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Though much of this is dated advise, most of the advise is timeless. Consider the areas where you have not done what you think you should have done. Do your part and he will grow to be far beyond the man you desire. Do your part and he will love you more than he imagined he ever could.

Timeless Advice for Wives from Blanche Ebbutt’s “Don'ts for Wives” (1913)

Don’t forget to wish your husband ‘good morning’ when he sets off for the office. He will feel the lack of your good-bye kiss all day.

Don’t be out if you can help it when your husband gets home after his day’s work.

Don’t let him search the house for you. Listen for his latch-key and meet him on the threshold.

Don’t omit the kiss of greeting. It cheers a man when he is tired to feel that his wife is glad to see him home.

Don’t keep your sweetest smiles and best manners for outsiders; let your husband come first.

Don’t choose the very time your husband is at home to ‘see about’ all sorts of things in other parts of the house. Sit with him by the fire; smoke with him if it pleases you and him; read or be read to; sing or play cards with him, or chat with him about anything that interests him. It is your business to keep him amused in the evening.

Don’t talk to your husband about anything of a worrying nature until he has finished his evening meal.

Don’t bother your husband with a stream of senseless chatter if you can see that he is very fatigued. Help him to the tid-bits at dinner; modulate your voice; don’t remark on his silence. If you have any cheery little anecdote to relate, tell it with quiet humor, and by-and-by he will respond. But if you tackle him in the wrong way, the two of you will spend a miserable evening.

Don’t think it beneath you to put your husband’s slippers ready for him. On a cold evening, especially, it makes all the difference to his comfort if the soles are warmed through.

Don’t think your household gods of more importance than your husband’s comfort. Don’t for instance refuse to give him a bedroom fire in cold weather because it makes ‘too much dust.’

Don’t hesitate to inconvenience yourself to give him a den all his own. He’s really a good fellow.

Don’t be careless about the way meals are served when you and your husband are alone. Dainty surroundings do much to make eating an agreeable process, instead of a mere means of keeping oneself alive.

Don’t be afraid of cold meat. A few cookery lessons, or even a good cookery book, with the use of a little intelligence, will make you mistress of delicious ways of serving leftovers.

Don’t persist in having mushrooms on the table when you know they always make your husband ill. They may be your favorite dish, but is it worth it?

Don’t take your husband at his own valuation, but yours. He may be unduly modest, or just a little too cocksure.

Don’t omit to pay your husband a compliment. If he looks nice dressed for the opera, tell him so. If he has been successful with his chickens, or his garden, compliment him.

Don’t try to model your husband on some other woman’s husband. Let him be himself and make the best of him.

Don’t be everlastingly trying to change your husband’s habits, unless they are very bad ones. Take him as you find him, and leave him at peace.

Don’t worry about little faults in your husband which merely amused you in your lover. If they were not important then, they are not important now. Besides, what about yours?

Don’t advise your husband on subjects of which you are, if anything, rather more ignorant than he.

Don’t nag your husband. If he won’t carry out your wishes for love of you, he certainly won’t because you nag him.

Don’t refuse to take an interest in your husband’s hobbies, but don’t let him leave all the tiresome work to you.

Don’t try to excite your husband’s jealousy by flirting with other men. You may succeed better than you want to. It is like playing with tigers and edged tools and volcanoes all in one.

Don’t refuse to run up to town for a couple of days, when your husband has to go on business, on the plea that you have ‘nothing to wear.’ Go in what you’ve got, and have a good time.

Don’t get the idea that all your husband wants is a housekeeper, or a decorative head of the table. He wants a companion and when he is at home he doesn’t want you to be always somewhere else.

Don’t let your husband feel that you are a ‘dear little woman,’ but no good intellectually. If you find yourself getting stale, wake up your brain.

Don’t profess to care nothing about politics. Any man who is worth his salt does care, and many men learn to despise women as a whole because their wives take such an unintelligent attitude.

Don’t become a mere echo of your husband. If you never hold an opinion of your own about anything, life will be dreadfully colorless for both of you, and there will be nothing to talk about.

Don’t expect your husband to want to spend evenings at home if you don’t make home the most comfortable place.

Don’t forget that you have a right to some money to spend as you like; you earn it as wife, and mother, and housekeeper. Very likely you will spend it on the house or children when you get it; but that doesn’t matter - it is yours to spend as you like.

Don’t spend every penny you get, unless it is so little that you absolutely must. Try to put back for the proverbial “rainy day.”

Don’t dress badly, even if your allowance is small.

Don’t be satisfied to let your husband work overtime to earn money for frocks for you. Manage with fewer frocks.

Don’t allow yourself to get into the habit of dressing carelessly when there is 'only’ your husband to see you.

Don’t reject your husband’s advice on matters of dress without reason. Many men have excellent taste and original ideas on the subject.

Don’t open the door yourself when your husband is present. He would open it for a lady guest, let him open it for you. Besides, your boys will not learn the little courtesies that count nearly so well by precept as by example.

Don’t let your husband become merely your children’s father after the arrival of the first baby. You can give him an extra share of love in that capacity, but he won’t want to be any less your husband and chum.

Don’t say you can’t go out with your husband because you can’t leave the children. Make arrangements that will enable you to leave them in satisfactory hands.

Don’t say your husband “looks silly” with a baby in his arms. Let him realize that the youngster is partly his, and that there is nothing derogatory to his dignity in handling him.

Don’t omit to take your husband into your confidence on matters connected with the training of the children. Let him bring his wits to bear on the problems that are troubling you.

Don’t say it’s a waste of time to make marmalade at home when you can get it at the stores. Your husband and children never like any so well as yours, and it is worth the trouble of making it to see how they enjoy eating it.

