SAY IT WITH ME

My pronouns are more than words. They are ideas. They reflect my gender, my being, my essence. And when you use the wrong one, when you say “she” and not “they,” you’re acknowledging that you don’t see what I want you to see when you look at me

Meg Zulch, I Switched To Gender-Neutral Pronouns And This Is What I Learned, Bustle (via neutrois)

So my friends are really accepting of my one of my friends was like "Pretty highness!" and I was like: :o wut and she said "it's a gender neutral alternative to prince/princess!" and that made me really happy so just putting that out there :D

Me: I'm an asexual. I don't like the idea of sex.

Person: okay but...

Me: hoe don't do it....

Persona: ...how do you know if you've never tried it?

Me: oOh mY gO D

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This isn't a question but I gotta tell you this. I'm a grey ace and my name is Grace. Isn't that great, I'm Grace the gray ace! Thank the universe it lined up so I can introduce myself as grace the grace!

Omg that’s awesome- Jace

Directions

Me: When do I turn left.

BFF: Just go straight.

Me: You know I can't do that.

BFF: Same.

Us: *Gay laughter*

My Ideal Ace Relationship

Two Words:

Ace. Commune.

What if instead of gilly weed Harry had showed up to the black lake challenge in muggle scuba gear like “like where’s your advanced magic now bitches? Got me a free fishing knife with this thing”

Don’t forget about… The ones who are questioning. The ones who are called attention seekers. The ones who are suicidal. The ones who are ‘sent to therapy’. The ones who are abused The ones who are about to go through hell. The ones who are going through hell. The ones who have been through hell. The ones who are all alone.  The ones who can’t seem to catch a break. The ones who can’t transition. The ones who aren’t accepted. The ones who feel hopeless. The ones who think they are broken. The ones who are lost. The ones who don’t know where to turn. Don’t forget about the closet. We were all there once. Some people may find it too much for them. We are survivors and we need to help those who will become survivors too. If you are in the closet know you aren’t alone. If you came out too soon or are in a harmful environment you are not alone. We love you. We want the best for you. We wish that one day you will join us. You’re just as valid and beautiful. Stay strong. 

an example of intersectional acephobia if ever there was one...

“…seriously??” i thought to myself upon getting this notification via the YouTube app, in my email inbox and then on the YouTube homepage. i was just going to ignore it and move on, but after seeing the same notification for a third time i decided to look further…

…i was prepared for things to get worse, but not this worse. the above is only a sample of the bullshit that can be found on this guy’s YouTube channel. dare i even subject myself to watching any of the videos, let alone the video in question?

as always, curiosity killed the cat…

……..so this guy was pointed in my direction by someone who has obviously watched several of my videos (ie. by someone who cannot not know that i am non-binary) but who is still misgendering me and who for some reason felt the need to disclose personal information about me, my mental health and my family to this acephobic misogynoiristic piece of shit asshat of all people??? as a means of combatting this asshat’s bullshit??? not to mention all of the other problematic things that were said.

i just… i can’t even. i can’t touch this right now. i will explode. it will be messy. it will be ugly.

seriously, do not touch this guy’s YouTube channel. i’m not linking it here for a reason. spare yourself the pain. i just need to vent somewhere. ugh.