I’m Never Fully Satisfied With My Physical Gender Expression And I Never Know What To Do About It.

I’m never fully satisfied with my physical gender expression and I never know what to do about it.

I have days where I’m fine presenting AFAB and being perceived as AFAB.  I have days where I wish I had a deeper voice.  I have days where I wish I had a flatter chest.  I have days where I wish I looked more like a boy, but a very feminine/androgynous boy if that even makes any sense.

I think that’s just a fact of being demifaer that I have to try harder to accept and cope with.  My feelings fluctuate, my dysphoria fluctuates.  I’m not sure if I will ever have one true “body” I can be 100% comfortable in all the time because my feelings aren’t concrete… as is the struggle of being underneath the genderfluid umbrella.

If anyone has any advice or opinions on what I’ve said here, I’d really appreciate it if you could share with me.  I’m tagging this post with transmasc tags (even though I’m not transmasc myself) in hopes that the transmasc community can provide some insight as well.

Come to think of it, I’m honestly shocked I haven’t discussed this topic on my blog yet, since it’s really nothing new.

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Are you ok? Do you need a inhaler or something?

Still struggling to breathe but at least with enough alcohol in me i dont have the mental faculties to be anxious about it 👍

I love debugging code while tipsy lol

1 year ago

Sometimes, my friends will say something to the effect of "I can't create art, I dont have the skill."

Bestie, you do not need to be the next Picasso, Tolkien, or Michelanglo to be an artist. What it takes to be an artist is a desire to create and improve.

Its like climbing a mountain. If you stare at the top, you miss the step in front.

You do not have to create anything beautiful, not even in your eyes. You just need to take the next step.

Side note: i notice this the most with people who are neurodivergent. This may be because we often come to the conclusion that we are less than. You aren't lesser, regardless of your ability. A lesser artist is one who does not try.


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1 year ago

The EU is doing a big survey for LGBTQ people who live in the EU about how it is for them right now. That's the kind of survey that's used for official reports and for laws so it's super important that it has as many people taking it as possible. You can take it in every EU language. (You can change the language in the top right corner) Share it with your friends!

https://www.lgbtiqsurvey.eu/lgbtiq

1 year ago

you’re just some twerp little faggot pretending to know things abt the real world

i’m obsessed with the way this is worded, reblog if you’re just a twerp little faggot

1 year ago

Rb to give gender euphoria to the person you reblogged it from

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lol, lmao even

she/her 20. on da spectrum and on jah.

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