give myself permission to shift, Nothing holds me back from shifting.
These are just some examples, you don't need to use them and you can change them if you do. Affirming should feel natural to you but it's okay if you feel awkward at first (a lot of people do).
LIFA App
The LIFA app is an application that can appear on your technological devices and anywhere else you want (journals, closets, mirrors etc). It's a tool used by shifters with a lot of different features! You don't need to use it, it's just an option.
Like I said, it has a lot of functions but it's most commonly used for manifesting, editing, scripting, shifting, finances, relationships, and checking in on your clone. Shifters mostly use the LIFA app to make their experience in their DR better. You can use it to manifest food, change your outfit, edit your script, shift somewhere else, etc. Really it can be used for anything you can think of! You can also script/intend that no one in your DR can see it except for you.
Quick questions
Can I still shift with doubts/limiting beliefs?
Yes! 100% yes!! Tons of people have shifted while having doubts about it. You can go through practically any social media site and half of the success stories start with "so I shifted even though I wasn't trying/didn't believe". It's 100% possible so don't worry too much!
Can I get stuck in my DR?
No! Just like you can't be stuck in your CR, you can't get stuck in your DR.
What is a waiting room?
A WR is literally just another reality! People tend to use it as an in-between shifting experience however, you don't need to. You don't need a waiting room at all!
Waiting rooms can be anything you want, ranging from a simple bedroom to a full blown city. Anything you can imagine! You can shift there to relax, work on scripts, hang out with friends, shift to other realities, etc. Literally whatever you want :)
Do I have to visualize?
No. You don't need to do anything! You just need the intention, that's it.
How do I shift back to my CR?
You can use a safe word/action, set the intention, or even do a method. The act of shifting back is the exact same as shifting to so just do whatever you want!
What are symptoms?
Symptoms are more often than not just your body falling asleep while your mind stays awake. That's basically it. Not every shifter will experience them and they aren't "necessary" or even a sign that you're shifting. It's literally just a physical sensation of your body falling asleep (even if you're doing an awake method!). So don't panic if you don't experience symptoms, they're not a big indicator.
How to motivate myself?
Honestly, that'll change for everyone. My advice would be to remind yourself of why you want to shift in the first place. Do you want to live a better life? Or maybe just go on a fun adventure with friends? Every reason is equally important and I find that it's a big factor in keeping yourself motivated to shift.
You can also think about your DR/WR in more detail; what you like about it, what you're excited to experience, who you want to hang out with, etc.
Can I script this/shift here?
Yes. You can script whatever you want and go wherever you want. There are no exceptions to this!
Can I shift permanently/do I have to come back?
Read these two posts please!
Do I have to fall asleep to shift?
No. Like I said before, you just need the intention to shift. That means you can shift whenever you want, however you want. You don't need to be asleep or even relaxed!
Extra tips?
Have fun with it! Shifting should always be fun so if you find yourself getting really stressed or upset, either take a break or assess why you're feeling that way and try to solve the issue if you can. But most of all, have fun with shifting!
Be easy on yourself! It's okay if you don't shift on your first try. Always assume that you will shift but don't beat yourself up if you don't.
Don't compare yourself to others. Even after consciously shifting for the first time, some people end up comparing themselves to other shifters. This happens even more often with new shifters. Comparing your shifting journey will just make you feel bad and inadequate. This kind of goes into the "have fun" tip. Anything you could do that makes you feel bad or demotivated just isn't worth your time.
Try not to worry too much about intrusive thoughts. They can't manifest because you don't actually want them, therefore, you won't accidentally shift somewhere you don't want to. I recommend repeating the phrases, "I am safe. I am protected" until you know them to be true if you're worried about safety.
Figure out what works for you! Some people prefer sleep methods while others prefer awake methods. Some people have 50 page scripts while others have one sentence written on their arm. Give yourself the time to figure out what works for you and makes you comfortable.
Never take no for an answer. Don't let failure be an option. Failure isn't even in your vocabulary! Adopt the mindset of a master shifter and you will be.
Alright... I think that's it? This post is super long holy shit I didn't expect that when I first started it. Most of this is just technical mumbo jumbo anyway. Remember! Shifting is easy! You've done it before a million times and you'll do it again! Conscious shifting is also super easy. If you assume that shifting is hard, then it will be. If you assume that you can't do it, you won't. Always assume that you can shift, that you are a master shifter, that shifting is the easiest thing in the world (because it is!).
You already are a master shifter. You just need to let yourself do what you've always done. So get off tumblr dot com and go live your dream life!!! You got this babe!!!