Just Fun To Watch.

That’s a big part of your role, isn’t it?

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Making out is essential every day. Make it part of your love language so it is an expression of compassion and passion that doesn't always need to lead to sex. Do I get a "AMEN" from the congregation?

Someone so beautiful needs someone to make her smile or give her memories that will always be happy.

A life lesson that all parents need to teach their children, especially their sons.

What a lovely way to create self confidence.

Philadelphia PA USA

Reblog if you are an Anti-Feminist and believe in Traditional Gender Roles so we can find each other!

Bonus points in you live in NYC! 

I'm re-blogging this as a reminder to myself and much as it is informative to others.

Basic Rules for a Dominant

Basic rules for a Dominant

by Whips, Chains & Duct Tape on Saturday, August 25, 2012 at 10:34pm ·

Basic Rules for a Dom (Not written by me)

1. The submissive’s SAFETY will always be of top priority to a wise Dominant, both physically and emotionally.

2. ALWAYS respect and honour a submissive’s safe word and never put him or her in a position to be afraid to use it.

3. Just as submission is a gift to be treasured, Domination is a talent to be mastered so BE educated and experienced at dominating BEFORE you take on the responsibility of another’s life.

4. Don’t be too arrogant to be able to listen and understand your submissive’s viewpoints and needs. You might just learn something from them. After all communication is the foundation of a strong D/s relationship and can not be obtained if it is all one sided.

5. Never punish a submissive by withholding your affection, this is emotional blackmail.

6. Provide guidance and support when needed and stay tuned in to your submissive’s moods. In return you will gain a submissive that is eager to please and serve you because they feel of value.

7. Provide your submissive with negotiated guidelines to stay within and when the submissive steps out of those guidelines CONSISTLY apply punishment.

8. Understand that just as a submissive’s trust must be earned so must a Dominant earn a submissive’s trust. This does not undermine your control but strengthens it.

9. Enjoy and use what is offered to you with kindness, harshness, pain and pleasure and have the wisdom to know when to use each one.

10. Never be too full of pride or blinded by your own “power trip” to admit when you have made a mistake and to even say “I’m sorry”. Just as no submissive is perfect for their Dominant 24 hours a day; no Dominant is perfect either.

11. Don’t be afraid to extend trust. Just as you prove that you are trustworthy only when the submissive trusts you, so you can only develop your submissive’s trustworthiness by being willing to extend trust. Failure to do so may poison the relationship, either by setting the submissive up to “cheat” or by suggesting to the sub that he or she may not *be* trustworthy, or by creating distrust for you in a reciprocal action.

12. Nurture your submissive. The more the submissive knows and can do, the more valuable your sub is to his- or herself as a person, and the more valuable his or her submission to you will become to you both. It is more satisfying to have a strong person trust you by yielding control than to have control over a person who is a “doormat.”

The benefits of edging. It sneaks up on you and makes you be what you fantasize being.

It will start with you wanting to look pretty.

It will develop into pleasing your man.

It will grow into the desire to be owned and collared.

You want to be completely controlled.

You want to be micro-managed.

You want each and every decision to be removed. 

The Metzlers’ conservatory, Delaware.

Only 300 square feet, the conservatory blends the centuries-old tradition of glass shelters designed to house exotic plants and the new tiny house movement, in which people gravitate toward smaller, intimate spaces. Think of it as a petite palace, a manor in miniature, a castle cocoon.

The domed conservatory has marble floors and a panoramic view that skips across 15 acres of garden and grounds to the lapping shore of Delaware’s Nanticoke River.

For my stepford wives fans...

"Yes Sir!" - by PrettyMeredith

The Complete Guide to Becoming The Perfect Submissive Housewife

The 1950's American Housewife is an icon from decades past where the pinnacle of gold standards of domestic obedience had been born. For any aspiring submissives, she should be reveared as a role model; the example in which they must strive to become in order to achieve desirable success with domestic obedience. Through this guide it will be outlined all in which one must do to becone the 'Perfect Submissive Housewife'; a multiple part series that will go into great detail about adopting the lifestyle.

Roles & Responsibilities:

House Keeping - Laundry, Ironing, Bed Making, Mopping, Vacuuming, Dusting, Dishwashing, Bathroom Care, Car Washing, Preventative Maintenance, Garages Basements & Attics, Curb Appeal, Gardening

Culinary Expertise - Table Setting, Breakfast, Lunches, Tea Time, Supper, Baking, Sunday Dinner, Recipies & Cookbooks

Appearances - Hair, Makeup, Dresses, Shoes, Skirts & Blouses, Accessories, Pantyhose, Undergarments, Nightwear

Etiquette - Smile, Curtsy, Practice Silence, Be Polite, Language, Laziness

Bettering Yourself - Reading, Sewing, Knitting, Needle Point, Working Out, Natural Talents, Sitting Quietly

Subjugation:

Household Hierarchy - Domestic Superiors, Relationships, Where do I Rank?, It's a Man's World

Servitude - Obedience, Pampering, Bonding, Home Decor, Body Care & Worship, Sexual Gradification

Discipline - Spanking, Bondage, Chastity, Tickling, Bastinado, Verbal Abuse, Public Humilation

Rewards - Flowers, Gifts, A Night Off, Affection, Orgasms

Social Occasions:

Hosting - Welcoming Guests, House Parties, Holidays

Public Appearances - Shopping, Date Nights, Social Media

Private Employment - Jobs, Office Life, Working from Home Volunteering

*Disclaimer* - Domestic obedience is not for everyone. And to be clear, this is a fictional fantasy series which involves adult NSFW themes and fetishes. In other words; SMUT. So before you get your panties in a knot, do understand that none of what you just read or are about to read should be considered as more than anything but.

Furthermore, I do not have any real experience with real life submission with either professional or amateur Doms or Dominatrixs. This is purely fantasy, and should not be taken as gospel for any real kind of play or submission. Thank you and Enjoy~