Don’t allow the children in any way to depose you from your position as Queen of the Home. Insist upon the respect that is due to you. See that the boys open the door for you on every occasion.

Don’t grudge the years you spend child-bearing and child-rearing. Remember you are training future citizens, and it is the most important mission in the world.

Re-blogging this too as the other side of the coin for my most recent post.

Good girls etiquette

Don’t ever wear men’s clothes. Always remember you’re a girl and dress accordingly.

There is a fine line between sexy and slutty. There is a time and place for both.

Never swear and don’t talk loudly. Keep your voice down and keep it pleasant.

Never interrupt a Man while he’s talking. Wait your time. If he cuts you off stop talking and wait patiently until he’s finished before continuing.

Never talk back. If you disagree say so but in a pleasant manner. Never bitch and never complain and never accuse. Recognise when he’s made up his mind. When he’s told you his decision accept it and move on even if it didn’t go your way.

Openly disagreeing with your Man or questioning him in public shows disunity and should be avoided. Keep your disagreements private (and remember 3-5 above).

Always check in with your Man before making any decisions. Saying “I need to check with my boyfriend/husband” is a perfectly valid answer to most questions.

Be happy and be positive. Do your best to please the people around you and especially your Man. Always ask yourself what more you can do. Look for opportunities to please and be of use.

Always be polite and respectful. Say “thank you” and “please.” If you’ve done anything to upset your Man remember to say “I’m sorry.”

Ask your Man if any of the above is unclear.

Good read about most in a relationship women.

Pouty little guide:

🌟Ok to start this off, EVERY LITTLE IS DIFFERENT! So that does not mean this post is relevant for every little!

💖you’ll notice your little is probably pouty and whiny and distant

💖ask them what’s wrong. They probably won’t tell you though. They might just whine and kick and turn away

💖at this point, some caregivers might just get annoyed or frustrated. That does not mean you can just walk away and leave them be. A lot of the time, your little is just looking for attention. Or if something is wrong, they want comfort

💖just cuddle up close to them. If they push you away, cuddle them harder. If they start hitting you, DO NOT jump to a punishment. Explain to them that being pouty is no excuse for them to break the rules. Tell your little if they do it again, they will be punished. But DO NOT harshly punish them. A gentle punishment is best because they are already pouty and you don’t want them even more pouty

💖ask them if they want to talk. If they don’t, just leave it be for the moment and hold your little close. If they do want to talk, sit them upright, maybe give them a stuffie or blankey, hold their hands, and tell them they can talk whenever they’re ready

💖I know I’m one of those littles that will say the opposite of what I want. If I tell my daddy to go away, I actually want him to pull me even closer and kiss my head and never let me go. I’ll fight it at first, but then I’ll give in because that’s actually want I want. I just didn’t want my daddy to know that’s what I wanted. If your little just keeps fighting it and gets even more pouty, let them go. Get them a stuffie or blankey to cuddle, fill up their favourite sippy or bottle with their favourite juice and set it next to them. Set their favourite paci next to them also. But DO NOT leave their side!!!!!!! Make sure you’re still there in case your little needs something or changes their mind about cuddles or talking

💖if your little let’s you cuddle them, pull them in your lap and rock back and forth. It’s a very soothing and comforting action that makes us littles feel safe

💖once your little is calmed down, maybe had a nap, ask them once more if they would like to talk about why they were being pouty. Communication and trust are the biggest components to a healthy relationship. If your little is comfortable with it, they will talk to you and trust you enough to do so. Just because they didn’t want to talk earlier, does not mean they won’t ever want to talk about it. Sometimes littles just need time to cool off before talking about it. Sometimes we just need comfort. Sometimes we don’t even know what’s wrong or why we’re feeling the way we do. So please DO NOT get offended or annoyed or upset or hurt or frustrated that we don’t want to talk, or possibly even cuddle

💖some littles also have mental disorders (ME INCLUDED SO DONT FEEL ALONE!) and we might be having a depressed episode or a panic/anxiety attack, or even just a mental breakdown. We don’t always know what’s going on in our head, so let us work it out, or help us work it out!

💖TO ALL CAREGIVERS: please please please understand that we ARE NOT always just mad or upset with you! Sometimes it’s the stuffs going on in our head or someone else, like a friend, causing drama. Sometimes it’s our disorders. WE DO NOT MEAN TO TAKE IT OUT ON YOU! And I believe I speak for all littles when I say this: we are truly sorry if we are taking it out on you!

💖number one rule of comforting a pouty little: NEVER NEVER NEVER just leave them there by themselves! Because that makes us feel even more upset because our caregiver doesn’t even want to deal with us. No matter how pouty we are, PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE US!

🌟I hope this helped! Either with helping daddies understand what to do, or helping a little put it into words for their caregiver. I know everyone is different so this may not have helped much, but I hope it helped at least one person!

🌟I’m not sure why, but it wouldn’t let me add the source. So this was made by me! @aliennxprincess

Always

Reminds me of Hungry Lips

A Two Way Street

If you want a man that works

You have to be a woman that serves

If you want a man that leads

You have to be a woman that follows

If you want a man in a suit

You have to be a woman in a dress

If you want a man that provides

You have to be a woman that obeys

He will dedicate himself 100% to his role, but you have to also.

You cannot decide to listen when it’s convenient and act out when it’s not.

He sacrifices a lot for you.

He expects the same in return.

Your collar

Princess, which collar do you want to wear to dinner and the theater tonight? The black leather one would look so good with your dress and your 5 inch heels.

Being beautiful... That what she does.

Daddy, I don’t feel like going to church. Can we stay home and I can just confess a few things to you that are on my mind?