💗🍰SELF-DISCIPLINE IS SELF-LOVE🍰💗

astrology observations 3 ✧˖*°࿐

-cancer mercury can indicate photographic memory

-both people i’ve known with sun in the 9th house have very religious fathers (probably bc sun is paternal energy, and 9th house is the house of religion)

-i feel like saturn in the 4th or 6th house natives would be picky eaters

-leo moons loveeee being spoiled and having lots of quality time with their loved ones

-aquarius/11th mercury natives are natural public speakers. many celebrity natives have talk shows! (ex. oprah, trevor noah, drew barrymore, ellen)

-those w chiron in the 11th house may experience public or group humiliation

-check your 12th house (sign and any planets) to see any themes you need to address for shadow work (ex. venus in the 12th - self worth issues, shame around what you like to indulge in, trauma around relationships)

wanted to post this on it's own because i spent so much time on it...

"later, i often dreamed about that day and of his gentle voice. i don't want to admit that i'm obsessed with a man i've only been with for ten minutes. his presence seemed to encourage me and gave me hope to live again after years of suffering from illness" THE FORBIDDEN FLOWER (2023) | EP 1 dir. by Zhao Xiao Lei, starring Xu Ruo Han and Jerry Yan

Venus Signs ✨ Fashion ✨ Style

Aries Venus (Venus ☌ Mars)

Aries Venus is a trend-setter who loves bold colours & striking patterns. They like colourful, fresh & daring pieces. They have a very tomboyish style. Red, purple, blue & black colours, fancy lingerie & lace, & leather is a favourite. Aries Venus in the 1H & 10H is usually remembered as a fashion icon.

Marilyn Monroe • Gigi Hadid • Mabel • Audrey Hepburn

Taurus Venus 

Comfort is key for them. Warm, fuzzy & practical to a fault. Hoodies & jeans is the deadly Taurus combo. When they dress up, they like floral patterns or any kind of beautifully detailed elegant dresses.  They love the natural look.

Lana Del Rey • Laura Prepon • Ariana Grande • Amelia Warner

Gemini Venus (Venus ☌ Mercury)

Unpredictable, playful & colourful. Gemini Venus loves to wear either small pieces or big items, nothing inbetween. They love huge coats that make them feel small, and tiny shorts & skirts to make them feel light. They like items that are typically cute & girly. 

Miranda Kerr • Margot Robbie • Megan Fox • Lil Kim

Cancer Venus (Venus ☌ Moon)

Wholesome & feminine. They love soft colours, pastels & neutrals. Floral patterns & silky textures are a must. They also love cute little sweaters & items that are classical, timeless but tasteful. The mother is a huge style inspiration, especially if you have a Virgo MC. 

Lily-Rose Depp • Astrid Berges • Cameron Diaz • Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen

Leo Venus (Venus ☌ Sun)

Leo Venus is very edgy & dramatic. But they also love the art “less is more” and will go for one captivating statement piece to tie their whole outfit together. They love bold colours, gold, purple, red & leopard prints are a favourite. 

Monica Bellucci • Madonna • Kaia Gerber • Cheryl Cole

Virgo Venus 

Virgo Venus loves intricate designs & all sorts of interesting patterns.They’re also very understated, & very put-together. A true lover of neutrals & soft colours to emulate a sun-kissed vibe. They like to look very neat & clean.

Candice Swanepoel • Kate Beckinsale • Rosalia • Kim Kardashian

Libra Venus 

People say style is subjective but Libra Venus is undoubtedly the most stylish. They like anything beautiful & glamorous and pick items that are very creative, elegant & timeless. Their style is airy, feminine & always aesthetically appealing.

Grace Kelly • Rose McGowan • Bebe Rexha • Kiernan Shipka

Scorpio Venus (Venus ☌ Pluto)

Sexy & teasing. Scorpio Venus loves black & red. Bright colours, patterns & alluring vibes. They dress up in a lot of cut-outs and revealing & provocative pieces. They love to shock & tease with suggestive fashion items. 

Ava Gardner • Doja Cat • Cardi B • Hailee Steinfeld

Sagittarius Venus (Venus ☌ Jupiter)

Sagittarius Venus loves anything that looks foreign or exotic. Their style is effortlessly cool, fiery & adventurous, they always twist trends to their own taste. They love furs & leather, they can mix anything together. Naturally bohemian.

