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how romanticizing everything changed my life

- i started to feel beautiful every day. i fell in love with my features and stopped having desires to make changes such as surgery, extensions etc.

- my personality improved drastically. i’m a fun loving girl that enjoys making people laugh and feel good about themselves, and people gravitate towards me for it

- my limiting beliefs decreased immensely. gone were the days of thinking someone else was better suited for the thing i wanted to do, i’m the perfect girl for the job

- i stopped letting what people could *possibly* think about me, hinder me. i can’t read minds. i don’t know what anyone truly thinks….so i’m not going to attempt to

- i finally cultivated a personal style that makes me feel gorgeous. i wear what makes me feel most comfortable and cute!

- i became better at prioritizing rest and relaxation. getting my brows threaded, getting pedicures, watching movies, taking naps. i feel guilt free doing all of those things. i love putting in work, but i need my body to be a well oiled machine in order to really get it all done.

- i let go of the idea that i needed to *act* a certain way be feminine. yes i love pink. do i NEED to wear pink to be feminine? of course not. the things i wear are just outward expressions of my innate femininity. they are not the source of it.

being surrounded with winter garden, living alone in the big cottage with a lot of art works and books, wearing long fur coat and gloves, drinking mulled wine, baking bread with herbs, walking with dog and being a strange, but friendly person for your neighbors

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“And I say to myself: A moon will rise from my darkness.
 وأَقول لنفسِي: سَيطلعُ مِن عَتْمَتِي قَمَر.”

— Mahmoud Darwish

Ladies, I want you to get crystal fucking clear on your goals, what you’re manifesting, what you want to attract into your life, the emotions you want to feel, and how you want to look. If I asked you right this second where do you see yourself in six months, this time next year, in five years could you tell me? Stop wasting your precious thought energy on these men who couldn’t care less about you. Stop waking up to check your phone. Stop living like a lost puppy with no focus or clear vision of your desires. I want you to claim your dreams, no matter how wild and far fetched CLAIM THEM. You want to live next to the ocean in a mansion and be a stay at home wife, CLAIM it. You want to be CEO of your own 7 figure business, claim the fuck out of your dreams. They are all yours for the taking. But you have to get clear, crystal fucking clear and start plotting. Make sure you have a journal to write down your dreams, write down your dreams and goals everyday and I promise you the universe will start plotting to make this all possible for you. ✨

Road-Opening Blessing

For those who want to receive it:

Whatever energy may have crossed you that was not cosmically justified or for your benefit, may it be rebuked and banished. If it was cosmically justified, may you heal from the experiences, and learn from the lessons therein. May your character improve.

Whatever blocked your blessings that was not of you, nor in alignment with your higher self, may they be rebuked and sent back, unable to return to you or yours.

Whatever pain and suffering that is not yours that you may have been carrying within you, may it be released for healing elsewhere.

Whatever feelings of hurt, betrayal, worthlessness or defeat you may have been carrying with you, may you have a safe place to acknowledge them. Whatever illness you may be carrying that can be relieved through this work, may they be gently removed.

Whatever difficulties you may have experienced and now walk in fear of, may your fear be dissolved, so that you may walk your road with confidence and peace of mind.

Whatever past grudges or negativity you may have been carrying with you, may they be released. Whatever envy, jealousy or spite you may have been holding within you, may that be released also, and may you be blessed with self-recognition of your own value.

Whatever harsh lessons you may have learned, or may have needed to learn (s/o Maryam Hasnaa), may you forgive yourself for having those experiences.

These words will not return void, nor will they be transmuted, altered, slowed or blocked for those who accept this blessing.

Ase.

✨Greetings, friends! ✨

I am officially opening my Paid services!

I ask that you read over this entire post before requesting a reading. Thank you!

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What services will you offer, what about price?

Tarot Readings: deck in use

will not charge extra for cards that jump out!

One card pull - $5

Any question, so long as it follows my Guidelines below. If unsure what to ask, you can just request whatever you need to know at this time. Similar to my previous free readings— except more thorough and detailed!

Two Card Spread - $7 for each spread.

Block & Help: Your current blockage and what can be done to overcome it.

Fear & Reality: Your present fears vs. your actual reality.

Heal & Lesson: What occurred, and what lesson you learned/should learn.

Three Card Spread - $9 for each spread.

Incarnation: Past, Present, Future.

Evolution: Past life, Current life, Future life.

Destiny: You, Your path, Your potential.

Spirit: You, Your Spirit Guide, How to connect.

Romance: Your strengths, Your weaknesses, The advice.

Overcome: The situation, The obstacle, The advice.

LoveBirds: Your dynamic, Your partner’s dynamic, What to work on.

Spirit Guide Messages:

Can be bought along with your Tarot purchase or separately! I will not charge extra for more than one Guide coming through.

