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BECOMING THE WOMAN YOU WANT

Imagine the woman you want to become. Envision her embracing a lifestyle woven with healthy habits that radiate positivity and well-being. Picture her waking up early, greeting the day with gratitude, and setting intentions that shape her mindset for success.

In her daily routine, she prioritizes self-care—nourishing her body with wholesome meals, staying hydrated, and indulging in regular exercise that she genuinely enjoys. Whether it's a morning yoga session, an evening run, or a dance class, physical activity is not a chore but a celebration of what her body can achieve.

This woman values the power of mindfulness. Picture her taking moments throughout the day to breathe deeply, practice meditation, or simply appreciate the present. It's in these mindful pauses that she finds clarity, resilience, and a profound connection with herself.

As she moves through her day, healthy habits extend into her work life. This woman is organized and efficient, using time management techniques to tackle tasks without feeling overwhelmed. Regular breaks and moments of reflection help her maintain focus and creativity.

Evenings are a sanctuary for winding down. She cherishes a good night's sleep, prioritizing rest as a cornerstone of her well-being. Unplugging from screens, engaging in calming activities, and maintaining a consistent sleep schedule contribute to the rejuvenation her body and mind need.

Remember, becoming her doesn't happen overnight. It's a gradual process, a collection of intentional choices and persistent efforts. Start incorporating these healthy habits, step by step, and watch as you evolve into the empowered, balanced woman you aspire to be. 🌿💪🌺🌟

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how to do a mental diet

write down your negative thoughts throughout the day, aiming for the date and time and replacing them with good affs

visualize! make a visionboard

have time to develop creativity and fun to keep the mood up

keep your brain active, study something you like, expand your knowledge

follow people who inspire you

watch positive content

by Nancy Loaiza in youtube :)

how to create a leveling up/dream girl/rebranding plan 🤍🍸🖤

establish your aesthetic

first thing’s first, you need to know where you want to go in life and what is your “aesthetic”? do you want to be giving “classy, businesswoman”? what about “nyc socialite”? of course these are just examples, but you should know what type of girl you want to embody. remember, you don’t have to fit a narrative, but you should have a general “aesthetic” that you want to be associated with. even if it’s 50 million different aesthetics, it’s whatever makes you, you.

visualize yourself/life

get inspired by making a vision board (physical or digital) and add to your board (if digital) daily. i find that this helps you stay in alignment with where you want to be in the future. you have to stay in that frequency and remind yourself of what’s next to come… because this new life is what’s next to come.

start with habits

please refer to my “starting your leveling up journey” post, but basically— you should create 1-3 habits for each of your goals and work on them until they become second nature. then when you’re ready, start implementing more habits that are aligned with your goals.

create routines with your habits

can you incorporate some of these new habits into a morning or evening routine? we all know that routines are important— they almost become our personalities and they set the tone for the day and night, and even the next day. for me, i know i’m only inspired to exercise in the morning around 10am, so exercise is part of my morning routine.

create daily + weekly goals

let’s say part of your journey is learning a new language. a daily goal could be learning one new vocabulary word in that language. your weekly goal could be knowing the alphabet in that language. use this method for all of your goals.

don’t overwhelm yourself with goals, routines, and habits

start slow; don’t overwhelm yourself. if you want to work on one goal at a time, then work on that one goal. burnout is real and it’s very hard to get back into the swing of things afterwards. i understand most of us are impatient when we just want to be a different version of ourselves, but it’s going to take some adjusting. i suggest not working on more than 3 things at once, but if you can work on more, go ahead

be a part of a community to keep you accountable

tumblr and facebook groups in my opinion are the best ways you can connect with other women who are working on the same thing. you can inspire one another, bounce ideas off of one another, and it’s super fun. you might want to even document your journey online.

set milestones and have a reward system

let’s say you would like to lose or gain weight, no matter the number, focus on 5-10 pound increments. when each milestone is successfully completed, reward yourself with something nice. maybe it’s getting your nails done, or splurging on a product that everyone on tiktok keeps talking about. apply this to any of your goals where there are milestones to get to.

don’t waste the day

you should not have any “zero days” meaning… you should be doing at least one thing everyday to reach a goal(s) you have. it doesn’t matter if one goal was to maintain a more organized, clean environment— do your dishes, set the trash out, clean up the hair from the bathroom sink, etc.

what to do when someone makes you feel insecure

✧*. * · ~ thewizardliz 💋💜

✬ i very very very very highly recommend thewizardliz. shes been so helpful to me this past year and if youre not watching her, then what are you doing with your life?? she is the secret which gave me self love and confidence in myself!! i love this woman so much, when she uploads a video my day just brightens☀️.

