WHAT IS THE TUBI FLESH HAT HEAD AD. STOP IT TUBI. STOP IT TUMBLR.

voting grits because it is the only thing on this list i don't really like, my bad chat. the texture is, yes, made to be gritty, but good lord my autistic ass hates it. no hate to the grits fans

and don't call me out for being a yank... ermm... i've lived in the bible belt for a little over a decade 😭😭🤓

I used to follow genderqueerdykes years ago before the whole .. "transandrophobia" thing reached its current peak as discourse on this site.

I considered myself uneducated. It isn't my place, I'd say. I was afab. I'm white. How dare I speak this way about it. Who claimed to be a mixed black trans lesbian. No more.

I once considered it somebody who knew more about gender. About orientation. About the punk scene. Somebody who could teach me, a confused traumatized college drop out, how to accept myself. I was in it's server. I admit this.

This is a front Equinox puts up to morally grandstand over those it squeezes money out of.

So here is my repentance for having ever considered it anything but a grifter and a fraud.

I've archived on my blog the accusations against Equinox.

Racefaking (links to SA allegations)

Sexual assault

Transmisogyny and sexism (links to SA allegations)

This post will be updated as necessary. My intention is to dedicate this post as a collection of information related to Equinox. Please note it uses "it/its" pronouns as of the writing of this post.

[hey! here's an sa/sexual harassment warning for the tags of my reblog! abide by it!]

being a system has let me be less lonely, more curious, and more informed. i've seen so many terms and flags and even medical labels that i wouldn't have known otherwise. and these parts of mine, regardless of how much they front, let me know — consciously or not — that i will never truly be alone. and my system formed partially from my own loneliness in this world and at the time of it forming. but now, i don't have to worry so much. somewhere, someone will always have my back.

or.. my brain, i guess.

Tell us something positive about your system/alters/headmates/plurality:

We'll go first. If it wasn't for our system and the ability to relieve each other from fronting there's no fucking way we'd be half as functional as we currently are with the excruciating level of pain we're in. So god damn thankful I don't have to do this bullshit alone.

Sleepy cuddles 🧸☁️

I wish that so much of the system/did/plural content wasn’t so discourse oriented. It’s so fucking frustrating because we already feel alienated due to having this disorder, we don’t want to feel MORE alienated for.. HAVING THIS DISORDER?!?!

I can barely interact with traumagenic communities because they always make it the most toxic of comments/opinion pieces on SOMEONE ELSE’S plurality rather than discussing what it is like for them.

I feel safer in endogenic communities, but then I don’t relate at all and can’t feel any connections to that experience.

I’m so tired of useless discourse that doesn’t contribute to progress. I’m tired of people who devote their energy, time, and effort into being ugly and vicious to anyone around them. I’m fucking tired of it.

Wake up call to the system community:

These labels don’t fucking matter. They aren’t a real world problem, and they aren’t going to contribute to the world. You will always been seen as a “weirdo” who is “mentally ill and cant function properly in society” by people who don’t experience this.

No, people will not pat you on the back for fighting this fabricated war against one another. No, you will not gain anything from being violent towards other people.

You just have to sit, years down the line, realizing how fucking pointless your discourse really was. It happened in ace discourse, it happened in trans discourse, and it will happen to this stupid shit.

But go on. Go ahead and make an account just to debate and debunk someone else’s identity. I’m sure you are gonna go so far with it and gain so much validation through bullying others.

-🌹🌿

[PT: Radqueers and anti-endos do not interact!]

sometimes plurality is

"oh yeah im alone in fron- hey. who is that. who said that"

no neurodivergent infighting here

Real big tonal difference when you're a fan of both