Latest Posts by the-frog-at-the-bog - Page 3

If this post gets 5k notes by February 1st, I’ll do something cool

Like a backflip

And I’ll film it

Edit: I’m changing it from 5k to 1k because 5k is just too unrealistic

If I do somehow get 5k though, I’ll do something even cooler

Like two backflips

Edit: [the goal has been reached. I will start practicing backflips once my exams are over and will have the video posted sometime in February. Thank you, everyone!]

Edit again: for everyone who saw the “100 billion notes for 3 backflips” thing, I’ll be extending the challenge date to my birthday(August 18). If this post doesn’t have 100,000,000,000 notes by then, the challenge will officially be over. Good luck everyone!

@olivefreezy requested me to draw Bill eating some takis, so here you have the Triangle Himself doing as demanded

And a little bonus:

I wanna see how much of the tumbr user base is queer so I made this 😋

Reblog for larger sample size! ☺️

we really need to stop defining queerness by how much someone has suffered for it.

which is to say: no more "I don't claim [label] because I haven't experienced the suffering they face"

look. trans means you don't identify with the gender you were assigned at birth. it doesn't have an implicit "and people are EVIL to YOU SPECIFICALLY because of it!" attached. because if that's how we define it, then a trans woman with supportive friends and family in a generally accepting area... what? doesn't get to call herself trans? because that's what you implied.

I think this is where a lot of exclusionist discourse comes from. "they're appropriating our struggle by calling themselves queer!" they aren't. they really aren't. they're calling themselves queer because they're queer. there is no struggle inherent in being queer. the struggle is imposed on us by the cishetallo-normative world we live in and bigots in our communities. the queerness comes from within.

"what if a cishet aro man--" no. I don't care. if a cishet aro man wants to be included in queer spaces, he can be, because he's queer. aromanticism falls under the queer umbrella and we will therefore treat them the same way we treat everyone else in our community. "But what if he's lying about being aromantic to be a predator?" then we kick him out for being a creep, not because aromanticism isn't queer!

we are absolutely allowed to remove people who are making us uncomfortable from our circles! you can kick a person out of an event! you can ban a person from a space! you can block a person! there are plenty of valid reasons to do this and plenty of queer people of all identities who suck and would rightfully get kicked out of a lot of spaces! but you can't tell someone else they aren't queer! you don't get to invalidate someone like that just because you made up a scenario or defined queerness by how miserable it makes you!

as time goes on we're going to have a lot more people coming out into a world that accepts them with open arms and if your sole metric for how deserving someone is of a seat at the table is how much their life has sucked, you will be excluding a lot of people of all identities!

i must ask you reblog this so said beast, you know. actually has attributes also ping me or something if you draw it i want to see.

its an eye not much more needs to be said

this is a redo of an old post. it deals with more negative feelings than usual for the trans stuff but, those feelings are important too

reblog to remind a trans person that no matter what they have or haven't been through as a trans person they're still trans and deserve to use that label

my friend told me that my coat reminds them of Stanford (it's a light beige old man coat) and im eeeeeee/pos

As an adult I think me and all my friends should all have matching schedules and work like 20 hours a week and also everyone lives within 15 minutes of each other why is that so much to ask

dawg I just switched to firefox as my browser and honestly this shit rules

my watch doesn't quite communicate notifications right, so any time I get a note on Tumblr, this is what I see :/

it's not even on that post

why do hares always look like they are going insane

(close up under the cut

if I see one more “straight people on the aromantic and/or asexual spectrum don’t count” I will personally light shit on fire

If you’re heterosexual and aromantic, you’re valid. If you’re asexual and heteroromantic, fuck yeah, you’re valid too. You belong here, in LGBTQIA+ spaces, and I love and accept you here. You belong at the pride parade, you belong in the LGBTQIA+ clubs at your school or university, and you belong in the LGBTQIA+ community.

We love you. You belong. anyone who says otherwise can go fuck themselves.