Aaliyah • Jess Glynne • Suki Waterhouse • Hedy Lamarr

Capricorn Venus (Venus ☌ Saturn)

Saturn influence gives them a dark edge, as they love black. Their style is casual but professional. They love vintage items, and like to make statements with their clothing. A lot of them are attracted to high-end fashion.

Megan Thee Stallion • Britney Spears • Cindy Crawford • Gene TIerney

Aquarius Venus (Venus ☌ Uranus)

Aquarius Venus’s are all equally unusual. They love strange patterns & odd colour combos &  wear all the colours of the rainbow. They want to be unique and original, & have a very hipster aesthetic.

Taylor Swift • Beren Saat • Paris Jackson • Eva Mendes

Pisces Venus (Venus ☌ Neptune)

Sequins, glitter and shimmer! Pisces Venus is an otherworldly kind of glamorous. Like Gemini, love to have cute patterns & details on their clothes like fruits & plants. Anything that flows & soft is ideal. 

Emma Watson • Diana Ross • Michelle Pheiffer • Kristen Stewart

what to do when someone makes you feel insecure

✧*. * · ~ thewizardliz 💋💜

✬ i very very very very highly recommend thewizardliz. shes been so helpful to me this past year and if youre not watching her, then what are you doing with your life?? she is the secret which gave me self love and confidence in myself!! i love this woman so much, when she uploads a video my day just brightens☀️.

This post is going to be completely about her video and the points she made. These are just some summaries but it’s best to watch the video bc the way she says it makes all the difference. full credits to this stunning queen for this post. ✬

★ look at the kind of insults someone gives you;

most people hate on others and say nasty things about others because they feel bad about themselves.┊ so what are they insulting you about? your looks, your intelligence, your personality, what is it? remember that "everything someone is insulting you about with no reason- that is something that they are insecure about with themselves." when someone says something to you, understand that it's just a reflection of themselves. and then just pity them and leave bc u dont need that kind of negative energy around you baby💅

★ find yourself. create yourself. KNOW WHO YOU ARE.

"when you know who you are without this person, no one can shake or rock your boat! your boat has to be stable first." you need to learn to be so stable and secure in yourself that whatever comes in, it cannot affect you in anyway! if someone comes up to you and says "you're purple" would you take it seriously? no ofc not!! you may even laugh in their face because you know that you're not purple so whatever anyone says- it does not affect you. so those insults would go 1 ear in, and through the other ear out.

★ never allow anyone to talk down on you.

when you allow someone to talk down at you for the first time, then it wont stop. they will just keep going on and it will only get worse down the line. "toxic people dont get nicer down the line." so once you tell them to stop and they continue, that is officially disrespecting me. you can leave, cut them out of your life.

★ give them a passive aggressive comment back.

(in the video liz gave some examples of things to say back and DAMNN she ate it up!) just adopt the ✨bimbo mentality✨ and act stupid :) example from her video:

someone: "you dont look good today... you look kinda ugly" liz: "aww thankyou, you know i love to look at you and everyday you just give me inspiration to be confident because if you look like that and you can be confident, then i can too."

UMMM OKAYY SHE ATE THAT AND LEFT NO CRUMBS 😋😍

★ are they even worth your time and energy??

absolutely not. those people are WAYYY beneath you honey. walk away. just walk away from these pathetic people. you will find SO MUCH better than them for they are literally UNDER THE BARE MINIMUM. "if someone has to insult you to bring you down, girl you're already above them" also look at the people you're constantly spending your time with. do they help you? do they grow you? do they add ANY kind of value?? no? then why are they still there?? why are YOU still hanging around them??? bc when does your life change? when YOU change.

★ we accept the love that we think we deserve.

why on earth do u think that this is the best you can do?? why do you think that someone who disrespects you is the best you can do? do you really think you're not worthy of the same amount of love you give out?? there are literally people out there who believe that they deserve the best and they get that! but you here are doubting yourself?? huhh?? honey what??

