Anyone Else With This Aroace Experience?

Anyone else with this aroace experience?

I know the aroace community is not a monolith. I know we all have very diverse experiences. But I was thinking about how so many aroace folks had the "I think I'm bi or pan" moment because they felt the same/nothing for all genders.

I had the "I think I'm bi" moment too. But for me it was because I DID feel something for different genders. I felt incredibly strong tertiary attraction to boys and girls (this was 10 years ago and I was queer-sheltered so I had yet to meet an out nonbinary person), and bi felt like the right descriptor. I didn't have to "fake" crushes like so many aroaces. I just confused my squishes for crushes and blended in.

Even after I realized I'm aromantic asexual, bi still feels part of my identity. I relate to a lot of the bi experience. I feel strongly for several different genders, but I'm attracted to them differently. The way I'm attracted to guys is totally different than how I'm attracted to girls and nonbinary folks.

This is why the term "bi-oriented aroace" means so much to me. It describes my experiences with tertiary attraction perfectly.

More Posts from Mini-me-28 and Others

1 year ago

I noticed that there seems to be three flags for demi-aroace (That I've seen) so now I'm curious, which flag do you use/do you think should be used?

I Noticed That There Seems To Be Three Flags For Demi-aroace (That I've Seen) So Now I'm Curious, Which

This is the one I use/like best, and it's just a mix of demisexual and demiromantic.

I Noticed That There Seems To Be Three Flags For Demi-aroace (That I've Seen) So Now I'm Curious, Which

This one, which is the demi triangle with the asexual and aromantic colors (or something I'm not sure)

I Noticed That There Seems To Be Three Flags For Demi-aroace (That I've Seen) So Now I'm Curious, Which

Or this one? The Demi triangle on the AroAce flag?

also please tell me if there's more I missed!

1 year ago

@demolisherspork on tiktok soo talented

1 year ago

i need people to know that labels aren't mandatory.

Use all the microlabels you want. Go wild.

But at the same time, if you don't feel like going down that rabbit hole, just using the umbrella-term of whatever the hell you identify with is perfectly fine too. Some people don't want to be any more specific and that's totally valid :)


Tags
1 year ago

damian's portraits + previous eps | batman: wayne family adventures

Damian's Portraits + Previous Eps | Batman: Wayne Family Adventures

wfa #103

Damian's Portraits + Previous Eps | Batman: Wayne Family Adventures
Damian's Portraits + Previous Eps | Batman: Wayne Family Adventures
Damian's Portraits + Previous Eps | Batman: Wayne Family Adventures
Damian's Portraits + Previous Eps | Batman: Wayne Family Adventures

wfa #1, #18, #36, #99

what's it say about me that i immediately knew not only which episodes but also the exact panels each of these portraits came from?

do i reread wfa too much? yes but i also don't care enough to stop lmao

bonus: i know tim's is clearly a joke and likely not referencing anything specifically.......but

Damian's Portraits + Previous Eps | Batman: Wayne Family Adventures

wfa #14

Damian's Portraits + Previous Eps | Batman: Wayne Family Adventures
Damian's Portraits + Previous Eps | Batman: Wayne Family Adventures

i'm just saying i can see some similarities LOOOL šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Tags
11 months ago
I Feel Like I Put Way Too Much Effort Into Something Only I’ll Find Funny
I Feel Like I Put Way Too Much Effort Into Something Only I’ll Find Funny

I feel like I put way too much effort into something only I’ll find funny

1 year ago

I feel a connection to jason todd’s character because I understand what it means to have all this anger stored inside you that stems from love. from wanting love. I think all hurt children do.

yes, it feeds and grows from your vulnerability and insecurity, its planted from the seeds of never having been given a consistently supportive community during the formative years of your life. and so now, you don’t know how to trust any form or expression of love even the slightest bit different from your own. it’s never trustworthy. you’ve never been able to rely on anyone’s feelings except your own.

you love so intrinsically. every connection you’ve made leaving a lasting mark on your soul. yet you can’t see evidence of your existence leaving the same mark on others. so you get angry. and you try to hold on to that hate born from love. your love is bright and blazing and passionate and slowly dying from a lack of fuel.

but what makes you the angriest is that you still love every single one of those people; the people who have left you, disappointed you, or abandoned you and yet the only thing you seem to want, to need is for them to still love you too. despite it all.

through the anger and hate and dreaded indifference, the only thing plaguing your mind is why you can never seem to make the people in your life who’ve told you they love you stay.

1 year ago

Yeah I’m aromantic, asexual, and agender, but you know what else I am? I’m aerodynamic. Anxious. Angular. Aromatic. Alien. Aimless. Aching. Ancient. I’m not a triple A battery, I’m an elevenfold A battery and counting.

