Trans Men Don’t Have To Be Personally Useful To You For Them To Be Valuable Members Of The Community.

Trans men don’t have to be personally useful to you for them to be valuable members of the community. Stop treating them like tools.

Stop asking trans men to throw themselves on the sword so you can be shielded from transphobia.

Stop acting like it’s their job to protect you, just because they’re men.

Don’t ask trans men to defend you or speak up for you if you’re not willing to return the favor.

We’re supposed to protect each other regardless of identity; it needs to be a two-way street. That’s the whole fucking point of this community.

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1 week ago

Oh, and just in case there was any confusion:

Claiming that anyone who disagrees with you is a big scary antifeminist MAN is a tried and true terf tactic, so it's fucking weird to see it from another trans person.

I'm not a man, but I definitely think radfems are a fucking plague on the queer community, be they cis or trans.

Name a better couple than transphobic trans people/misgendering anybody they don't like, I'll wait

Name A Better Couple Than Transphobic Trans People/misgendering Anybody They Don't Like, I'll Wait

My posts are all: "Hey, don't talk over trans men when they want to discuss their oppression!" "Nonbinary people aren't being treated very well right now, and we're being erased by the rest of the community." "Trans men and trans women aren't enemies." "Care about identities that aren't your own, include other trans people in your advocacy."

Which is apparently a grave enough offense to misgender me and compare me to a nazi, go figures.

It goes to show that some people are really transphobic before they transition, and they refuse to address this after their egg cracks.


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3 months ago

black trans/nonbinary people and other trans/nonbinary people of color are disproportionately targeted which means we should be listening to them first and foremost

and that means the words coined by trans/nonbinary people of color should be respected

ESPECIALLY the term transandrophobia

let them speak.


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1 week ago
Panel 1 of a digitally illustrated comic, a lone trans coloured hare sits in the middle of the screen. blue text around it quotes Richard Adams and says the following: "All the world will be your enemy, and when they catch you they will kill you"
Panel 2 of a digitally illustrated comic, the trans coloured hare is running leaving a trans flag in its trail. stars and sparkles surround it, as well as more blue text saying "but first... they must catch you"

But first they must catch you 🏳️‍⚧️ Prints

Petitions - UK Government and Parliament
Introduce a law to legally protect the right of those aged 18 and over to transition using NHS services. This should specifically cover phys
1 week ago

you should show support for a victim more than you demosntrate hate towards an abuser. you should care more about the harm caused than the action. you should always prioritize helping someone in need over dissing a horrible person. good day

2 weeks ago

women (including trans and/or queer women) have the capacity to be misogynistic towards trans men. we are being treated as if we are little girls on this app. the word "transmisogyny" is something i see a lot more than the word "transphobia" recently. while it's okay and encouraged to talk about transmisogyny, i feel like trans men are being excluded for no reason on many posts. experiences that are actually had by all/most trans people are said to be exclusive to trans women. so then we try for transandrophobia and get shut down because trans men can't be oppressed, apparently. usually, i try to educate myself and listen as much as possible, but it's been monthssssss of this on tumblr. i feel like i'm being spoon-fed lessons on my own oppression, and i can't get down from the high chair...


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3 months ago

holy shit y’all should watch this one, what an admirable person


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1 week ago

"Trans men and women are both suffering" and "trans women are often specifically targeted by bigotry and harassment even within their own communities and deserve to be able to talk about their own unique challenges without being talked over" and "trans men are often erased from conversations about how bigotry and transphobia targets them and are not exempt from all the horribly draconian laws transphobes are attempting to pass" and "being trans doesn't make you immune to participating in horrible transmisogyny even and especially if you aren't aware you're doing it" and "holy shit don't reinvent bioessentialism but for trans people like holy fuck men are not destined to be evil and women aren't automatically incapable of harm" are all opinions that can and fucking SHOULD coexist

3 weeks ago

I love you trans men, if you're a man and you're trans you are automatically cool actually, I love transmascs


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