Mood

when mob psycho said “so many people are so lonely. you walk by them every day and you’d never know. you work with them and go to school with them and admire them and consider them your friends and they are so deeply lonely.” when mob psycho said “your loneliness is not a character flaw. your loneliness is not an immutable personality trait. your loneliness is not your fault.” when mob psycho said “but above all, your loneliness is temporary & you will feel okay again”

where i live i only do like 2-3 dishes 3 separate times a day and it’s always nice to start something in the microwave and then clean the 2 or 3 dishes and see how fast i can clean them before the timer beeps- then my perfectionism has me double check and clean them perfectly after before my food is cool enough to eat. by the time my food is good to eat everything is clean and i enjoy the cleans.  i also get things like that to clean my room as well like “oh god i have to get back to my pc before they get online!! and clean my room first!! quick clean it all before i get online” and it feels rushed so i won’t inconvenience them. by the time i get online and talk to them i’ve cleaned my room- gotten myself ready for the day (toothbrush used, showered depending on how much time i have, and more) and done various random re-organizing in my room while i wait

A fun way to get yourself to do chores when you have adhd is to simulate a sense of panic by setting horrible deadlines that fit into other things that you’re doing.

For example, you set up a kettle of water to boil for your tea. Quick! Wipe down the whole counter before it’s done boiling, for the love of god you’re running out of time! Wipe it down! The water is almost boiling.

The water is boiling and your counter is clean. Now set your timer for your tea for three minutes and of my god there’s cups in your room! Quick! Get all the cups from everywhere in the house! Run! You’ve only got three minutes! Get all the dishes into the kitchen!

Oh would you look at that. You got all the dishes in the sink and now your tea is ready. Nice. Now you can chill with your tea.

I’ve found that little stuff like that helps me. Forcing myself into unexpected last minute deadlines. It fills up empty space and my house is a little bit cleaner.

Whenever I do worldbuilding I try to keep this image in mind

x I plead the fifth

a few reminders because i’m tired and angry

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

adult women aren’t inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes

the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships aren’t incest supporters or pedophiles, actually

liking a m/f ship doesn’t make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space

preferring gay ships doesn’t make you ‘’woke’’ and good

no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villain’s actions are evil and that they don’t condone those actions irl

liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and you’re a fucking idiot if you believe that

just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesn’t mean she’s promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women can’t tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogyny 

some rando’s a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have

no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems

abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships

y’all need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that don’t actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people

fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

feel free to add more

I need to know what savings lie behind there please I can only assume so damn much is it half off nipple clamps? is it 2 for 1 pasties? or does it just link back to his old ass myspace page?

please this is torture

Untitled.

i made a comic in google slides for some ungodly reason

@voiidoasis​

talent

want moooreeeee ;u;

can I please get some more panicky gay dad moments? please? I love these two and I wish to find more