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Believe It Or Not, Women Are Simple Creatures - The BAR System

Think she’s complicated?  Think again.

Most men think that women are complex creatures.  They complain about women over-analyzing, running amok, and being too demanding.

But in fact, the opposite is true.  All girls really need in life is 3 things – and they form an acronym: Boundaries, Appreciation, and Routine - or BAR.

If she has Boundaries, which include punishment for violation, she knows there are limitations on how far she can go before you put her back in her place. Boundaries also include accountability for her actions.  These Boundaries give her a sense of security unlike anything else you can give her.  

Of course, she needs Appreciation – to be used like a slut, to be cuddled when she cries, to be told she’s a “good girl” when her behavior is at its best. Appreciation includes “I love you”s and maintenance spankings.

She requires Routine which includes consistency.  If she’s busy with her Routine, she doesn’t have time to over-think.  If she doesn’t have time to over-think, she can’t over-analyze every little situation in her life, and that’s liberating for her.

Make no mistake, she will consistently test to make sure these 3 things are still in place.  It’s not a challenge to your authority, your masculinity, or your dominance; it’s actually a compliment.  She treats these little tests like a “ping” signal.  She pings because maybe, just maybe, she’s feeling a little insecure right at that moment and she needs to know the BAR is still firmly in place and because you’re the only one who can make her feel secure again.  Don’t cower from the test, delight in it.  She’s pinging you because she believes in you and knows with all her heart that you’ll return the ping signal with a loving, “it’s okay, babygirl … everything’s under control.”

All your girl has ever wanted is freedom in chains.  Give her that freedom.  

Set the BAR for her.

-Vintage In Stepford

I instantly fell in love. So many desires, fantasies, wants evoked.

And because "this cannot be reblogged often enough", I'm reblogging it.

we need more women

Our generation needs women.

Not girls who are trying to be men.

We need more women who are excited and enthusiastic about becoming wives, mothers, homemakers, and nurturers.

Not women who think that assuming these natural roles will make them weak or ignorant.

We need more women who understand the strength and empowerment that comes with embracing femininity.

We need more women who understand the value of looking soft yet having a strong heart.

We need more women who want to serve and honor their husbands in return for endless protection and cherishment.

We need women who can’t wait to begin their lives as mothers, and not see having children as the end of their youth.

We need more women who value their appearance not only for their husbands but for themselves as well.

We need more women who are not frightened by the abounding love their hearts have to give, and do not wish to suppress their natural inclination towards emotional nurturing.

We need more women who are excited to submit to their husbands, instead of constantly competing with them to be the man in the relationship.

We need more women.

Always

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For my stepford wives fans...

"Yes Sir!" - by PrettyMeredith

The Complete Guide to Becoming The Perfect Submissive Housewife

The 1950's American Housewife is an icon from decades past where the pinnacle of gold standards of domestic obedience had been born. For any aspiring submissives, she should be reveared as a role model; the example in which they must strive to become in order to achieve desirable success with domestic obedience. Through this guide it will be outlined all in which one must do to becone the 'Perfect Submissive Housewife'; a multiple part series that will go into great detail about adopting the lifestyle.

Roles & Responsibilities:

House Keeping - Laundry, Ironing, Bed Making, Mopping, Vacuuming, Dusting, Dishwashing, Bathroom Care, Car Washing, Preventative Maintenance, Garages Basements & Attics, Curb Appeal, Gardening

Culinary Expertise - Table Setting, Breakfast, Lunches, Tea Time, Supper, Baking, Sunday Dinner, Recipies & Cookbooks

Appearances - Hair, Makeup, Dresses, Shoes, Skirts & Blouses, Accessories, Pantyhose, Undergarments, Nightwear

Etiquette - Smile, Curtsy, Practice Silence, Be Polite, Language, Laziness

Bettering Yourself - Reading, Sewing, Knitting, Needle Point, Working Out, Natural Talents, Sitting Quietly

Subjugation:

Household Hierarchy - Domestic Superiors, Relationships, Where do I Rank?, It's a Man's World

Servitude - Obedience, Pampering, Bonding, Home Decor, Body Care & Worship, Sexual Gradification

Discipline - Spanking, Bondage, Chastity, Tickling, Bastinado, Verbal Abuse, Public Humilation

Rewards - Flowers, Gifts, A Night Off, Affection, Orgasms

Social Occasions:

Hosting - Welcoming Guests, House Parties, Holidays

Public Appearances - Shopping, Date Nights, Social Media

Private Employment - Jobs, Office Life, Working from Home Volunteering

*Disclaimer* - Domestic obedience is not for everyone. And to be clear, this is a fictional fantasy series which involves adult NSFW themes and fetishes. In other words; SMUT. So before you get your panties in a knot, do understand that none of what you just read or are about to read should be considered as more than anything but.

Furthermore, I do not have any real experience with real life submission with either professional or amateur Doms or Dominatrixs. This is purely fantasy, and should not be taken as gospel for any real kind of play or submission. Thank you and Enjoy~

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