This post is going to be completely about her video and the points she made. These are just some summaries but it’s best to watch the video bc the way she says it makes all the difference. full credits to this stunning queen for this post. ✬

★ look at the kind of insults someone gives you;

most people hate on others and say nasty things about others because they feel bad about themselves.┊ so what are they insulting you about? your looks, your intelligence, your personality, what is it? remember that "everything someone is insulting you about with no reason- that is something that they are insecure about with themselves." when someone says something to you, understand that it's just a reflection of themselves. and then just pity them and leave bc u dont need that kind of negative energy around you baby💅

★ find yourself. create yourself. KNOW WHO YOU ARE.

"when you know who you are without this person, no one can shake or rock your boat! your boat has to be stable first." you need to learn to be so stable and secure in yourself that whatever comes in, it cannot affect you in anyway! if someone comes up to you and says "you're purple" would you take it seriously? no ofc not!! you may even laugh in their face because you know that you're not purple so whatever anyone says- it does not affect you. so those insults would go 1 ear in, and through the other ear out.

★ never allow anyone to talk down on you.

when you allow someone to talk down at you for the first time, then it wont stop. they will just keep going on and it will only get worse down the line. "toxic people dont get nicer down the line." so once you tell them to stop and they continue, that is officially disrespecting me. you can leave, cut them out of your life.

★ give them a passive aggressive comment back.

(in the video liz gave some examples of things to say back and DAMNN she ate it up!) just adopt the ✨bimbo mentality✨ and act stupid :) example from her video:

someone: "you dont look good today... you look kinda ugly" liz: "aww thankyou, you know i love to look at you and everyday you just give me inspiration to be confident because if you look like that and you can be confident, then i can too."

UMMM OKAYY SHE ATE THAT AND LEFT NO CRUMBS 😋😍

★ are they even worth your time and energy??

absolutely not. those people are WAYYY beneath you honey. walk away. just walk away from these pathetic people. you will find SO MUCH better than them for they are literally UNDER THE BARE MINIMUM. "if someone has to insult you to bring you down, girl you're already above them" also look at the people you're constantly spending your time with. do they help you? do they grow you? do they add ANY kind of value?? no? then why are they still there?? why are YOU still hanging around them??? bc when does your life change? when YOU change.

★ we accept the love that we think we deserve.

why on earth do u think that this is the best you can do?? why do you think that someone who disrespects you is the best you can do? do you really think you're not worthy of the same amount of love you give out?? there are literally people out there who believe that they deserve the best and they get that! but you here are doubting yourself?? huhh?? honey what??

★ what do YOU want?

so many times we're constantly thinking 'how can we make this person happy' , 'what does this person want' , etc etc. but what about you honey? what do you want out of life, out of your relationships, etc.? genuinely, they should actually feel BLESSED to be in the same room as you, to breathe the same air as you. and here you're letting people come and talk down on you? like are you serious? PROTECT YOURSELF.

★ surround yourself with people that grow with you.

people who you surround you with, they should make you feel like the king/ queen of earth! they are meant to hype you up! they should tell you that you're amazing and beautiful! because if you don't then theres no benefit. why be with icky toxic people when you can be with people who will love you the way you love them? "im too pretty to accept this behaviour".

★ lead with your actions, not your words.

its time you stop saying stuff like "im gonna leave if you continue doing this" , "i will do this... i will do that.." no. just leave. you've said it once and they continued? shut up and leave.

start to create your exit plan. i understand that for some people, they arent able to just leave because of problems related to money, health, knowledge, a community etc. so thats why you need to start creating an exit plan.

if its money you need then start thinking: how can i get money? what job? how can i save up to live on my own? if its friends so you don't feel lonely: how can i make friends? can i join a club or a community with people like me? how can i start to meet new people? if its knowledge so you understand more about it: how can i start to educate myself about this? can i go to a library and find a book on this? can i search it up online? is there anyone else who's been through the same think and i can take advice from them?

★ not everyone you lose is a loss.

sometimes a loss is a gain. if people in your life right now have been disrespecting you and now they've left or you've left, thats a gain!! looking back the people i was friends with before- i needed them so i could grow and gain knowledge. and when they stopped being a significant part of my life, that was a gain. "it wasnt a loss, it was a lesson"

"just know that you're the queen of the earth and you can do and get anything you want if you set your mind to it."

