i don't know who made this but YOU ARE GENIUS I LOVE YOU
The sad thing with my allo friends is that they think that romantic love is the strongest love possible. And maybe it is for them. But I feel like they'll never understand how strong platonic love can be. They'll never know how much I like them. Because they're convinced that, because I'm aroace, I'll always like them less than their partner, when, in fact, I just like them differently.
I think since accepting my Aroace self, I've forgotten to pay attention to what signals I'm sending to others that might be misunderstood and today reality slapped me in the face and told me not to be careless and Do not send false signals specially to heterosexual Allo cis men, because if they do not know that you are aroace, they will misinterpreted your kindness. I have this natural charm that I'm just nice to people and some people misinterpreted it as flirting but i'm just kind and i forget sometimes that they could take it the wrong way. To be honest, it scares me because I just want to be nice and nothing more, but I always have to think about what others might think of my niceness. Allo World is more Scary that Halloween.
Remus *irritated*: What is wrong with you??
Sirius *having a meltdown*: EVerYthInG AppARENtLy!
James *walking in*: hey, slow down, what happened??
Sirius: REMUS PUT YOU DOWN AS HIS EMERGENCY CONTACT
James: Oh, wow, thanks rem, m'honored-
Sirius: OH WELL YOU TWO CAN GO SUCK EACH OTHERS FACES THEN, IM HIS HUSBAND. WHY IS HE EVEN CONSIDERING ANYONE ELSE-
Remus: LAST TIME I PUT YOU DOWN, YOU CALLED EVERYONE WHEN I'D JUST NEEDED A RIDE HOME
Sirius: AND HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW THAT?? HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW MY HUSBAND WASNT DYING???
Remus: I WAS THE ONE WHO CALLED YOU!
James:
Sirius:
Sirius: technicalities.
someone: hey can you give me some relationship advice?
me who's aroace: communicate.
someone: I tried but it didn't-
me: break up. /hj