Themissusheart - Mrs. 💕

I know if I tell my very traditional husband about traditionalism and all that, he'll be bemused... "me ? But I'm just a husband."

His "just a husband" is so much more... He takes his responsibilities seriously, providing, protecting etc. But for him, it's not a big deal... it's what being a husband is.

I think housedresses are a thing we need to bring back in a major way. Flowy, loose dresses are so comfortable and great for house chores. I also am of the opinion that if you take time for yourself to look good, you are more productive, happier, and confident. You also don't even need to do much to look put together, just wear a dress and put your hair in a ponytail and you look great. Also, almost all of my housedresses from the 50s-70s contain pockets.

“birthing person” is a dehumanizing term.

Me: I want to be a stay at home wife/mom because of my husband!!! I love having the opportunity to serve him as often as possible and makes his life easier whenever I can by taking care of the kids and our home

Society:

“WhY wHat doEs He dO fOr yoU??”

“WHy ShoUld yOu haVe tO SuBmit, thAts sO SeXist”

“ThAts sO wRong, whY aRen’t yOu a FeMiniSt tHis iS wHy tHe paTriaRcHy iS sTill aRouNd”

Target has a bunch of sweater tights that are wonderful for making dresses multi-season!! I swear I’m going to practically live in mine now, they’re so comfortable and soft!!

local Oklahoma resident visits Colorado and is shocked and appalled to see that the land goes up sometimes.

I will never understand people who say you should have fun instead of getting married young as if those are mutually exclusive.

The only explanations to saying that is either that your idea of fun is fucking anything that breathes without it being considered cheating, or that you’re dating someone toxic.

There is no reason you should be dating someone if you think marrying them would prevent you from doing things you enjoy.

Either find a better partner, or get real hobbies and interests beyond sex.

When I say “people against getting married young” I don’t mean people against getting married the second you turn 18. I mean the people who yell about “enjoy your 20s don’t tie yourself to someone!”

Heaven knows I keep falling into some of these traps… 😥

Being a housewife is liberating for me, because my previous workplaces were extremely toxic, and I have never felt loved or completely safe as I do with my family 24/7, the family I chose to create and be with. ღ