Reminder that being an ally doesn’t have to mean that you provide lengthy speeches or put on an elaborate display of your support if that’s not your thing.
Being an ally means standing up to bigotry and discrimination in your everyday life and taking small actions to make our world more equal.
nederland be like
Don’t cry because its over
Im in the mood to run people over with my car.
But i dont have a car.
So everyone is save.
...for now
💖⚢⚧⚢hey you, reader! read this please⚢⚧⚢💖
ok, so it bothers me how disproportionate the support for trans men vs trans women is.
im not saying trans men dont deserve all the love and support in the world but so do us trans girls, like ill go to the ftm tag an see passing tips, clothing/binder hacks, an so much stuff but the mtf tag is full of chasers sissys an crossdressers. plus yall will post stuff like
all trans women are beutiful and need protection
but when one of ours sisters gets killed, or beaten yall seem to turn a blind eye??
not saying its everyone but ive mainly found that on tumblr an instagram. the lack of mtf support makes me so frustrated and mad
this is a poll taken from a trans support insta account. 176 people responed. 94% said they are FtM or nb which is fine, but only 5.6 percent were MtF. lets round the number up to 180 and with some simple math, 170 people out of 180 trans people (in this demographic) were FtM or nb, whereas 31 people are MtF. side note, when i look up MtF dysphoria help the first thing to come up is “FtM dysphoria and passing tips”. i was crying on my bathroom floor with scissors ready to cut my genitals off and when i looked for help it wasnt even for me and my sisters. the only passing and dysphoria help i could find is for closeted trans girls which is awesome but what about passing tips for trans women who are already out? the dangers of some trans girl things didnt even become known to me until i found a post on an obscure insta account with under 100 followers which detailed the risks of thing such as tucking, wearing tight push up bras, wearing excessive makeup for a long time, and sromach thinners/ waist boosters like coursettes. this is all i have to say but please reblog this. trans women such as myself and my sisters deserve so much more attention and support than we get.
TL;DR
trans women arent given enough attention or help is the trans community these days
reblog to help out our trans sisters out there closested or not
holy fuck can yall chill out. im just trying to point out a problem ive personally seen. if you think otherwise keep it to yourself because this post is not for discourse its about raising awareness. and who gives a singular fuck if im a transmed or not, respect my belifs and ill respect yours. and calling me ablesit @frogger-hates-pedos is so fucking wrong because i have a learning disability and it impacts my everyday life. yes ive posted questionable things in the past but they were MEMES. if you dont like or agree with what i have to say then please ignore it and saying that i shouldnt have a platform goes against the fact that i am a trans women advocating for our rights and addressing a problem ive noticed. thank you and have a nice night
My Ed Realy be out here making me pretend like off of low kcal drinks and a occasional hot choclate milk and a small snack is in fact enough.
I be telling myself I feel completly fine only to completly collapse 5 sec later
Me: Im not that traumatised
Also me when I have to call in sick for internship even tho I know damn well they are all nice people: they're gonna hate me. I am going to fail. I have to rehearse what I am going to say 493910393929 times or I'll die. Okay so I know I can barely stand up but do I Realy need to stay home? This is it, I might as well drop out of school. They're gonna tell me I'm a disappointment and they never want to see me again.
Internship: oh yea, sorry to hear that, get well soon!
Me: *confused* where is the hate