Guide(s) Message - $12

A message from your Spirit Guide(s): you may ask one question. If unsure what to ask, you can just request whatever you need to hear right now. I’ll include their name(s) as well, if it’s available, at no extra cost!

Guide(s) Description- $10

I channel any Guide(s) of yours wishing to come through and give you a thorough description of them as they appear. I’ll include their name(s) too, if it’s available, at no extra cost!

Spirit Guide Bundle Deal - $16

You receive both the Guide(s) message along with the description of your Guide(s) who come through— along with their name(s), if it’s available, at no extra cost!

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How may I ask for a Paid Reading?

You may ask for a reading of your choice via Direct Message only, I will not accept requests through Ask Box. In your Direct Message I will provide you with additional information such as:

What method of payment you wish to use (CashApp, Venmo, Zelle).

When to expect your reading.

If you have your own tarot spread in mind, we can discuss pricing and if I’m able to do that.

And any additional questions you may have!

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How will I receive my reading?

Once your payment is finalized, your Reading(s) will be submitted through Direct Message as well; Everything will be done through there and there only.

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So, what do you allow & not allow in readings?

READ ALL OF THESE

These mainly are rules for the one card reading, since your question is your’s to ask, and it also applies to your Spirit Guide message, if you have a question to ask them as well. Nonetheless, all rules have to be followed, or else I will politely deny your reading request.

When you private message me, I need your first name, if that makes you uncomfortable then at least your initials. This helps me strengthen the connection & develop a more accurate reading for you.

I DO NOT DO: non-consenting third party questions. For example: “what does C think of me?” & “is J happy now?”. It never has felt right for me to tap into someone else’s personal energies. However I DO allow: “what is the energy between me and C?”, “what can I improve in our relationship?”, as for me these are less personal and more vague.

I DO NOT DO: Death related, medical related, financial related & legal related questions of any sorts. No exceptions.

I DO NOT DO: time sentive question. For example: “in THREE DAYS I’m doing ____, I need advice!!” & “When will I ___”. Why? Because for one, these really stress me out! Secondly, futures change!

DISCLAIMERS & OTHER THINGS TO NOTE:

I am Legally obligated to inform you that all readings that come from me are intended to offer energetic insight into your spiritual life and are utterly meant for entertainment purposes only.

I cannot & I will not promise that you will like what you hear. Do keep in mind that what comes through is out of my control; furthermore, I, like any reader, only deliver what Spirit communicates, no less & no more. Allow Spirit to give you what you are meant to hear.

Your Fate is in your hands and can be changed in an instant. To echo what I mentioned above, keep in mind these really are energy readings on your current setting, nothing is set in stone. You are a multi-dimensional being with unlimited amounts of free-will. You are far more powerful than you perceive.

All readings discussed stay confidential between me & you.

Reviews are heavily respected.

My Guidelines can be found anytime at #JhordxnReadings

Lastly, I realize not everyone can afford readings, so don’t worry, I don’t want anyone feeling left out. I will open free readings once in a while, but Paid Readings will be my main and only source for thorough & intricate readings!

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If you can’t afford to buy a reading, please Reblog! It would help tremendously!

Love & Light to you all! 💛✨

START FUCKING AFFIRMING

and this is YET the nicest way to put it, you guys. speaking generally, I am sickandtired of y‘all going through every manifesting page on tumblr, instagram and god knows where to collect the information YOU ALREADY KNOW. you know damn well to affirm for your desires and to simply stick to that no matter what, WHAT‘S STOPPING YOU???! babygirl I need you to start right now. put away all of your notes on your phone trying to plan yourself an ideal routine on when exactly to affirm, when to do this and that, etc. I‘m saying this just to remind you that manifesting is something NATURAL. I even hate declaring it as "manifesting" BECAUSE YOU ARE SIMPLY THINKING AND BRINGING IT INTO LIFE. the only thing you need to know about manifesting is that it’s just your thoughts! what you are thinking at any given moment, most of the time and during the day.

I WANNA GENTLY REMIND YOU THAT

your dominant thoughts manifest.

you can manifest anything anywhere anytime.

the way you affirm doesn’t matter.

you don’t have to believe your affirmations (thoughts!).

circumstances don’t mean shit.

your desires are there, literally right here.

the 3d will catch up BECAUSE IT HAS TO.

you and you only are in control.

you are god.

you want it? you got it.

just start. it doesn’t matter how you do it, if you do it right, aesthetically enough, "technically" correct… even if your affirmations feel unnatural to you, there is no wrong way to manifest. yesterday I was so fed up with myself being unproductive and not starting shit (and yes, it’s because of mercury retrograde), I affirmed for 30mins STRAIGHT, only thought about my desire and did it a few times during the day. and I reached my goal.

