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If I had a nickel for every time one of my partners had gotten labioplasty prior to our relationship because of the stigma against people with vulvas that aren't "perfect," I'd have two nickels. Which isn't a lot, but it is really sad that it happened at all, much less twice.
Anyway, next time you shame a trans man or trans masc person for their genitalia looking "gross," know that you catch all of those other women and vulva-havers in the crossfire.
Fuck you <3