“why Has It Been Taking So Long To See Results?”

hey there, hope you are doing well! 💗 I came here from another loa blog because they said I should talk to you!

well, I'm a reality shifter for more than a year now, but I've never shifted before. I've already tried many different methods, subliminals, and affirmations, but nothing seems to work for me. I search about shifting, work to improve my self-concept and try hard to not obsess over shifting and manifestation in general, but Iʼm still stuck in this reality. I know that I don't need anything except my intention to shift, but even when I set my most powerful intention to go to my dr and truly believe in it, I always end up waking up here in this shitty reality.

I try not to worry about it and keep in mind that is just a matter of time for me to fully shift and finally be with my ccs, but it's so fucking hard to keep being optimistic when you fail in each one of your attempts...

I don't know what to do, but I hope you can help me to succeed in my shifting journey! 🥺

- With love, your new 🐁 anon. 🖤

Hi dear, thank you so much for coming to me. Welcome to the baddie army/fam 🖤🤗 I’m so happy to have you here. I completely understand your frustrations, and I am so proud of you for not giving up no matter what. What I highly suggest you to do is to start going back to the basics. So stop focusing on shifting itself (like the practice) and write down all of your honest beliefs on how you view shifting them flip those assumptions to the fact that shifting is easy. You will go on a strict mental diet to change your mindset towards shifting because that is the key. I was actually on the same exact boat as you, until I discovered this gem. Please look up “how to shift effortlessly” amino rrmika. I don’t know why but the app is down so it won’t let me tag the post. That was a huge gamechanger! Also, applying the law of assumption to shifting has helped a lot too, the law is the key to shifting. As long as you keep affirming and persisting no matter what that you will shift then you will inevitably shift no matter what. You don’t need to believe to shift you can even shift with doubts just keep telling yourself that shifting is easy and effortless no matter what and that you will shift no matter what. You got this love 🖤 nothing except yourself is stopping you from shifting. I hope that this helps I can’t wait to hear your shifting success story 🤗 pls ask me more questions if you need more help

At home spa day

Beforehand:

Declutter your space

Light scented candles

Put on a playlist/podcast/audiobook

Pour yourself a drink

Make sure you have all materials within reach

Feet:

Remove old nail polish

Soak feet in a foot bath prepared with salts

Exfoliate & remove death skin

Cut nails

File nails

Take out gunk between nail & skin

Cut cuticles if needed + push them back

Apply a new coat of nail polish

Apply cuticle oil and foot cream

Hands:

Remove old nail polish

File nails in desired shape and length

Apply cutticle remover and push back/cut any cuticles

Buff nails

Apply a new coat of nail polish

Apply cuticle oil and hand cream

Hair:

Latter your hair in a hair oil/mask

Double rinse with first a cleansing and then nourishing shampoo

Apply conditioner to only the ends and rinse

Dry as needed for your hair type

Body:

If you wax, dry exfoliate

Apply baby powder to desired areas

Wax desired areas

If you shave, exfoliate in shower

Shave desired areas

Use body scrub over entire body

Lather yourself in nice smelling soap

Apply anti hair growth serum

Moisturise

Face:

Remove makeup

Cleanse thoroughly

Steam your face

Exfoliate

Pluck/wax eyebrows and any other facial hair

Apply face mask

Rinse

Massage face

Tone

Add serum and any other product needed for your specific skin type/condition

Moisturise

guide to states

NO ONE TO CHANGE BUT SELF

-what is a state? it is a collection of thoughts, feelings, emotions, & beliefs that you identify with. it is who you are being. your I AM

you are ALWAYS in a state. we go in & out of states ALL day. there are INFINITE realities & YOU choose what state to occupy. when we say that creation is finished that is exactly what it means. you do not have to create anything. there's a version of you that is rich & one that is poor. one in a loving relationship & one where you are single. being a good student or a bad student. having your dream job or a job you hate. etc. YOU get to CHOOSE which state you experience. if you can see something in your mind & think what it would be like to experience those things, then it is possible. imagination is the only reality. nothing can happen unless it is experienced in imagination FIRST.

how do i get into a state?

decide what you want to manifest

fulfill yourself in imagination to get into the wish fulfilled

how do i get into the wish fulfilled?