★ what do YOU want?

so many times we're constantly thinking 'how can we make this person happy' , 'what does this person want' , etc etc. but what about you honey? what do you want out of life, out of your relationships, etc.? genuinely, they should actually feel BLESSED to be in the same room as you, to breathe the same air as you. and here you're letting people come and talk down on you? like are you serious? PROTECT YOURSELF.

★ surround yourself with people that grow with you.

people who you surround you with, they should make you feel like the king/ queen of earth! they are meant to hype you up! they should tell you that you're amazing and beautiful! because if you don't then theres no benefit. why be with icky toxic people when you can be with people who will love you the way you love them? "im too pretty to accept this behaviour".

★ lead with your actions, not your words.

its time you stop saying stuff like "im gonna leave if you continue doing this" , "i will do this... i will do that.." no. just leave. you've said it once and they continued? shut up and leave.

start to create your exit plan. i understand that for some people, they arent able to just leave because of problems related to money, health, knowledge, a community etc. so thats why you need to start creating an exit plan.

if its money you need then start thinking: how can i get money? what job? how can i save up to live on my own? if its friends so you don't feel lonely: how can i make friends? can i join a club or a community with people like me? how can i start to meet new people? if its knowledge so you understand more about it: how can i start to educate myself about this? can i go to a library and find a book on this? can i search it up online? is there anyone else who's been through the same think and i can take advice from them?

★ not everyone you lose is a loss.

sometimes a loss is a gain. if people in your life right now have been disrespecting you and now they've left or you've left, thats a gain!! looking back the people i was friends with before- i needed them so i could grow and gain knowledge. and when they stopped being a significant part of my life, that was a gain. "it wasnt a loss, it was a lesson"

"just know that you're the queen of the earth and you can do and get anything you want if you set your mind to it."

"if you have a good heart and pure intentions, then you deserve people with the same intentions and the same heart."

Blackpink December Reading 2023

Note: Jisoo's surprise ! Please enjoy and take it lightly

Jisoo

Love: I believe that Jisoo is still with the actor and that the breakup was just a media play (like most idols when they say they break up after 4 months and they don’t). She is mostly focused on establishing her image rather than concerned about her love relationship 

Career: Currently she is really struggling with what she wants for herself and for her career. It feels like Jisoo has ideas that cannot be conducted which frustrates her a lot. Her relationship with YG isn’t on the best terms either 

Self: She is overall happy with her life. She has many opportunities outside of singing. Jisoo is focusing on herself, on her image, on her relationship, and on her family as well, spending time with the people she loves

Jennie

Love: Jennie is in a relationship but feels like the relationship is forced like she is being clouded by the other person and unable to express herself the way she might have wanted to. Jennie is slightly frustrated by how things are at the moment. I feel like she has to cut a lot of people she used to get out with, cut the people she is with

Career: Jennie knows her career is established and fans will support her no matter what she does. She is just overwhelmed by the choices she has since some of them need her to break some of her personal values. In any case, expect some projects done by Jennie next year

Self: Overall she feels frustrated by her current life and wishes she wouldn’t need to be this way. I feel like she has also brought some physical modification on herself (this could be from a simple diet or haircut to a plastic C.) 

Rosé

Love: As expected, Rosé is dating at the moment and things seem to be going rather well for her since the realtionship is flourishing into something rather stable and financially pleasing for her. I could be wrong but this feels like it is someone who works in the industry 

Career: She is also dealing with some complications when it comes to her career, but Rosé has all of her affairs dealt with when it comes to YG. Her choice brought her more happiness and fans just need to trust the process 

Self: Honestly she is in a good place, she is happy, she is financially stable and wealthy and all the career opportunities keep flowing as well. She isn’t worried about her future and enjoying her life after the complicated year she had 

Lisa 

Love: Without much surprise, yes she is dating Frederic and things are going well If not better. There’s financial stability, there’s passion and there’s also authority. I feel like he is the one taking care of her and her career, and she is allowing him to sponsor whatever he wants 

Career: As expected, fans shouldn’t be too worried about her career, since Lisa will keep doing what she does and pushing forward. I believe that her music will be the focus of 2024 but she will also appear on different shows and endorsements 

Self: She is happy, she is healthy at the moment and Lisa has also been trying her best to spend as much time as she can with her family, and her childhood friend and just enjoying the fact that she is rather free to experience a good life 

