I Get Really Confused When An Openly Proship Blog Follows Me But They Reblog From A Bunch Of Antis, I'm

Anyway is Tumblr actually going down and if so where do we go 😭

Guyssss I got Caleb's new myth already I'm so happy 😭 I had to spend like ten dollars but I'd consider that pretty lucky considering how my luck usually is in LADS. Auhhh <3

Goodness me has it been a long time! I lost the email to this account when I switched phones and only recently remembered what it was because of a conversation I had with a friend! 😭 I see a lot of hate in my inbox but I don't really care, I've had a lot of time outside of here doing what I need to do and my mind still hasn't changed. Surely you all have forgotten about this blog by now, but it's lovely seeing our community still thriving! If any of you are still around, hello!

Hi proship darkshippers who struggle with moral OCD, just wanted to remind you that your fictional ships and interests do NOT make you a bad person what-so-ever. You are still a good person and the fact you don't go out of your way to harass people over their own fictional interests, the fact you don't wish harm on real people, is just one of many reasons why you ARE in fact a good person! It's okay to like dark media, it's okay to want to explore said media through art and writing and etc, your interest in these fictional ideas does not reflect your morals in real life situations. Repeat after me: You aren't harming anyone, you are not hurting any real, living person, by being interested in dark media. It's okay, you're okay, I promise. <3

I've seen too many posts recently so I just wanted to say this as a proshipper:

NO. IT IS NOT OKAY TO HARASS ANTISHIPPERS.

You cannot call yourself "anti-harassment" and turn around and harass antishippers. I don't care how utterly ridiculous or disgusting they're being. You block, report what is reportable, and move on.

I'm not talking about leaving a thoughtful indepth comment about your stance on shipping or explaining what proship actually means. I'm talking about the people who will send death threats to some antis, the people who say it's "alright to call them slurs" (no??? It's not??? Babe that is the exact justification antis use about harassing you!), and the people who claim that it's "just natural".

You don't get to do what the "bad people" do just because you're a part of the "good group". You can call yourself anti-harassment all you want, but if you're harassing others, you're just an anti. You're doing the same shit they do just to different people. Revenge and punching back feels nice, but an eye for an eye will make the world go blind. Be the mature one. That's what being proship is about. It's not about "oooo I ship something dark-" no, it's about gritting your teeth and hitting the block button when a conversation turns sour. It's about sighing and moving on when one of your moots vague posts about you. It's about finding peace from not putting your brain in other people's bedrooms.

Being proship is "anti-censorship", "anti-harassment", sals, and dldr. Not "you're the opposite! Let me harass you."

I hope ur having a wonderful day OP <3 don't forget to also take care of yourself! (o´・∀・)o

Awhh how sweet! Thank you! Same goes for you anon. Take it easy, you've done great today!

Hi yandere enjoyers, specifically yandere otome enjoyers, do you have any recs for yandere otome games? Or games that have a yandere character/characters? I've heard itch has alottt but I dunno which ones are worth trying! 😭

When I feel better, I was thinking about starting some more self-ship centered posts like imagines and maybe reblog games if anyone is interested. All for proselfshippers of course! And still post general proship positivity and encouragement while I'm at it. I also draw and have improved a lot over the years so, BUT if this doesn't interest you guys on this blog I'll make a separate blog instead :) !

🦋[Hey loves <3 How are you all doing? I apologize for not posting for a few days, i get busy frequently :( But, just know i still love n care for all of you, so here i am back with another positivity post <3]🦋

🦋[This one is quite specific, but this one is for the people who identify w/ xenogenders/neurogenders, cause, i do as well, and ppl who used these are always so shitted on, sooo]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with xenogenders are VALID!]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with neurogenders are VALID!]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who use neo/xenopronouns are valid and very cool, and yes, your pronouns should absolutely be respected no matter how 'dumb' someone may think it is. It isnt dumb, btw <3]🦋

🦋[Dont let neurotypicals tell you how you can and cant identify as (i see it is mostly neurotypicals who do that) and that is honestly ableist how they shit on people who use these without even understanding how much it helps ND's. You all are precious and very much valued, especially here, you are valid and loved and cared for no matter how you identify. ♡]🦋

🦋[Id really appreciate it if anyone who uses these comments or sends in an ask telling me what xeno/neurogenders or pronouns they use, only if youre comfortable <3 Id like to make this a more comfortable safe space where people can express themselves freely so <3]🦋

just scrolling through your blog but i love your posts so much u r so sweet!! ^__^

Aw thank you anon! You're so sweet too, I appreciate it! 🫶 I hope you're having a wonderful day