you could just say "i am in the state" or "i am in the wish fulfilled" & you're in it! it is as easy as intending to be in it

use methods to help maintain the state

affirming- pick a few affirmations that help you to capture the feeling (knowing) that your desire is a fact in imagination. (how do i feel now that i have my desire? what would i be thinking if i had my desire?) whatever answer you had to those questions, would be great affirmations! make them yourself. don't ask someone to make some for you. affirmations should be NATURAL to YOU. affirming is not something that should be forced. there is a BIG difference between having natural thoughts & forcing yourself to think structured sentences. you do NOT need to affirm 24/7. why? bc that is not NATURAL & you were not doing that before you found out about the law. also, affirmations DO NOT get you into the state, they are a technique that is used to MAINTAIN the state of wish fulfilled. personally, when i enter the wish fulfilled, i feel calm, peaceful, and content. i feel the inner KNOWING that my desire is fulfilled (bc it is) and thoughts come to me NATURALLY. thoughts come from your state, so they are a great indicator to help you know which state you're in.

visualizing- spend time in imagination. (what would a a day look like with my desire?) visualize where you want to be/what you want to experience. visualize a scene that implies that you have your desire. keep doing this until you have the feeling that it is a fact in your imagination.

scripting- write a diary entry. describe what a day would look like with your desire. get as detailed as you want. you are the author.

inner conversations- this can kind of go together with visualizing. talk to someone in imagination about your desire, talk to the person you desire, or imagine someone congratulating you for obtaining your desire.

SATS (state akin to sleep)- do this as you're about to fall asleep. visualize one scene that implies that you have your desire on a loop until you fall asleep. feel the scene to be real (bc it is). neville talked about this A LOT in his work & was his favorite method. he always said to fall asleep in the wish fulfilled.

lullaby method- create a short phrase that indicates you have your desire. neville suggested phrases such as "thank you" "it is finished" "it is done" i personally like to use the phrase "it is mine" bc it is more natural to me. say the short phrase of your choice over & over until you fall asleep knowing it is a fact. now when i say "say it over & over" i do NOT mean to say it like a robot. FEEL THEM. personally when i do this, i say the phrase slowly & calmly to myself to REMIND myself that it is done & is A FACT.

key takeaway from methods: do whatever is natural to you. do not have the mindset of doing them to get something. you are just reminding yourself of what you already have. you must have it in imagination first to get it in the 3d, so if you have the mindset of "i am gonna do xyz method to get my desire" i'm sorry but it will not work

persist- keep going back to the wish fulfilled. stay faithful to your imagination.

do i have to stay in the state all day?

NO! go back to the state whenever you think about your desire. it is NOT about how long you are in a state but the frequency (amount of times you go back to it) ex: if you think about your desire 5 times a day, but 3 of those times you are thinking from a state of lack (not having it), while the other 2 are the state of wish fulfilled. the state of lack is your dwelling state (which is what you will see in the 3d)

is manifestation really instant?

YES! what you are experiencing right now in the 3d is your CURRENT dwelling state. how do you change it? by going within & leaving the 3d alone. once you have made your desire state your dwelling place, it will instantly be reflected in the 3d. the 3d is simply showing you who you are being/identifying as. this is why we tell you that you have to change yourself first. the outer world is a mirror to our inner world. why would you expect to see rainbows & sunshine in your 3d, when your 4d is lightning & thunder? how could you see a change of clothes, unless you changed them yourself first? once you change, the rest will follow. it is LAW.

how do i know if i fell out of the state?

you may be checking the 3d, worrying, or having opposing thoughts. again, THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS. they are NOT what manifests. they have no power over you unless you give them power. don't identify (accept them as true) & let them pass. since your state manifests, a few silly thoughts that you don't accept as true mean NOTHING

how do i get back into the state if i fell out of it?

intend to go back & use the methods i described above to maintain the state

what do we mean by feeling?

feeling ≠ emotion. it is the KNOWING. you may feel calm, happy, peaceful, relief, etc. it is NOT some groundbreaking euphoric moment. it is NATURAL. you are in a dwelling state for EVERY aspect of your life (love, school, work, career, finances, etc.) so feeling your desire to be real, is not going to be some rainbow explosion. you know a lot of other things to be real that you are not placing as much focus on, so your desire is no different.

i stopped desiring it?

ex: you got a new pair of shoes. when you first got them you were excited to wear them. as the days went on, the "spark" kind of went away. it's not that you weren't excited to wear them, but you got used to having them & KNOW that they are yours

ex: once you start dating someone, you are excited to text them good morning and to hang out with them. over this, this becomes normal & expected. ofc you're going to be texting & hanging out with the person you're dating.

