What To Do When Someone Makes You Feel Insecure

Venus ♀️ Position and the age you may find love?

Venus in 1st: 1st house is generally the time you begin something. You may find love when you become independent. You may find love at 22 and at 25 which is the maturation age of Venus.

Venus in 2nd: 2nd house is when you are financially settled. So you may find love around 27-28 when you have had 5 to 6 years of career and considerable savings.

Venus in 3rd: 3rd house is your high school years. So you may find love around 14-18 years of age.

Venus in 4th: 4th house is when you are ready to invest in properties. This is ideally around 30-35.

Venus in 5th: 5th house is when you are really young as a child. So you may find love around 10-15 or when you are a bachelor and having fun i.e. 25 to 28.

Venus in 6th: 6th house is when you have started working. So you may find love around 22-25.

Venus in 7th: 7th house is when you are ready to marry. So you may find love around 27-30.

Venus in 8th: 8th house is when you have had some difficult events in life. So you may find love even in late 30's or early 40's (after you had a divorce or breakup or end of 1st marriage etc).

Venus in 9th: 9th house is your college/university years. So you may find love around 18-21. 9th house is also masters and Phd. So you may find around 24-26 and around PhD 30-32.

Venus in 10th: 10th house is your career. You may find love around 25-32.

Venus in 11th: 11th house is your friends in high school. So you may find love in late teens like 16-19.

Venus in 12th: 12th house has no specific timelines. I have found ages 12,24 sometimes introduces the spouse. When you travel abroad after your first salary around 23-24.

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💗🍰SELF-DISCIPLINE IS SELF-LOVE🍰💗

💗If someone truly LOVES themselves , they will not do anything that they know will harm them in future .

🍰SELF-LOVE does not mean Freedom , to do anything which you want to do even if it is not right. Let's say , you are supposed to study but all you wish is to do is watch movies or scroll mindlessly on social media . Your actions do not align with your goals. Or you want a good self-concept , you can't have a good self-concept , if you don't discipline your mind and change your negative self-talk into postive self-talk.

💗If you are in a relationship with someone for pleasures or any other selfish reason , then you are not in love with them. Similarly , if you are using your body or mind for pleasures then you are not in LOVE with YOURSELF . To do the right thing even when no-one is watching you , that is SELF-DISCIPLINE . To do the right thing and not to do something because you wish to do it even if it will harm you in future , that is SELF-LOVE.

🍰If you are doing something because you feel like it , you are ruining yourself , your future and your life . For example : You are craving sugary food but if you eat sugary food , you will get rashes and easily gain weight. You are aware that eating sugary food is not right for you and will harm you in future but you eat it anyway because you " feel " like it. That is not SELF-LOVE or SELF-DISCIPLINE. If someone is continuously smoking and they are enjoying it too , they are not in LOVE with themselves, they are using their body for pleasure , they are in love with PLEASURE. That is why , SELF -DISCIPLINE IS SELF-LOVE . SELF-DISCIPLINE COMES FROM SELF-LOVE and vice-versa. In conclusion , someone who loves themselves won't give into TEMPORARY PLEASURE , they will INVEST in habits that will benefit them in long-term.

💗We often get inferiority complex when we see someone better than ourselves . Where there is self-doubt , there is no SELF-LOVE. It is a tragedy for people who are living in a constant state of comparison. Don't think " good " or "bad " about anyone , don't think about how you can undermine somebody , just think about how you can improve and become better. Tell yourself that YOU ARE THE BEST and you will become the BEST. Learn from Ronaldo - watch this video - click me !

🍰When we are jealous from someone and compare ourselves with others , we are not learning and focusing on what we have. Use jealousy as INSPIRATION. Who are you jealous of ? You are jealous because they have something which you don't have and you want to become like them. Use them as inspiration and get to know why they have that thing you want .

💗AFFIRMATIONS are also a great way to develop SELF-LOVE . Here are some affirmations you can use if you compare yourself with others - click me !

🍰SELF-DISCIPLINE is required in every field , If you want to become a kpop-idol , actress , singer , footballer , doctor , cricketer etc , you need SELF-DISCIPLINE. Even manifestation requires SELF-DISCIPLINE , you are supposed to keep your thoughts in check , persist in the new-story and not go back to the old-story. Mental diet requires SELF-DISCIPLINE. You are supposed to entertain productive thoughts and ignore the non-productive ones.

💗SELF-DISCIPLINE is like a muscle , the more you exercise it regularly, the more strong it will become. It is not something anyone else can impose on you but something you impose on yourself. It is a HABIT , not something you are born with , which means it can be cultivated by anyone. It gets EASIER and EASIER , the more you do it and the earlier you start.