THE MOON DEGREES

based on numerology

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 1°/10°/19°/28° ₊˚⊹

People with their moon at these degrees are more likely to have impulsive emotional instincts. They may have been raised in a home where they weren’t listened to or heard and had to raise their voice or be aggressive to get their parents to listen to them which in turn has caused them to not be able to control their emotions well or handle arguments well. These people may come off as intimidating to others but deep down they’re just emotionally wounded from their childhood. The positive to these degrees is that you have strong manifestation abilities (especially 19°) and are capable of manifesting your desires into the physical reality. This is also considered a beauty indication as the moon can be associated with the face and 1 one of the numbers of beauty in numerology which all these numbers reduce to. These people are also ride or die for the people they care about and will never be afraid to stand up for their loved ones. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must work hard for the things they want and be ambitious

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 2° ₊˚⊹

People with their moon at this degree are typically very peaceful and kind souls. They’re well liked by a lot of people and don’t prefer to burn bridges with people or create drama. They avoid conflict at all costs as it causes them a lot of anxiety and they don’t like hurting others. These people may amazing writers/authors as well as actors. They also tend to have a very admirable feminine beauty. The only downside to this moon degree is sometimes people with it can be a bit gossipy. If people with this moon degree want to create stability in life they must not get into too much conflict or gossip a lot

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 3°/12°/21° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees are not afraid to tell everyone how they’re feeling emotionally. They are great at communicating how they feel, however sometimes if they don’t learn to control it this can be a negative thing. Sometimes they share too much about their negative emotions towards other people and gossip a lot which can cause conflict in their life. These people tend to have very childlike energy which sometimes can manifest in a good way if they’re at a higher vibration and just make them fun to be around, but other times if they’re at a lower vibration in life, manifest as them being childish or immature. The positive thing about these moon degrees is they always know how to make people laugh and cheer them up. They’re also good at speaking up for things they have strong emotions towards. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must learn to maturely communicate their emotions rather than immaturely do so

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 4°/13°/22° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees are very hard workers when it comes to things they care about and have emotional desire for. They may have had a challenging childhood and had to work really hard early in life. At times they can be aggressive or struggle with anger issues as well. The positive to people with these moon degrees is that they can become extremely wealthy through hard work. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must surround themselves with others who have their life put together but also make sure they’re mentally and physically well on their own without the help from others. They should also try not to intimidate others in a negative way

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 5°/14°/23° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees tend to be very good looking as they all reduce to 5 and 5 is the number of societal beauty in numerology. They are quite sexual but not just with anyone. They must have an emotional connection with you to desire you sexually but when they do have that strong emotional connection and care toward you they are extremely sexual people. Be careful though if you do have these degrees because you can get pregnant more easily and unexpectedly than others. The challenging part of these degrees in your moon is that you may move on fast romantically and not be able to settle for one person easily. These people are also very entertaining people and could do really well in the entertainment industry. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in their life they must travel when they’re down and never surround themselves with people who restrict them in life. They need lots of freedom to be happy/stable

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 6°/15°/24° ₊˚⊹ - tw: weight

People with these moon degrees are very family oriented even if they happened to have a rough upbringing they still have unconditional love for their family that’s hard to let go of. These people are amazing friends and really good parents. They have an extremely nurturing aura and caring nature that makes others very comfortable around them. The only challenges that may come with these degrees are emotional pain involving weight, stubbornness, or just laziness at times. These people tend to be homebody’s and usually just enjoy chillin at home with their pets (if they have any). If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must be responsible and surround themselves with people who appreciate them. These degrees can also be a beauty indication since 6 in numerology is ruled by venus

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 7°/16°/25° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees may have lots of struggles in their relationships with their family and unfortunately often take the bad habits they learn from their parents into their romantic relationships. They sometimes can struggle with living in the past as well. They usually don’t want to have their own children and probably shouldn’t even if they do (other than 16°). They naturally do well emotionally spending majority of their time alone and focusing on themselves. On a more positive note though they’re extremely intelligent and analyze others quickly. These people tend to be very spiritually connected as well and may even be psychic. They tend to be more on the introverted side. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they should let go of the past, pay close attention to their intuition, and stop gambling with things they shouldn’t