"if you have a good heart and pure intentions, then you deserve people with the same intentions and the same heart."

"The first symptom of true love in a young man is timidity; in a young girl, boldness. This is surprising, yet nothing is more simple." - Les Miserables by Victor Hugo.

THE FORBIDDEN FLOWER ( 2022 - EP3/EP4)

Astrology Faces

Face: six degrees of a zodiac sign starting from the first 5; degrees to the last 30. Mainly used for rising/ascending signs but it can be used for all planetary, and house signs.

Aries Faces:

:1 to 5 – Fearless, ambitious, and ready to lead others. Quick and good speaker.

:5 to 10 – Venus and Mercury with Taurus influence. Tendency toward Pride, Conceit, and Resentment

:10 to 15 – A face of change and fancy with unrest as well

:15 to 20 – Ingenuity | Tact | Intellect

:20 to 25 – Contradiction between deception and lover

:25 to 30 – Impulsive and reckless

Taurus Faces:

:1 to 5 – Determined, steady, and artistic

:5 to 10 – Sorrowful and (can) lack energy

:10 to15 – Careless, indifferent, and very tempting

:15 to 20 – De-energized, soft hearted with psychic tendencies

:20 to 25 – Dogmatic and prone to deception

:25 to 30 – Prone to excess and in need of moderation

Gemini Faces:

:1 to 5 – Two-faced with one being the intelligent trickster and the other desperate for others' approval

:5 to 10 – Dignified and overrates own abilities

:10 to 5 – Clever and they gain their accomplishments through their creative intellect

:15 to 20 – Subtle with deep motives and at times can be self-deceptive

:20 to 25 – Self critical and can find it difficult to understand themselves

:25 to 30 – Artistic, witty, and scientific

Cancer Faces:

:1 to 5 – Suspicious, bitterness, and anger erupt when provoked

:5 to 10 – Oratory but can be unreliable and tricky

:10 to 15 – Tenacious, the moon is at home in this face

:15 to 20 – Sensitivity to own surroundings

:20 to 25 – Psychic and impressionable

:25 to 30 – Ambitious and religious

Leo Faces:

:1 to 5 – Prideful and daring and improves through experience

:5 to 10 – Harmonious, peaceful, kind, sympathetic, and amiable

:10 to 15 – Can be unforgiving but also very loving and wise

:15 to 20 – prone to selfishness and with ambitious are involved and threatened

:20 to 25 – Very loyal and sympathetic

:25 to 30 – A battle between head and heart. Occasionally gambling issues.

Virgo Faces:

:1 to 5 – Dual nature that can think too highly of themselves

:5 to 10 – Wise, discreet, searches for love, truth, and honor

:10 to 15 – Successful but can be discriminative

:15 to 20 – Mystical

:20 to 25 – Ambitious, thoughtful, and reflective

:25 to 30 – Talkitive

Libra Faces:

:1 to 5 – Face of ability. Sincere, just, prudent

:5 to 10 – Devotional, with the motive to do the right thing

:10 to 15 – Mentally energetic, thoughtful face

:15 to 20 – Perceptive, quiet, inoffensive face

:20 to 25 – Lovers of beauty

:25 to 30 – Versatile and heavily influenced by Venus

Scorpio Faces:

:1 to 5 – Strong Will and an intuitive character

:5 to 10 – Just character and talents may appear later in life rather than earlier

:10 to 15 – The jury and judge with the power to uncover secrets

:15 to 20 – Diplomatic, serious, and thoughtful character

:20 to 25 – A good judge of character (may have magical ability)

:25 to 30 – Two-faced. One face may positive, the other negative

Sagittarius Faces:

:1 to 5 – Benevolent and curious

:5 to 10 – Pure desire and pure love. Very religious and have a love for higher thought.

:10 to 15 – A vital face in tune with their animal spirit

:15 to 20 – Misfit, the other. Can find it difficult to reveal their true nature

:20 to 25 – anxious, desire for (public) approval

:25 to 30 – Sincere, active, busy, but can be too hasty

Capricorn Faces:

:1 to 5 – Well-balanced in life with high ideals

:5 to 10 – Prone to weakness from overwork and doing more than they are capable of

:10 to 15 – A strong character with tact as well

:15 to 20 –Easy going nature but still waters run deep. Can be easily affected by others.

