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Johnny Depp

🎀🤍KNOW YOUR WORTH🤍🎀

🤍" In order to be valuable to others , we need to be valuable to ourselves first " -The Wizard Liz

🎀To develop self-worth, you must realize that it is not extrinsic but intrinsic. It was present since the day you were born . You will not find your self-worth in other people or their opinions. Self-worth is innate , it comes from within.

🤍Your value does not come from your status or followers . It does not come from anything that is external , it is always intrinsic. You have control over your self-worth. Nothing or no one can make you feel bad without your consent. We all have the same level of intrinsic value , the problem is not everybody sees it.

🎀When God created you , he did not put your value in your grades , skin color , in size of your nose or flesh . He put your value in your spirit. Your spirit was made in the image of God. Understand how valuable you are , you were created in the image of an eternal , infinite and omnipotent God.

🤍If you do not acknowledge your worth , you will sell yourself short. If you start valuing yourself , others will start valuing yourself. If you know your worth or value , you will have high -standards . You will not be desperate, you will be highly-selective with who you allow in your inner circle and life. Don't allow everyone to have access to you or your energy.

🎀Never try to find your self-worth in other people's opinions . If you allow other people's opinions control how you feel , you are giving them your power. You will become their puppet . Be strong in yourself , know your worth and never settle for less. Never ever make your value go down because of anyone or anything.

🤍You matter , you are important and precious. It does not matter who made you feel small . You have the power to make your confidence go back up. Start acting like you matter because you do !

🎀The Universe wants you to know your worth , If you ignore the Universe's message, it will continue to be louder. You will continue to attract people who will mistreat you and treat you as if you are less than them.

🤍If I crush or beat 20$ , it would still have it's inherent value. Right ? You must know your value and not try to find your value in others or their opinions or how they treat you. How others treat you is a reflection of them , it is never personal.

🎀To cultivate a sense of worth, shift your focus to your strengths , believe in yourself and be clear about your values - have boundaries for yourself , speak up for yourself and find ways to validate yourself. You can also use affirmations to develop self-worth. Tell yourself, " I know my self-worth " .

🤍Never underestimate your self- worth . Know and own your self-worth . Refuse to be treated any lower than what you deserve. You are worthy of love and happiness . You deserve the best life !

TW: Mentions of Gaza

Call me ignorant and selfish all you want.

I DO NOT CARE. I CANNOT FINANCIALLY SUPPORT ANYONE ON EITHER SIDE.

look, it’s sad people are dying, and I’ll admit that.

but if you’re about to reply to my posts/comments with a copy-pasted spiel about being from Gaza n’ all…

DNI.

Do not interact with me. Do NOT send me asks about Gaza and a link to your fucking gofundme.

I intend to keep this blog FREE of mentions of the Israel/Palestine conflict, same with the Russia/Ukraine conflict. This post is the only exemption.

If you read this post but CHOOSE to ignore it-

Fuck off. Just please, go fuck off. This was meant to be a silly DSAF themed blog with sprinkles of other fandoms I genuinely enjoy.

– Dave/Vincent

UPD:

So people just fucking blatantly ignored my request.

I’ll post the screenshots on a separate post

Hello!

My Boundaries:

Romantic/explicit asks are off limits. Platonic asks are allowed.

User goes by Vincent, Vinn, Vinnie, or Dave.

Timezone is CDT.

If I don’t immediately answer your ask, don’t spam!

If your ask isn’t answered within seven days, consider it to be ignored.

Posting schedule is very inconsistent.

And some fanart to send you on your way!

I would like to know what your boundaries are when it comes to interacting with you.

are you ok with requests or questions that don’t have to do with your works

are you ok with receiving headcanons that are not relevant to or may contradict with what you already have 

how many asks are you comfortable with receiving at one time.

Are there other things that you want us to know about fan interaction that I didn’t think to ask about

hi! thank you so much for the ask!

i am perfectly okay with all kinds of asks and requests that have to do with my art or not my art, i love getting them and i love talking to people about my interests or theirs, and i really love to hear other peoples headcannons no matter how they might relate to my own and i might use them in placement of others if i really like it, and i really dont mind any amount of asks at a time, if there are a lot it might take a minute for me to get around to all of them, but i love any of them as long as youre being respectful. and nothing else i can think of right now, but as long as you're respectful you should be fine. thank you!