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Summer Fitness Challenge: Your Guide to a Stronger, Healthier body

Show them what you’re made of your endless nights deserve a loud ovation shine bright and prove them wrong cause we can feel our progress

-straykids (song : blind spot)

Hi Sparkles! ⭐ This is the last blog in our first important blog series! I hope the previous six blogs were helpful and informative. Let's dive into a quick and effective summer workout routine to keep you fit and energized during the sunny months

Summer Workout Routine

Summer is the perfect time to revitalize your fitness routine and enjoy the great outdoors. Whether you’re looking to get in shape or maintain your current fitness level, this quick and effective workout plan will help you stay active and energized all summer long Here’s a routine you can follow (6 days in a week) :

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Day 1: Full Body Workout

Start your week strong with a full-body workout.

- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio (jogging, jumping jacks)

- Squats: 3 sets of 12 reps

- Push-ups: 3 sets of 10 reps

- Plank: 3 sets of 30 seconds

Day 2: Cardio and Core

Burn calories and strengthen your core.

- Warm-up:5 minutes of dynamic stretches

- HIIT: 20 minutes (alternate 30 seconds of sprinting with 30 seconds of walking)

Day 3: Active Rest

Give your muscles a break while staying active.

- Activity: Light walking, swimming, or yoga for 30 minutes (don't overwork yourself)

Day 4: Lower Body Focus

Focus on building strength in your lower body.

- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio

- Lunges: 3 sets of 12 reps per leg

- Glute Bridges: 3 sets of 15 reps

Day 5: Upper Body Focus

Target your upper body for a balanced physique.

- Warm-up: 5 minutes of light cardio

- Dumbbell Bench Press: 3 sets of 12 reps

- Bicep Curls: 3 sets of 15 reps

Day 6: Cardio and Stretching

End your week with cardio and flexibility work.

- Warm-up: 5 minutes of dynamic stretches

- Steady-State Cardio: 30 minutes (running, cycling, or brisk walking)

- Stretching: 10 minutes of full-body stretches

Day 7: Rest Day

Allow your body to recover:Complete rest or light activity like a leisurely walk and give yourself a self care day !!

Tips for Success

1. Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water throughout the day, especially during and after workouts.

2. Eat Well: Focus on a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains (or if u are programming to follow a diet click here ! )

3. Be Consistent: Stick to the routine and adjust as needed based on your fitness level.

4. Listen to Your Body: Rest if you feel overly fatigued or experience any pain.

ıllı ⠀ : As you continue on your fitness journey, keep setting new goals and challenging yourself. Adjust the intensity of your workouts as needed and explore different activities to keep your routine enjoyable and engaging. Fitness is a journey, and each step you take brings you closer to ur body goal .⠀♡ ⠀ !!

financial knowledge for the girlies 🤍🍓💸

Develop a budget: Creating and sticking to a budget can help you better understand your income and expenses, and learn how to prioritize your spending.

Save regularly: Saving money is crucial for achieving financial stability. You can set up automatic transfers to a savings account so you won't be tempted to spend the money.

Pay off debt: High-interest debt can hinder your financial progress. Make a plan to pay off your debts and focus on high-interest debts first.

Invest wisely: Investing can help your money grow over time. Look for low-cost index funds, which can give you broad exposure to the market at a low cost.

Understand compound interest: Compound interest is the interest you earn on interest. By investing consistently, the power of compound interest can help you build wealth over time.

Research before making big financial decisions: Before making a major decision, such as buying a house or car, research different options and weigh the costs and benefits.

Learn from your mistakes: Every failure or setback can teach you something valuable. Use these experiences to inform your future financial decisions.

Get professional advice: Seek advice from a financial advisor if you're unsure about your financial decisions. They can provide guidance on investments, retirement planning, and tax strategies.

Be aware of scams: Scammers can take advantage of financial illiteracy. Be cautious when someone offers an investment that's too good to be true.

Continuous learning: Financial knowledge is constantly changing, so stay informed by regularly reading financial news, books, and attending classes or webinars.

Jerry Yan

💗🍓EMBODY YOUR DESIRES🍓💗

🍓" You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe it is the only reason you do not see it" - Neville Goddard

💗THE FEELING OF I AM IS STRONGER THAN I WILL BE . What you feel you are is stronger than what you want to be. Embody your desires. Embody your desired version. You want to be like her ? Embody that version . Instead of being " I wish I was like her " or " I want to be like her " whenever you see your role model , affirm how you are alike.

🍓You already have your desires. You are already what you want to be. We use affirmations to remind ourselves that we have our desires. You can shift your identity and become a new and desired version by embodying your desires .

Astrology Faces

Face: six degrees of a zodiac sign starting from the first 5; degrees to the last 30. Mainly used for rising/ascending signs but it can be used for all planetary, and house signs.