:20 to 25 – Successful face when connected to the ‘mundane.’

:25 to 30 – Weak nature with a tendency to be to effeminate/masculine

Aquarius Faces:

:1 to 5 – Cleverness, alive and energetic. Can be too positive or too negative. Unreliable.

:5 to10 – Aggressive, mistrustful at times as well

:10 to 15 – Overly cautious and can lack hope but does have tons of insight and foresight.

:15 to 20 – Heavily influenced by the moon. Desires recognition but also knows that recognition doesn’t always happen

:20 to 25 – Selfishness with a need to become well developed

:25 to 30 – Faithful but can be prone to cunningness and deceit

Pisces Faces:

:1 to 5 – A double life and indecisive at times

:5 to 10 – Understanding and peaceful soul

:10 to 15 – Mutable, constantly looking for solid ground

:15 to 20 – Strong but can break. Affable and kind

:20 to 25 – Psychic, impressionable, fond of company

:25 to 30 – Talkative, easily affected by surroundings, and mentally active

NewJeans chart analysis please? <3

NewJeans birth chart analysis

HYBE's astrologer deserves a raise this chart is fucking fantastic.

So they have a Taurus rising which is reasonable. When they popped into the scenes people said they were a "breath of fresh air" and they also were seen as a stable, youthful group with a young aura. The Moon in their first house can also point to their youthfulness. In kpop birthcharts Mars can represent choreographies and one thing people know about NewJeans is how they have fun choreos. The Moon conjunct Mars shows why the Hybe Boy choreo was a hit in S.K. Their choreo's were not as complex and also was fun. (Mars is at 11 degrees which explains how they always go viral for their dances) Uranus in the first house shows how they quickly took over people quickly. They are seen as titans and have claimed their spot. NN in Taurus shows they were going to be successful.

Venus in Cancer can represent the music and NJ has soft, relaxing music that is well liked in their home country and in the media (Third house). PoF in Cancer yeah that explains how they are so successful in S.K. Sun at 28 degrees??? Yeah it shows how they are seen as youthful, etc. Also with mercury the way their songs are written and how they express themselves is quite emotional (Baby (baby), got me looking so crazy (crazy) 빠져버리는 daydream (daydream) Got me feeling you 너도 말해줄래?). Asteroid Varuna in LEO??? Varuna can represent extreme fame so...

Asteroid Asia is at 5th house which makes sense. They are seen as artists and talented in S.K. but the 2 degrees, they are going to get their bags!!

Fama and Vertex are in Libra 6th house so it can mean destined to be famous by music in your day to day life.

I would expect them to have a Gemini MC but Cap MC makes sense when you think about it. They are seen as modest, quiet and natural beauties. Pluto 10th house shows how much they are "Shaking the industry, Quaking reality, Making it iconic" (ifykyk!).

Saturn 11th house can mean a mature group. They know how to work well and are smart.

Jupiter is in the 12th huse shows how successful they are abroad. However Chiron 12th? I hope nothing terrible happens behind the scenes.

I'm going to be a different person when I go back to school after a week.

that week will be full of manifesting, studying, shadow work, self care, affirmations, meditating, journaling, reading, working out, skin care, self love, self discovery, self reflection, positive blogging, podcasts, mindful content, pretty clothes, pretty make up, reinventing my personality, planning, studying, studying, and loving 🦢

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I'm grateful for everything I have.

truly yours,

lenoir

Be kinder to everyone. You never know what’s going on behind doors. Love your family a little more everyday and spend the most time with your friends because you never know. When there is love there is no darkness. May these angels rest in peace.

Please remember that kpop idols are humans and they go through tribulations. They’re not just machines, every mean word you say about them they hear it one way or another. Treat them with kindness.

Edited: Also, we also don't know what health tribulations they are going through (not just mental health). Just treat everyone with kindness and try to help people who are affected by this. Big or small, just try to help them out the best you can. Moonbin no matter what showed off kindness and held Arohas close to his heart. He loved Astro so much and always showed off his love to his members and to the fans. I'm still processing this whole thing and I sound like I'm rambling but I just need to get my feelings out because I'm having a hard time with this. I can't imagine what Moonbin's family and friends are going through. I kept watching Moon Sua with Moonbin and just how much she looked up to him and the love they shared between each other. The reason she became an idol was because of her older brother. I'm sending prayers and healing in this time to everyone affected and especially to his family and friends. Please just send love to each other