Aroflux - Blog Posts

Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week, y'all!!!!

Be yourself, embrace your aromanticism, and don't let anyone tell you who you are or who you should be!!

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Am I the only one who has a few specific friends who I'm really close with and love to be around, and, if they wanted to, I'd be completely down for making our relationship into something different (romantic, queerplatonic, etc.), but at the same time, I don't activity have a crush on them or want to push for a different relationship bc what if they don't feel the same way or don't know what queerplatonic relationships are.

I want a relationship that is completely undefinable by any existing labels or words. Like, we're so close and we hug and kiss each other's foreheads and cuddle and travel and explore together, and we get along so well and have so much in common. But at the same time, our relationship isn't fully romantic or fully platonic; it's a completely separate, open-to-interpretation thing that we tweaked as needed, and we have our own boundaries and things we are and aren't comfortable with, and we respect each other in every way, shape, and form.

Am I the only aro-spec person who switches between wanting a committed partnership, be it romantic, platonic, queerplatonic, etc, and wanting to be as far away from relationships as possible?

Aro ( +some ace) hcs!!

gender: yes but also no but also depends but also multiple but also online but also i dont give a fuck but also STARSSS but also i dont know but also depends on music

sexuality: depends i guess. also multiple maybe?

romantic attraction: mostly no but maybe but depends. Also sexual attraction? Fuck NO

tags: i dont know i dont have friends and the only person i can think of was the one who tagged Me soo

Gender, Sexuality, Romantic Attraction Tagging Game

How do: You put your gender, sexuality, and romantic attraction down with a line break between them—but, here's the catch, don't use any labels! So, for example, this, "Gender? Agender Sexuality? Lesbian Romantic Attraction? Demiromantic" would be this: "Gender? I hardly know 'er! Sexuality? Girl-kisser Romantic Attraction? My friends, I think"

So, here's mine!

Gender? Yours, fool Sexuality? Yes Romantic Attraction? Only if I know you well enough

TAGS (under the cut, and don't feel obligated to do it!) (and obviously those who I have not tagged can participate too)

@bassguitarinablackt-shirt @gloriousvermin @midnight-thedyke @littlebookworm69 @runwiththerain @cybercerealkiller @ishouldsleepbut @ssavinggrace @i-love-your-father @us-costco-official @scifikode @i-am-an-arson-enthusiast

I quite literally became a new me in 2023 by finally accepting the fact that I am Aroflux Cupioromantic (still also consider myself panromantic at the same time)

I’m officially an Aceflux Bisexual Aroflux , between Cupioromantic and Panromantic mess. And Nonbinary Demigirlflux. Look mami, I’m a triple flux!

I’m literally a melting pot in romantic identities too goddamn. Happy 2023 y’all.

I'm not a professional, nor do I know much about aspec labels, but I think you are aroflux. Again, I myself am still learning about the labels and discovering myself. From what you're saying, you sound like you are, in fact, aroflux which is ok!

am I aroflux?

So some days I really love my partner and wanna stay with him for years to come but other days I don’t really like him in a romantic way very much if at all so what do you think?