Aries Faces:

:1 to 5 – Fearless, ambitious, and ready to lead others. Quick and good speaker.

:5 to 10 – Venus and Mercury with Taurus influence. Tendency toward Pride, Conceit, and Resentment

:10 to 15 – A face of change and fancy with unrest as well

:15 to 20 – Ingenuity | Tact | Intellect

:20 to 25 – Contradiction between deception and lover

:25 to 30 – Impulsive and reckless

Taurus Faces:

:1 to 5 – Determined, steady, and artistic

:5 to 10 – Sorrowful and (can) lack energy

:10 to15 – Careless, indifferent, and very tempting

:15 to 20 – De-energized, soft hearted with psychic tendencies

:20 to 25 – Dogmatic and prone to deception

:25 to 30 – Prone to excess and in need of moderation

Gemini Faces:

:1 to 5 – Two-faced with one being the intelligent trickster and the other desperate for others' approval

:5 to 10 – Dignified and overrates own abilities

:10 to 5 – Clever and they gain their accomplishments through their creative intellect

:15 to 20 – Subtle with deep motives and at times can be self-deceptive

:20 to 25 – Self critical and can find it difficult to understand themselves

:25 to 30 – Artistic, witty, and scientific

Cancer Faces:

:1 to 5 – Suspicious, bitterness, and anger erupt when provoked

:5 to 10 – Oratory but can be unreliable and tricky

:10 to 15 – Tenacious, the moon is at home in this face

:15 to 20 – Sensitivity to own surroundings

:20 to 25 – Psychic and impressionable

:25 to 30 – Ambitious and religious

Leo Faces:

:1 to 5 – Prideful and daring and improves through experience

:5 to 10 – Harmonious, peaceful, kind, sympathetic, and amiable

:10 to 15 – Can be unforgiving but also very loving and wise

:15 to 20 – prone to selfishness and with ambitious are involved and threatened

:20 to 25 – Very loyal and sympathetic

:25 to 30 – A battle between head and heart. Occasionally gambling issues.

Virgo Faces:

:1 to 5 – Dual nature that can think too highly of themselves

:5 to 10 – Wise, discreet, searches for love, truth, and honor

:10 to 15 – Successful but can be discriminative

:15 to 20 – Mystical

:20 to 25 – Ambitious, thoughtful, and reflective

:25 to 30 – Talkitive

Libra Faces:

:1 to 5 – Face of ability. Sincere, just, prudent

:5 to 10 – Devotional, with the motive to do the right thing

:10 to 15 – Mentally energetic, thoughtful face

:15 to 20 – Perceptive, quiet, inoffensive face

:20 to 25 – Lovers of beauty

:25 to 30 – Versatile and heavily influenced by Venus

Scorpio Faces:

:1 to 5 – Strong Will and an intuitive character

:5 to 10 – Just character and talents may appear later in life rather than earlier

:10 to 15 – The jury and judge with the power to uncover secrets

:15 to 20 – Diplomatic, serious, and thoughtful character

:20 to 25 – A good judge of character (may have magical ability)

:25 to 30 – Two-faced. One face may positive, the other negative

Sagittarius Faces:

:1 to 5 – Benevolent and curious

:5 to 10 – Pure desire and pure love. Very religious and have a love for higher thought.

:10 to 15 – A vital face in tune with their animal spirit

:15 to 20 – Misfit, the other. Can find it difficult to reveal their true nature

:20 to 25 – anxious, desire for (public) approval

:25 to 30 – Sincere, active, busy, but can be too hasty

Capricorn Faces:

:1 to 5 – Well-balanced in life with high ideals

:5 to 10 – Prone to weakness from overwork and doing more than they are capable of

:10 to 15 – A strong character with tact as well

:15 to 20 –Easy going nature but still waters run deep. Can be easily affected by others.

:20 to 25 – Successful face when connected to the ‘mundane.’

:25 to 30 – Weak nature with a tendency to be to effeminate/masculine

Aquarius Faces:

:1 to 5 – Cleverness, alive and energetic. Can be too positive or too negative. Unreliable.

:5 to10 – Aggressive, mistrustful at times as well

:10 to 15 – Overly cautious and can lack hope but does have tons of insight and foresight.

:15 to 20 – Heavily influenced by the moon. Desires recognition but also knows that recognition doesn’t always happen

:20 to 25 – Selfishness with a need to become well developed

:25 to 30 – Faithful but can be prone to cunningness and deceit

Pisces Faces:

:1 to 5 – A double life and indecisive at times

:5 to 10 – Understanding and peaceful soul

:10 to 15 – Mutable, constantly looking for solid ground

:15 to 20 – Strong but can break. Affable and kind

:20 to 25 – Psychic, impressionable, fond of company

:25 to 30 – Talkative, easily affected by surroundings, and mentally active