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 8°/17°/26° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees live a very karmic life. More karmic than most. Any time they hurt someone without reason of defense they will receive karma back very quickly emotionally. The same also happens when others hurt them. They will receive lots of emotional karma fast. These people can live a great life or horrible one depending on how they choose to treat people. They should kill people with kindness for the most part though. These people can be very materialistic and care a lot of materialistic things. They tend to have very good judgment and are easily able to tell if someone is a good person or not or if they’re in a challenging situation or not. They at worst can be vengeful, greedy, controlling, or abuse their power at times. On a more positive note though they make great business men/women/etc and are very powerful people. They tend to be poor when young but as an adult become wealthy. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they should stop taking advantage of people and never be abusive or cruel toward others

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 0°/9°/18°/27° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees adapt super quickly to their surroundings/who they surround themselves with. If they hang out with losers they will become a loser. If they hang out with successful people they will become successful. These people are either the best people you’ll ever meet or the worst. There’s never an in between. They hold the power to whether they’ll have a good life or not. At worst they could struggle with addiction, be too much of a follower (in a negative way), be violent, lie a lot, or be hurt others because of their ego. They also tend to be the black sheep of their family. On a more positive note though these people are very intelligent and extremely powerful manifestors. They are very good at art because they often can use their emotions toward it with success. They’re extremely good looking if they don’t have lots of negative karma. They also tend to be good at acting because they’re good at pretending to be someone they’re not. If people with these moon degrees want to create stability in life they must surround themselves with people that have what they want and never try to scam others

₊˚⊹ MOON AT 11°/20°/29° ₊˚⊹

People with these moon degrees are extremely spritual souls. They often have dreams that will tell them things about the future. They are the most likely to be psychic out of all the other degrees as well. At worst they can be overly sensitive or violent due to emotions. On a positive note though they tend to be very charming and kind people, old souls, and they often make good athletes. If these people want to create stability in their life they need to learn to control their emotions more

₊˚⊹ BONUS MOON DEGREE NOTES ₊˚⊹

— The moon at 25° or 29° can indicate being seen as extremely beautiful to a lot of people

— The moon at 27° can make someone extremely spirtual and intelligent. The downside is they could struggle with things like addiction or romance

— The moon at 5°/14°/15°/23°/25° can grant good physical health or mean you care a lot about your health

— The moon at 24° can also grant wealth

— The moon at 23° can sometimes indicate being unfaithful to your partners

— 18°/28° live a more karmic life than 8°/17°/26° people

as always please do not copy my work and remember that your entire chart matters. this is about isolated placements alone

XU ROUHAN for SuperELLE China, August 2023

𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐃𝐎 𝐈𝐍𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐀𝐃 𝐎𝐅 𝐒𝐂𝐑𝐎𝐋𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐆 ✧

+ make a wishlist so you’ll be prepared when it’s your birthday/Christmas

+ do five or more journal prompts

+ start a new hobby or make a list of new hobbies you’d like to try

+ write a letter to your future self or film a video for your future self

+ digital redecorating: change the theme/layout of your devices

+ reread a book you haven’t read in 3 or more years

+ watch a show or film in a genre you don’t usually watch

+ go on YouTube and make a playlist of your favorite self improvement/advice videos to watch when you’re down or need a push

+ learn a favorite song on an instrument

+ paint or draw the view outside your bedroom window

+ make a Pinterest board that perfectly captures the vibe(s) you wish to embody

+ organize your desk

+ go on a walk when the sun sets

+ watch a YouTuber you used to love

+ plan your ideal trip! it’s super fun to dream up possible vacations!!

+ look for a new podcast to listen to

stop being second choice

Start with your relationship with yourself. If you see yourself as second choice, others will see it too. Learn to love yourself and put yourself first in your own priorities.

Learn to love yourself. You can't expect another to fulfill all your affection needs if you're not already enough for yourself. Take time every day to pamper yourself and do the things that bring you happiness.

Dare to take your place and say no when someone asks you something you don't want or can't do. Your time and energy are valuable, don't waste them on others.

Believe in your own worth. Don't let anyone make you doubt your worth. Or you give the impression that you are not “good enough”. You deserve a relationship where you are respected and appreciated for who you are.

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