Loving Sucks ; Emotion Sucks.

The most important thing is- it takes time to change the mindset, to change the society. But it is not impossible if we want. In this modern era, we don't need to memorize information rather we have to synthesize them. We can get all information in google with two clicks on our phone, tablets and pc. So, why will we follow the past ways, why will we waste our time in those works which we can easily do with technologies. The previous era, when Industrial revolution took place, the world needed hundreds of skilled workers. This trend still continues in our country. Most of the students are working with STEM majors. But now It's not the time to memorise the information and work with that. Now It's time to create something new, to make new information. Now it's not the time to fill up our head with facts, textbooks and teacher's lectures. Rather we have to learn how to operate with new facts, how to react in unfamiliar situations. This needs to think more about the things. To join the present revolution of the world, we have to sharpen our neurons to accept the unexpected things. Just like,

You will not ask only "WHY", rather ask also "WHY NOT?"

Comparison and overthinking

Some persons always conflict with their mind- what to do,what to do and what will happen in future. Some always think- what is happening all is wrong.Some think about their past time what can not be undone anymore.Some over thinker will spend their time just by thinking what he/she did all day, what she told another persons and did he/she do any wrong? All time, we are regretting .(oh! Who are exception. Please skip!)You know thinking is the main key of our life.

The scientists made illusion one day,they thought impossible, now that is made possible. So, overthinking is mandatory. But! we are doing it everytime.where? Nothing is happening.

Let's crack it.

"Past",Present, Future-- three stages are there in our life.Past is past though its a perfect lesson for us.I am not saying Don't think over past.Of course, you will think.But Don't regret! Another complex word 'regret'. If you did any wrong to anyone,what will happen for this thinking? If he/ she can not forgive you,what will happen? Nothing! Forgive Yourself. Remind, when you are thinking that you were guilty..you achieved "Forgiveness" instantaneously. Never waste your time for that thinking.Rather,think that you won't do it again.And if you were not guilty though you were thought to be guilty, its full problem of other's thinking, not yours. Don't be tempered! Don't be frustrated! Dont be talkative! Just wait until the actual things to be published.Wait for right time!

If you have doubt in Your work that you don't know if it is wrong or it is right. Wait for result. Wait? Yeah,wait, Don't bother much about what is not happened. Or some persons spend their time only thinking what other people think about them! They only think "oh! What he/she thought about me!😞!"firstly, its your problem of personality. If you were confident what you did- what's the reason of bothering by otherself.Yes,you must have to take consents of other,you will not be correct every time. You should take other's consent, either you will accept them and modify your decision or you will discard them. Don't be in a negotiated state!It's very harmful for your mental health or Don't be overconfident and Don't be less confident. Remember, life is once.You will color it. Other persons don't possess any right to spoil your life.

Don't be jealous! You will say, jealously is a human nature.No, you can control your mind.You should control your mind not mind will control you. It's an easy matter that otherself is more than you in any prospect. But why you will compare yourself with him/her?" Learn from him/ her"Don't challenge.Don't do anything for being better than other best person

The only thing you can do that you can "learn".

If you see clearly that anyone less than you gain the power or advantage, simply give them to play with that right.Remember, who gain that power,he/she knows that he/she is not appropriate for that power or if he/she does not know it,within some days he/she can explore it.After that, he/she loses himself/herself.That success will be very temporary. You will say,you lose your opportunity. No,you don't lose it.Temporarily, it is not yours. But one day,you will achieve this.yes, time has gone,It's right.But Don't waste your time thinking over that otherwise you have to grab next one.

When are you depressed and frustrated? That time,when you wanted anything and could not achieve that. Don't bind yourself in a chain, free yourself to gain knowledge. It is hard but you have to do it.

A writing of mine. Though it's seeming somewhat childish now. These childish thoughts can give comfort to this complex mind :3 (1)

8 th march 2020 (recognition of first patient) .today is 26 th march . I don't know what is happening in this country.

My parents, being health workers, are working without PPE. We are totally exposed to Corona. I don't fear for my family. But at least i want the real number gets exposed to all. In a densely populated country like Bangladesh, is it possible to stay safe without corona? We are all going to be infected. But at least, who are suffering and dying, their numbers get published. The wrong which Italy did, why we will not learn from the mistake? Even if we all get aware at once,we have to pay for the mistakes which we have done so far.

Bangladesh, be ready. Days are coming.

At last, you came.

So,days are coming to be unbearable.

Maybe you gave something to someone.

Maybe you told something to someone.

Maybe you spent sometime with someone.

Then you lost in your life. You went away and you forgot. But....

Maybe those words were like sparkling stars for those persons.

Maybe they could not forget you.

Maybe the spent time always twinkles in their mind and they remind you.

Maybe your given small gift is a big big thing for them.

Maybe you are the most important thing in their life.

So, never hurt any person with your words. Your small behaviour can cost nothing but it can give pleasure to someone. Your smiling face can be a reason for other’s mental calmness.

Sometime you will not imagine that how your simple works can give other person a wonderful and pleasing moment!!

Well, It's the end of my 2020 blog :3 I will start 2021

Myself 1: I got all the maths of conics wrong when i was given to do. I am right now crying.

Myself 2: Remember the day when you did the maths.

Myself 1: Ummm....

Myself 2: Then how do u expect u will do correct maths? Did u memorise the maths? Or..

Myself 1: 😡 i diddd not memorise.

Myself 2: thenwhat? You wanted to solve the maths at Once?

Myself 1:ya.

Myself 2: Ok, then i think for problem solving you didn’t get sufficient time. Remember, HSC is not a place for problem solving. Ahhh, you have to memorise the maths repeatedly! Otherwise you can't get the maths correct.

Myself 1: i thought i could solve maths correctly. I believed myself. Now how will I cover all those things?!?

Myself 2. Wanna get 95+/100 in HSC.

Myself 1: ya.

Myself 2. Stop arguing, and memorise MATHS😠 Right now!

I have no work without staring on computer. Can you give some?

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Look, when your focus changes, your view of perceiving beauty also changes!