you do not ever have to understand your experiences with attraction
you do not have to label your attraction if it isn’t helpful for you
you do not have to use the split attraction model if it isn’t helpful for you
it’s okay if multiple orientations fit your experience
ex: demiromantic, quoiromantic, and biromantic
it’s okay if there’s no named orientation that describes your experience
you’re still valid
it’s okay to have a complex identity or mix and match terms to fit your experience
you are not obligated to come out if you don’t want to.
it’s not dishonest, and you are perfectly justified in doing so, whatever your reason(s) may be
it’s okay if there comes a day where you no longer identify as ace and/or aro
it doesn’t have to mean it was a phase or that you grew out of it
it doesn’t mean that what you felt at the time wasn’t valid
Invisibility means every person you come out to requires a vocabulary lesson.
Invisibility means the very nature of your identity is up for debate.
Invisibility means years feeling alone, broken, and unnatural.
Invisibility means you might not even consider the possibility that you’re anything but what society says you can be.
Invisibility means you have to find out about your own identity from strangers in small, distant corners of the internet.
Invisibility means being taught in school that your orientation makes you inhuman.
Invisibility means being told by educated professionals that your orientation is pathological, a mental illness, and Must Be Fixed.
Invisibility means taking an extra year to convince yourself that your orientation could even exist before you even beginning to accept yourself as what you are.
Invisibility means coming up with an arsenal of excuses for your lack of Normality, an army of justifications for living a life that makes you just a little more comfortable.
Invisibility means “acceptance” comes at the price of breaking up and stuffing away the things that make you you, and struggling to force yourself into a hole that doesn’t fit.
Invisibility means forcing yourself into relationships and acts that you don’t want because the alternative is taboo.
Invisibility means you can never really tell them who you are.
Invisibility means you can’t even feel pride in your community half the time, because the world is intent on destroying what little of a community there is.
Invisibility means facing a world of people who would have you bow your head and let them rewrite your identity for you; who demand your complacence while they redefine the things that make you who you are.
Invisibility means your suffering doesn’t even matter to those supposedly fighting to End All Suffering.
Invisibility means shame.
Invisibility means denial.
Invisibility means loneliness.
Invisibility is not a privilege.
purina tidy cats lightweight litter causes health problems
Purina tidy cats lightweight litter has caused serious health issues in cats. They include wheezing, bloody nose, bloody urine and respiratory problems. If you are currently using this product, please keep a close eye on your feline’s health. Please consider avoiding purchasing this product if possible as it is not worth the risk.
This isn’t the first time a Purina product has been reported to adversely affect pets, we posted earlier this year that Beneful is facing a class action lawsuit for the death of 4,000 dogs.
As parents of furchildren, we need to be more aware of the food and products we give our babies and not be blinded by big budget campaigns and advertisements from giant pet brands. They may claim to have our pets’ best interests at heart but that is not always the case.
As the first KrisThePineappleKing I want to make sure that no one decides monarchy is overrated. I don't feel like getting guillotined.
“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”
100%
[x]
People with good parents get so offended when abused children speak negatively of their parents. Like…REALLY offended lol.
They say things like “Your mom would do anything for you” and “Your parents sacrificed a lot for you!” and “I don’t respect anyone who talks down on their parents.”
But just because YOUR parents would do anything for you and sacrificed a lot for you doesn’t mean it applies to all parents. We don’t have the same experience boo. You can’t tell me shit about what my mama would do for me. All moms and dads are not created equal.
allosexual person: wow sex is the greatest thing ever me, a confused asexual: ok but have you ever stepped on a really crunchy leaf?
i really want to make a ‘we didn’t start the fire’ rendition but with 2008-2015 like how sick would that be
I started this last week and am happy to say that I finished it today!! Please don’t edit it. Thank you. :)
Tried my hand at a DIY Sugar Peppermint Scrub last night by @popsugar - Try it yourself: http://bit.ly/1FajC8B #diy #bath #bathandbody #body #scrub #bodyscrub #beauty #popsugar #sugarscrub #sugar #peppermint #coconutoil #holidays #gifts #giftideas #christmas2015 #skin #skincare by mpipoli https://www.instagram.com/p/_hK0yoBK6V/
Hey, everyone! Good time of the day to wherever and whenever you are! This is the official KrisThePineappleKing tumblr page! Thanks for checking me out! =D
289 posts