you may stop desiring your desire bc you KNOW that you have it. it's normal for you to have your desire. how could you continue desiring something you already have? that's like saying you want the pair of shoes you are wearing right now.

summary

STOP being a slave to your senses. shut the 3d out bc it is a reflection of your past dwelling state. since you're going to the wish fulfilled & thinking of your desire in your favor, the 3d doesn't matter. it is NOT who you are anymore. once your dwelling state is the wish fulfilled, it will reflected in the 3d INSTANTLY. stop bringing up the past bc it only exists in your mind. go within & fulfill your inner man. you desire something? see it in your imagination. want to talk to someone? have an inner convo or visualize talking to them. want to hang out with someone? do it in imagination. everything stems from imagination. it will not fail you. the world is a mirror that is reflecting who you are being. as within, so without. you MUST change FIRST to see the change in the outer world. there is nothing & no one to change but self.

reread this post as many times as you need until you understand. this all you need to know. apply what i mentioned & you WILL SUCCEED!

How I view states now that I've practiced using them, and why you should use them too!

I'm not going to be following anyone's teachings on this, instead I'll be drawing on my own experiences, so sorry if this doesn't exactly match up with what everyone else is saying about this topic.

Also please note that this is my opinion based on my experiences, and so the process may be different for you!

As a community, I genuinely believe that we have manifestation very backwards. We start off by learning that thoughts create your reality, and we go towards self concept to help the thoughts, and affirmations to force your brain to accept it, and then eventually you'll have it and you'll be happy or whatever. This is actually backwards (at least for me, and I hope this helps other Neurodivergent ppl too).

It started with the States talk for me. My eyes kinda opened to a new way of doing things, and let me tell you it's been SO MUCH EASIER to start with having the feeling/ state of mind that you would have if you had what you wanted, because the thoughts progress naturally from there. I'm not saying affirmations don't work, I'm just saying that starting with affirmations is like trying to force your way through a room filled with molasses, and starting with changing you state of mind is like walking through a room full of air in comparison.

Let me be clear: I'm NOT talking about self concept. I'm talking about FEELING and STATES OF MIND. It's not about the affirmations or the self concept, it's about how you approach them and yourself. From what I've noticed within myself, better self concept comes naturally during this process, just like affirmations do. It all starts with your state.

Let me start off by saying that a state is the seed of a manifestation. It's the very beginning point that everything else branches off of. If you start off with a state of lack, for example, you'll constantly be battling thoughts that come from that lack ("where is it? Why is it taking so long? Etc."). However, if you start off with a state of fulfillment, you'll notice that those negative thoughts don't come as often, if at all, and it's much easier to progress when you're not constantly fighting with your own thoughts.

But let's say you don't know what state to start with. That's perfectly fine! All you have to do is choose a state that will affect everything else in the long run. The state is the seed, remember, and the rest of the thoughts you have will branch from that seed, so you have to plant the right one. Write out or think of this sentence, "I desire ___ because it will make me feel ___" now, don't start with the "I desire ___" instead, start with "it will make me feel ___" that's the state you have to start from, that's your seed.

I started with the state of "I want ___ because it will make me feel Happy" so I chose happiness to be the state I tried to be in. It can start out with you consciously entering that state, and as you learn to do that, and keep doing it, you will find that you naturally do it more often because it becomes familiar.

Then the thoughts come! You go from feeling happy, to thinking happy. You know how when you feel sad, you naturally think thoughts that make you feel sad? The same thing happens with positive states! It comes very naturally. The best part about this is, you know exactly where you want to end up ("I desire ___"), and so you start to guide your naturally positive thoughts towards your desires (affirming). You start off with the "I'm happy. I like being happy." And go towards "I'm happy because I have ___, I'm so happy to have ___." Your mind will start to make that connection automatically, and before you know it, you're affirming (thinking about your desires) all the time without having to force it to happen!

The longer you get into the state, the more natural it feels, and the more easily your affirmations will come. As you progress naturally through this process, you will find that you start to believe your affirmations more and more, and you may even start affirming for things you didn't even know you wanted! This is the seed growing and branching out. Your mind naturally creates connections between your thoughts, and so as you continue to affirm and persist in that state, you will start to form very natural connections between how you feel and how you think. This also improves your self concept along the way, because as you think better, you'll believe better about yourself, and your views on the world will change to match your desires!

During this process, the only thing you have to do is return to your desired state and guide your thoughts towards your goals. Instead of battling yourself constantly and struggling to get to where you want to be and doubting all the time, you naturally go towards your desires in your 4D, thus changing your 3D along the way!