1 year ago
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)
Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)

Robin 80th Anniversary 100-Page Super Spectacular #1 - ā€œMore Timeā€ (2020)

written by Judd Winick art by Dustin Nguyen & John Kalisz


Tags
1 year ago

Wow, okay, I thought it was going to turn out that Zur was largely in control of Bruce's actions during Gotham War hence the whole Jason thing, but both Bruce and Zur confirmed Bruce's actions weren't Zur's doing.

DC cannot make him do something so incredibly unethical and then try to pass him off as this loving father who only wants what's best for Jason. I mean, sure, the road to hell is paved with good intentions, and Bruce obviously views what he did as an act of love, but if you play a card like that, you damn well better show the repercussions of it, which would be Jason cutting ties with Bruce completely and forever.

But nooo. You know what they made Jason do after all this? Offer Bruce emotional support after Selina "died." Get bent. They should've had Jason walk over to the pit looking distressed over Selina's fall, had Bruce try to put his hand on Jason's shoulder, and then had Jason smack Bruce's hand off with a, "Don't you ever touch me again you piece of shit."

Like fuck! Where's the lingering feeling of betrayal?! The lack of trust?! Don't give me this "you did a terrible thing to me, and I haven't had any time to process it, but I still care about you and love you, so I'm here for you" type of bullshit. Siiigh. I'm so tired.


Tags
Loading...
End of content
No more pages to load
  • arbiterdream
    arbiterdream reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • arbiterdream
    arbiterdream liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • yuuyuuuyuuuu
    yuuyuuuyuuuu liked this · 1 month ago
  • justafrogwithteeth
    justafrogwithteeth liked this · 1 month ago
  • dharagalaxias
    dharagalaxias reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • dharagalaxias
    dharagalaxias liked this · 1 month ago
  • almost-sans
    almost-sans liked this · 3 months ago
  • mittensekittens
    mittensekittens liked this · 3 months ago
  • shadowsage
    shadowsage liked this · 3 months ago
  • purplemarguerite
    purplemarguerite liked this · 4 months ago
  • ghostcat96
    ghostcat96 liked this · 4 months ago
  • purplecrimson
    purplecrimson reblogged this · 4 months ago
  • purplecrimson
    purplecrimson liked this · 4 months ago
  • malignantlamb
    malignantlamb reblogged this · 4 months ago
  • malignantlamb
    malignantlamb reblogged this · 4 months ago
  • malignantlamb
    malignantlamb liked this · 4 months ago
  • thesillysstuff
    thesillysstuff liked this · 6 months ago
  • halaziajoong
    halaziajoong liked this · 6 months ago
  • 120438299583
    120438299583 liked this · 6 months ago
  • wrenreads
    wrenreads liked this · 6 months ago
  • colorfulpuppychaos
    colorfulpuppychaos liked this · 7 months ago
  • normal-is-a-raging-psychopath
    normal-is-a-raging-psychopath reblogged this · 8 months ago
  • starryeyeddreamer21
    starryeyeddreamer21 liked this · 9 months ago
  • funs1z3db1tch
    funs1z3db1tch liked this · 9 months ago
  • orngejunkie
    orngejunkie liked this · 9 months ago
  • bopboplugito
    bopboplugito liked this · 10 months ago
  • author-chan06
    author-chan06 liked this · 10 months ago
  • maraune
    maraune liked this · 10 months ago
  • aroacecreative
    aroacecreative reblogged this · 11 months ago
  • spectatoroflife
    spectatoroflife liked this · 11 months ago
  • crazyalien87
    crazyalien87 liked this · 11 months ago
  • anhedoniacity
    anhedoniacity liked this · 11 months ago
  • silly-lil-scribbles
    silly-lil-scribbles reblogged this · 1 year ago
  • silly-lil-scribbles
    silly-lil-scribbles liked this · 1 year ago
  • algebraicresc
    algebraicresc reblogged this · 1 year ago
  • algebraicresc
    algebraicresc liked this · 1 year ago
  • fenndulum
    fenndulum reblogged this · 1 year ago
  • fenndulum
    fenndulum liked this · 1 year ago
  • temporary-temporal-temper
    temporary-temporal-temper liked this · 1 year ago
  • hextator-lawful-evil
    hextator-lawful-evil reblogged this · 1 year ago
  • hextator-lawful-evil
    hextator-lawful-evil liked this · 1 year ago
  • faithlesswoodlandsprites
    faithlesswoodlandsprites liked this · 1 year ago
  • knowable-entity
    knowable-entity liked this · 1 year ago
  • knowable-entity
    knowable-entity reblogged this · 1 year ago
  • critterwithtoast
    critterwithtoast reblogged this · 1 year ago
  • juledbird
    juledbird liked this · 1 year ago
  • no-oneandno-thing
    no-oneandno-thing liked this · 1 year ago
  • rainclouds-and-dewdrops
    rainclouds-and-dewdrops liked this · 1 year ago
mini-me-28 - Mini_me_again
Mini_me_again

20 years old. College took away my mental health

365 posts

Explore Tumblr Blog
Search Through Tumblr Tags