As A White System YEAH. By Default Systems Online Are Associated With Cringe, And Cringe Is Associated

I am literally fucking BEGGING you all to also acknowledge the racism behind the terms "non-man" and "non-woman" and how they're used in queer definitions.

Black and Indigenous queer people have literally been talking about this since the definition was COINED but there's literally NO acknowledgement of this when pointing out why "non-men loving non-men" and "non-women loving non-women" are shitty fucking definitions to force on a whole community.

"Nonman" and "nonwoman" are terms that have been historically used to describe the degendering of black people in society. And words can obviously be used to mean different things- we don't have to stop using these terms altogether. But forcing these terms on a whole community of queer people is really fucking antiblack.

Not to mention that it blatantly degenders a lot of 2S lesbians and gays as well. It basically tells them that they can't be 2S and as a lesbian or gay at the same time, because then they would be "contradictory." I seriously hope I don't have to explain how racist it is to exclude a large portion of Two-Spirit people from your queer label because they don't fit into your neat little white gender binary.

Like these definitions aren't bad to use for yourself personally- but stop forcing them on all lesbians/gays. And if you're advocating for why these shouldn't be used as the most prominent definition, PLEASE acknowledge the racism aspect of it.

If you leak ii18 I will hate you forever

𐙚 ﹐amphisexual

a term for someone whose internal sense of sex/physical sex is both male and female (NOT synonymous with intersexuality)

a subset of transsexual and altersexual. its like duosexual, but i dislike the transmed subreddit it was coined on and i liked "amphi" more as a prefix

intersex people who are altersex and/or feel their sex is male and female due to being intersex may id with the term.. with that being said, this is a general term for anyone whose sex is male and female and is not synonymous to being inersex

my coined term/flag ꒱

i made a reddit post asking if i could use a cane without getting 'called out' for it (post stemmed from an argument with mom the night before, abt how basically she got mad and suddenly went on a tangent abt how were lazy and dont need a cane when it would likely assist with some possible disabilities) and i guess people downvoted our post? and i thought we would get support or something but people have been mostly questioning it since we are very unsure ourselves and it just feels like we shouldnt have made that post at all. only one person has been like 'if you need a cane, use it, no matter what someone else says' which is nice but the others have been questioning at best. and we didnt un-upvote our own stuff so we can tell others downvoted it. what the fuck even is reddit

like in our post i said it would help with possible cfs and pots, as well as breathing problems caused by excess exertion, flat-footed walking, and balance issues. i thought it would be obvious that i meant it wouldnt stop any of those but it would provide assistance but... i guess not? i thought it was obvious that a cane meant i could lean on it or something to provide just a little bit of relief for our feet and body but i guess it isnt obvious to the disability reddit. idk. like ik it wont stop any of those, but;

1. for fatigue and exertion-caused asthmatic issues it would provide me with a little bit of a rest spot since it isnt just my body doing all of the hard work

2. for the almost fainting of possible pots, a cane would let me lean on something without having the total possibility of falling, ive almost fell before because i havent had anything to lean on

3. with balance issues, same thing. it would probably allow me to trip over my own feet less. because 1, you have to be thoughtful abt walking with a cane. i know that damn well, and also it might let me hold on so i dont fall flat on my ass

4. and with my feet, it would relieve a bit of pressure i have on my feet when walking for long distances.

idk i guess reddit hates me (joking)

op turned off reblogs due to getting harassed over this post but i agree with this too hard .m y post now

why do i hear our other parts voices its making me feel blurry right now. i hear this damn spoon nearing front and im trying to drown him out with music (thank you digital/physical heart by vane lily) and i think i can hear him vaguely complaining about it. help me save me

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some days you cannot help but pity some people

I used to follow genderqueerdykes years ago before the whole .. "transandrophobia" thing reached its current peak as discourse on this site.

I considered myself uneducated. It isn't my place, I'd say. I was afab. I'm white. How dare I speak this way about it. Who claimed to be a mixed black trans lesbian. No more.

I once considered it somebody who knew more about gender. About orientation. About the punk scene. Somebody who could teach me, a confused traumatized college drop out, how to accept myself. I was in it's server. I admit this.

This is a front Equinox puts up to morally grandstand over those it squeezes money out of.

So here is my repentance for having ever considered it anything but a grifter and a fraud.

I've archived on my blog the accusations against Equinox.

Racefaking (links to SA allegations)

Sexual assault

Transmisogyny and sexism (links to SA allegations)

This post will be updated as necessary. My intention is to dedicate this post as a collection of information related to Equinox. Please note it uses "it/its" pronouns as of the writing of this post.

extra boost for the server. it's kindaaaaa dead rn. oops my bad

hi everyone!

so. my friends and i made a DISCORD SERVER! wow!

it's themed around the object show IT'S TIME FOR THE, and its endogenic-neutral (leaning positive) and good faith in nature! id love it if you guys joined, it took quite a bit of effort for me and my buddies to make it (due to most of us being beginners at this stuff)

theres already quite a few emotes, both queer flags and object show characters! quite a few roles, and a TON of channels. youre sure to have a great TIME here!

hah. Get it. Get It.

edit: by the way, radqueers and proship are NAWT welcome 🔥🔥 get Out thank youuuuu!!!!

LOOK AT MY BOYFRIEND'S TPTM OC NOWWWWW. I ALSO MADE AN ICON FOR KYR. LOOK AT IT. LOOK AT IT!!!!!

the kanji i used is 殍, basically means to starve to death. i thought i'd make it a bit ironic... smiles

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actual art! i feel um pretty good about this! this is my tptm oc, choker girl aka nhân baines. xhe's viet american! still need to figure out how old he is so i can put it somewhere for hyr carrd later... umm but yeah i really like xem because i kind of based xeir body on my own in a way! and also projected my being viet and the uhh eating disorder stuff. i wanna try my hand at music making and proper video editing so i can make hyr a music video some day!