I'm tired of homophobia coming from radfems
I have kinks and sexual feelings towards women
I have masculine personality traits
It doesn't make me a man
My body is the only thing that makes me a woman
You claim to be gender critical and then you call me a "man" for being horny for women
I don't hate all people who are religious but I struggle to understand them, some do it out of habit, some were raised into it and some just can't handle the idea of death being an end to life.
Those however who cling to the cross like it's everything they have, those who look to it not only as something that makes them fear death less but also a means of validation of their clay-footed superiority, those who cling to faith because they can't handle the truth that exists naturally and doesn't require any faith - those are simply weak men.
They can hate me for being a free woman and a homosexual, think whatever they wish but the second they turn their face towards the cross or the black stone to justify it, it shows how hard it is for them to cope with natural diversity of sexual and social behaviours. Truth hurts weak man's ego, only faith can uplift it.
KJK is not a feminist because she can't be, feminists would not accept a woman who is a housewife and uses makeup (and looks freaking great btw).
I'm not a feminist because I'm pro kink (and pro consent) have kinks myself and I find women VERY sexually appealing, wear makeup occassionaly. Ofc feminists don't like it and call me a "man" because I'm a lesbian and I don't have shame about it.
Feminism has become a gatekeeping cult for "special women" this is why it fails. Even though KJK is not a feminist she does more for women than most feminists who sit in front of their screen and hate on normal things such as beauty, motherhood, sex will ever do.
a part of me understands incel mindset, sex is important to human beings and not having access to it + high libido is not the best combo
I'd never go to abuse women because of it though. I feel like it's mostly bad fate not their fault because most women are not gay, not compatible or my fault for being hurt in life to the point of internal struggle and mental health issues.
It does hurt though. So the anger and frustration is understandable.
Just to clear things out.
I'm not a radfem myself because I'm an aggressively homosexual superhyperlesbian which contradicts radfem ideals about "sexualising women = bad".
I still see alot of radfems as my allies however, they are the only ones who truly care about same sex spaces which ofc includes same sex spaces for lesbians like myself. Despite of everything I'm still a feminist ally and even though I don't call myself a feminist (not anymore), many characterise me as such.
I lost all my friend because of abuse, homophobia and my gender critical views.
sometimes you have to look over the wall to remind yourself that - it's not okay
looking over the wall of a place you're feeling safe in can give you an insight into what's fucked about this world
take that lesson - have courage to be different
say: "NO" even if you're the only one who says it, be the example
it honestly motivates me as bad as it is, it really does... every horrible thing I see tells me that I should be different and that I should protect others who were in the same position I was in, especially if everyone else seems to be ignorant about it
it took me a while to realise that some life lessons are really freaking painful and it's normal to cry, to feel pain and fear but also listen to what that pain is telling you "this is not okay" "this is wrong" "it shouldn't be this way"
most of the time - your body is right
be different, do better