I think work should be fun and also less often and should pay more. and I've held this belief for a long time

new year new url

the previous one -> 0-moss-e-bakery-0

I need minors to learn how to lie online again. Your name is Derek, you’re 25 and work in accounting now. Please for your own safety learn how to fucking lie. And if you don’t want to lie, then don’t put your age anywhere. Don’t even say whether you’re a minor or not. It is perfectly easy to avoid adult spaces without signposting that you are doing so because you’re a child.

Stating your age doesn’t protect you this only makes you a target.

ok so you support the disabled, disordered, and mentally ill. but are you normal when someone takes long to respond to you? or if they have a hard time listening to you? when someone has a hard time giving you their attention? or when their manners aren’t perfect? or when someone makes mistakes that may be obvious or simple to you? or when someone talks loudly or “causes a scene?” are you normal when people have to think really hard to explain things? or when they have a hard time putting their thoughts into words?

are you normal when people’s hair is unkempt or oily or visibly unbrushed? or when their face might be full of acne? or when they don’t have deodorant on for one reason or another? how about if their clothes are dirty? 

are you normal about disabled/disordered/mentally ill people when they make you a little uncomfortable?

Friendly reminder that all aros and aces are part of the queer community, and you're welcome here. Aphobes are hit with my laser beam.

(mike voice) stop weezering the animatronics im gonna kill you

Probably what bothers me the most in media is how being 'just friends' is seen as something bad, something nobody wants. The classic downtrodden expression of 'we're just friends,' like it's a failure. Why is friendship seen as a step, not a final goal? Why can't we see deep friendships between people on TV and not have it portrayed as 'not enough'? There are so many types of love, man, and every single one of those is enough.

Edit: Since this is getting a lot of attention, I just want to clarify I'm annoyed at how, traditionally, romantic relationships are seen as the 'final step' and friendships/platonic relationships are seen as the lesser option. Friendship is never the lesser option.

We have heard all about cishet aro men (and i am grateful for that) but shoutout to cishet aro women too. I'm sure this "discourse" hasn't been easy for you either and just as much as aro men aren't "fuckboys", you aren't "sluts" for experiencing non-romantic, sexual attraction. You are queer too and the intersection between aromanticism and womanhood makes your voices a valuable part of this community.

THE A IN LGBTQIA+ IS FOR THE ACES, AROS, AND AGENDRS, IT WILL NEVER BE FOR ALLY

Petition to give every aroace person a free ticket to a rage room every month as gratitude for keeping their shit together and not pulling everyone's hair off in the face of society's amatonormative bullshit

Mike: As a queer elder-

Nadia: You're 27

Mike: Yeah? Do you know any older gays? No. You can thank Reagan for that.

Jeremy: Our neighbour, Clara.

Nadia: My uncle Jonesy and his commonlaw husband.

Jeremy: Kiki from the book club.

Nadia: Not to mention Freddy Fazbear.

hi. I'm aromantic and I'm angry. as are most of us. I have a couple things to say.

aromantic is a queer identity on itself, if someone is aromantic they are queer. this means a cishet allosexual aromantic man is queer. if you don't think a cishet allosexual aromantic man is queer, you don't really support aromantic people at all, and that's not very nice of you.

a queerplatonic relationship isn't just "friends with benefits" or "friendship plus" or whatever else you want to label it as. there's no set definition for queerplatonic relationships and there shouldn't be. a qpr is defined by the people in it deciding it's a qpr. nothing else.

friendship is not lesser than romance. fuck you.

that's all, thanks.

Aro men. you agree. reblog.

(plaintext because idk if gradient text will show up for everyone: aro men. you agree. reblog)

hi I just want to say thank you for all your trans pines stuff. Saw my chest in the mirror today and for the first time in my entire life, instead of feeling awful and dysphoric about it, I just thought “I’m just like stan pines for real”

That's what we in the business call "royalties" you know.

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crybaby learns how to swim - subtitled

another trend because i find these so silly

with my third comfort comfort character now HAHAJSHSJSN

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god theyr all nerds