everytime you "jokingly" say "I have my desired …", it counts. it matters to your process. and it brings you one step closer to your desire manifesting into the 3d. I know it might feel weird. for many people, manifesting feels so difficult to do because they all have this "I gotta plan x and y" mindset. don’t overcomplicate it. you have it. fuckin act like it sorry for being so mean oh lord please I love you and I believe in you babygurl!! :( ♡

RE-INVENT YOURSELF FOR 2022

this post was inspired by this tiktok: here

okay first realise..realise you have the power to change ANYTHING. its never too late to change your reality. dont think that you’re too “old” and that its late for you. people are in their 40s, 50s, 60s trying to find themselves and their true identity and trying out new hobbies! this idea that life ends when you’re 30 or whatever is such bullshit. you have so much time to change anything you want and nothing is impossible. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.

once you realise that, you can conquer anything. your problems are so small compared to you, because you’re magnificent. in this time of age we do not stop to congratulate ourselves because we are always comparing ourselves to other peoples lives on social media, or our parents are comparing us to other peoples kids. take time to CONGRATULATE YOURSELF for atleast wanting to try doing better for yourself. thats already an achievement and a step closer to achieving your dream life. some of you guys have been through hell and back, yet you’re still here. just congratulate yourself on that, because thats amazing. really.

now..lets start a funeral.

write down or take mental note of all your “bad habits” than can include something simple as procrastinating or idk nail biting. GET RID OF THEM. DECLARE THIS NOW that you will stop doing those habits, these bad habits do not benefit you. now, its pretty easy to cling back onto these “bad habits” so dont even worry about it. if you do it again do not belittle yourself, do not beat yourself up about it omg. literally dont you’re still amazing and hey..maybe you won’t completely get rid of them so start minimising how much you do those so-called bad habits

secondly, the mental glow up

mental glowups are also important aswell as physical glowups. mental glowups really do wonders and can impact your physical appearance!

• don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake.

i feel like its so normal for us to do this and i think if you were in a household that was not particularly great at emotional wellbeing you would struggle whenever you make mistake cus you would beat yourself up about it, its a tactic we’ve learned to do and its not a very good one.

• treat yourself with kindness.

how you treat a little child under your care, treat your mind and yourself as so. when you feel under pressure, when you feel caught up with everything. take it slow. and realise, you’re amazing and you can get through any obstacle.

• treat yourself like a QUEEN!

honestly, we should all start treating ourselves like the beautiful people we are?? like yeah i woke up messy hair and all but i am still beautiful. i am still shockingly pretty and i rock any hairdo.

• prioritise yourself. stop prioritising others.

now dont get me wrong, when the moment is right you can put others before yourself..BUT NOT ALL THE DAMN TIME! treat yourself, love yourself and prioritise yourself.

thirdly, the PHYSICAL GLOWUP!

now whatever you want to look like, visualise, script, command your subconscious or affirm that what you look like is IN YOUR REALITY! and nothing can stop that, literally nothing can. and in the meantime literally just love yourself, congratulate yourself..i mean your physical glowup is here and you look absolutely stunning.

take plenty of selfies cus you’re beautiful.

go outside and hang out with friends PLEASE DO NOT PUT A HAULT ON YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR MANIFESTATIONS.

pretend you’re a celebrity on vogue doing your routine in the bathroom. literally have fun, do hairstyles you wanna try, spend a lil bit of money on skin care + makeup.

NOW..COMBINE EVERYTHING IVE JUST SAID.

okay, now combine everything and just do it, dont be scared. why are you scared? you still have plenty of time to make mistakes and try again, and get your dream life, you still have time to love yourself and gain knowledge of YOU and stuff you like. now..you dont need the “perfect life” i feel like that is being so targeted towards young people nowadays searching for that “perfect life” that builds up so much more pressure, tbh. all you need is stability. become stable and consistent in habits, relationships, your body and your mind. (if u want, u can obvi have ur perfect life hun)

Always Look Your Best:

Putting effort into your appearance is an act of self-love and discipline, you must be willing to put the effort into looking your best even when you don't feel like it. You are the only one responsible for the way in which you brand and present yourself. You have full control and agency over the persona you craft yourself to be.

Investing in your physical appearance and personal style will first make you feel more comfortable with your own persona and that will translate to higher self-esteem in the long run, and you should always strive to be the best representation you can of yourself for yourself first and foremost. Simultaneously, the world around you will always respond to the way in which you portray yourself, you will be treated according to how you treat yourself. If you show care and self-respect through the way in which you carry and present yourself (which can vary a lot depending on your personal style, taste, and personality), the world around you will naturally treat you as such.

You have only a few seconds to leave a lasting impression in people's minds, you don't know how something as simple as a short glance from someone to another person can potentially open the door for life-changing relationships and opportunities. Before we are known for our personality, intellect, and intrinsic qualities we are known for how we look and what our superficial personal branding exudes. If your goal is to transition into a specific kind of lifestyle make sure that you are embodying what someone who lives that kind of lifestyle looks like, dresses like, and behaves like.