In my opinion, this is the way we are meant to go about manifesting. We realize we're feeling bad, and as we start to change that into feeling happy, our thoughts follow us along the way!

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AFFIRMATIONS: EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW!

HOW TO COMMAND YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND

YOUR WORD IS GOSPEL

THE RIGHT WAY TO MANIFEST: LIVING IN THE END

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HOW TO MANIFEST ANYTHING WITHOUT ANY EFFORT AT ALL

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THE LULLABY METHOD & THE I AM STATE

I’ve been trying to manifest my desired appearance for a year and I need to manifest it by Sunday. How do I go about this?

first of all lets dissect what youve been saying here. “trying” there is no TRYING in manifestation, lets start there.

why would you try for something you already have?

thats the issue, thats why you’ve been manifesting for a year! it’s because you’re not claiming it is yours. you’re in the “trying” state when you should be in the “fulfilled” state.

ask yourself: how would it feel if you had your desired appearance NOW or by sunday? you’re beautiful, imagine someone with a familiar voice telling you that you’re beautiful. (don’t need to visualise) just imagine the voices telling you that you’re gorgeous, you’re perfect etc.

cloak yourself in that feeling, GO BOLD do the hold back in your imagination!

once you’re in that state everything will ALIGN for you. no need to force your affirmations, no need to tell yourself anything. literally your mind comes up with affirmations on their own because you are in that state of your desire being fulfilled.

-> stand firm in your desires, know it is yours, know it is done, tell yourself it is done because IT IS. don’t turn left don’t turn right stick to the story THAT YOU WANT. stop entertaining a story you don’t want.

I feel soo confused on how to manifest? like......... IDK

Your assumptions create your reality, so assume you have what you want and persist in that assumption. To assume is to accept that you already have something without proof, and to persists is to basically continue with an opinion or action. So continue to accept that you already have what you want.

LITERALLY ANYTHING CAN WORK

I cannot say it enough that literally anything and everything could bring your manifestation. Like literally anything!! You don't have to be positive, or detach, or, affirm 24/7 if you don't want to. If you want to do those things because they bring you joy, go ahead, do what you want to, have fun. But, if these things make you feel frustrated or tired or just bad in general, you don't have to do them. There are bitches out here writing on a piece of paper and getting exactly what they want!! No struggling or anything! Some people just command their minds to give them what they want, and it just happens. No saturating the mind or having to live in the end or think positive at alll! Nothing is a "bad" or "wrong" way to manifest. Decide how shit works for you!!

💟💕 MY SIGNATURE LOOK 101

⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚ how to get the prissy grl look

hair:

i’m a natural bouncy curl girl. depending on the weather and my time, there’s a good chance I’m wearing my hair in it’s curly state

୨୧ with just a bit of leave in conditioner and and oil on my scalp.

although I love the ease and the natural beauty of my curls, I prefer my hair straightened.

୨୧ I feel I look more mature and sleek that way. it’s also very hot opposed to the sweet soft and innocent look i think my natural hair gives. and oddly, it’s less maintenance but gives the illusion of being higher maintenance.

I used to love my hair bone straight, with my curtain bangs and a part down the middle. but lately my style has been shifting towards bombshell curls on straightened hair with a flipped bang and side part. my hair is pretty long (about an inch past my bra hook) so that gives me room for versatility which I love so I’ll switch it up every now and then

୨୧ my fav styles include: half up half down style (fave omg) or flexi rod set creating loose beach waves on my hair, loose messy bun

fashion:

bougie girl 101!!! is my closet!!

color palette: black, white, gray, pinks (typically soft), lavender and browns/nudes. it enforces my ethereal, hyper girly brand. the color I wear most often has to be BLACK. i swear it is the sexiest color to exist and it makes me look amazing and feel even better.

