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In A Most Delightful Way

It has been a while since I engaged with the think-things-through scenarios.

Just kidding, maybe I do it a lot.  It’s in this time; once again, I got it encoded. Years from now, I want to read it again, laugh and hush – in a most delightful way.

There have been many emotional traps that hindered improvements, achievements and laughter. For one, worrying about what other people think about you is somewhat lethal. It’s kind of this lethal wherein personalities and relationships had to be sacrificed. So better cut the substandard long story of life, kill it yeah? Slay the please-everyone vibes.

Well, it’s easy as a snap to say but a bit hard to execute swiftly and properly. It wouldn’t be so hard if some major stuff needed for considerations were just all odds and ends. For say, your pet, pal, best friend, brother, sister, lady, man, familia or somebody you know that likes you doesn’t really do. Let’s even put this in its teeny weeny worst-case, hopefully fictional, scenarios:

They’re quietly against your dos and don’ts, or simply contrary to you. They don’t feel nor get you at all. They don’t have this aura to gain ceaseless interaction with you. They prefer other individuals more than you. Of course, these folks aren’t telling you these things. Odds get even and you’re all acting normal around those supposedly awkward scenes.  And hey, these scenes ain’t directed for a job hunt; but a life search wherein you must feel well and comfortable.

Oh better get a good act over here! Now, how? Know how.

There’s never a “right time” when you don’t consider it one. Either you’ve found out at an early or late phase about the ‘they-dislike-you’ issues, find a right time to reconsider things.  Reconsider to keep up with these people. Reconsider to make peace (peace of mind, I guess) with them. Have a chance to give them the treatment you wanted them to receive. If ever these life alterations didn’t work, maybe it’s time to get rid of pleasing them. Keep the blame away ‘cause maybe the error isn’t yours – it’s these individuals who are just flat out difficult.

It could be so tiring and exhausting and killing to please, yeah? Sooo, as for the remaining notes, find acceptance in the box of failure. Well, you don’t have to waste time for people who aren’t willing to upgrade themselves. Instead of pleasing everyone, just do what you want and you’ll find the right environment.

And oh, one more thing: Try to give attention to people who put efforts just to see you with glowing beams, or at least they’re accommodating.  Appreciate and give back the <3

Note to self: Try this – in a most delightful way.  Lalalalala ♩ ♪ ♫ ♬

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Choose Yours

by neil faber & michael dumontier

from the last billboard project by john rubin

Never Miss, Take A Risk

Through voices, inks and paper, many have tried to put into definite words what risk is and what it means to them. Slowly exploring its essence, I must say that it is an absolute eureka moment once discovered. Silly but true – you must not miss to take a great risk! But... how? And why?

Breathe in. Breathe Out. One should note in his jottings that life is inherently risky. We are the star players in our own life’s competition and to dodge from the wicked streak risk of doing nothing is the first goal. Just try to blend with this flow, if you fail fast, don’t let it last; make ways to adjust and you’ll learn how to surpass.

Recently, I have encountered the great winds of dilemma and challenge. It’s very odd yet I felt that it will give a big hint that will fill up my puzzle in life. It’s like a part of the picture formed in zigzag-cut puzzle pieces that may bring me to a life-long conclusion. And guess what? In the dimmest of nights and on the shimmering sun of days, my thoughts were never wrong. I’ve decided to risk the unusual. I’ve concluded to grow. I’ve chosen to love.

No matter how the mind spins and feelings diverge, risk and love are never far from each other. Love and achievement always involve great risks. Though I may not be able to combine and put all of these ideas into words everyone can understand, I may assure that I can let my actions do the speaking. It simply does. It simply goes.

“Most important thing is this: to be ready at any moment to give up what you are for what you might become,” with the thought of American author W. E. B. Du Bois that struck me most, I can say that life is a beautiful mess slowly unyielding the hidden sparks and shadows of the soul. Truly, risk is an essential part of determining life’s worth. So why not pursue not to hit a miss or never miss a hit? Take your weapon and risk; seek how far you can go along with the strange tides of sorrow and bliss.

PS: Risk for what is right. Great decisions always contain great risks. It always takes a witty mind and courageous heart to make this kind of decisions. But yeah, keep calm! No pressure, take this risk: Smile. J

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“One may read this and think it’s magic. But falling in love is an act of magic — so is writing.”

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