୨୧ i love one piece bodysuits, again, so sexy on me.

loungewear is very special to me. it takes up more than half of my wardrobe overall. and if styled correctly, it can be worn out

୨୧ one of my fav things to do is finish my head to toe routine and throw on a pair of my victoria’s secret slippers, comfy matching lingerie and a matching lounge set.

i also have MANY fuzzy/faux fur pieces in my collection. these including bags, shoes, tops, etc.

rhinestones are a staple in my closet. i have so many tops that have sassy sayings in rhinestones. one of my favs being my “high maintenance” rhinestones tank top.

animal prints are my SIGNATURE more specifically leopard print; i am a true cheetah girl. i have everything from purses, head accessories, tops, notebooks, etc in cheetah print

୨୧ my fav features to show off: my legs, feet, and collarbone

୨୧ some more elements i enjoy: thin dainty chain detailing, velour, small heart details, satin, tartan, saffiano, charms

୨୧ some current favs include: hunter boots, vs pink loungewear sets, pink uggs, clear pumps

makeup:

perfect. i love to look perfect. never too done looking because i hate the cakey, obvious look. i love the soft glam, fresh face routine i use.

i shape my brows by adding short little hairs to my tail going upward on the arch part. i like my brows nice and thin with that meagan good arch. i like them lighter in the front and darker and sharp on the end. i ofc finish my brows off with foundation and a concealer brush.

then i buff a radiant concealer on my eyelids and blend that with the concealer or foundation i used around my brows.

i prime my face with maybelline poreless primer for that soft and blurry skin look.

୨୧ final touches: inner corner highlight, arch highlight, and nose bridge highlight + smooth and bright undereye

୨୧ big soft pretty pink kissable lips!! *or nude*

bronzed and blushed cheeks *come to think of it i only really contour my nose now, i use bronzer everywhere else*

୨୧ current favs: nars powder blushes, kiss false lashes, buxom glosses, mac lipstick, legit lashes mascara, makeup forever pressed powder

nails:

୨୧ i literally never wear anything but pink, white or a creamy pinky nude, and yes this includes french tips

i do my own feet, i just don’t trust salons to really get my feet as perfect as possible. they always cut my nails too short or give a WEAK exfoliation. no. i’d rather do it myself.

i don’t believe in white toe supremacy when my hands are another color. i like my nails to match. if my fingers are frenched out so are my toes. but my go to color that i’m wearing most of the time is ‘it’s a girl’ by opi and a matching gel for my hands.

accessories:

hoops r my signature acc. i’m literally recognizable to ppl who don’t even know my name. their the simplest feminine addition to my looks.

either that or diamond studs. i have a pair of heart shaped studs i love.

speaking of hearts i love heart shaped charms on necklaces purses and bracelets

honestly anything dainty and pink i’m rocking!!

୨୧ my fav jewelry atm: my signature studded hoops, my juicy charm bracelet, my hello kitty necklaces, my hello kitty faceplate ring, my tiffany heart choker

୨୧ satchels and small totes!!!

୨୧ glitter phone cases

୨୧ vs wristlet straps

another signature of mine are my fluffy pens i made myself. i keep one on me and only write with my own pens in public.

i try my hardest to match my metals to my looks, cool tones, white gold. warm tones, yellow gold. neutral, sterling silver. i never mix metals. if my bag has yellow gold detailing so do my jewelry for that look.

୨୧ my fav bags atm: my rose ballerine damier azur neverfull, my pink and black ted baker arycon bags, my louis vuitton alma, my striped vs tote bag, my medium bubblegum telfar

Some unpopular opinions I wanted to say:-

1. Negative and intrusive thoughts don't hold any power, ofc. The roof isn't gonna fall off if I imagine so. But if negativity is your lifestyle, it's how you normally think, then yes it will manifest.

2. Physical reality isn't what it looks like but what you take it as. If you are someone who hates their body, you'll find a way to make yourself believe that your body looks bad even if it looks amazing. You gotta do the same now just the opposite.

3. Logic can help in manifesting because for the conscious mind it makes more sense and is easily acceptable. This could be my assumption so it's manifesting but I'll still point this out.

I manifested being the head in school twice before knowing loa. Did I have doubts? Yes. Did I think the other candidates could be better? Yes. But I kept telling myself that, "I've done so much for the school, I'll be the one to win definitely. Besides, I'm the only one who could manage this". I put logic in this. I found excuses as to why I deserve my manifestation. Do the same. If you want a lot of money but don't see any way of getting it, just think, 'Well I've worked so hard all my life, I'll definitely get the money or I deserve a raise in job". Find excuses to stick to your new story. This will make you focus more on the new story.

4. You shouldn't focus on the how cause manifesting is extremely natural. For your subconscious, it's literally obvious to have your desires. If you see you don't see any movement, you should understand that for your subconscious, it's normal. What movement? You have what you want. I was manifesting being better at English and now random big words come to me and I'm like...???? Did I always knew this word? I can't even remember if I ever knew it before. So yeah, it's natural for you to have your desires. If you feel stressed with the feeling of how, remember this.

YES! Thank you!