But The Main Point Was That Cuddling Isn't Sexual - Blog Posts

Who tf thinks that cuddling is sexual? You can cuddle with your parents, you can cuddle with your siblings, you can cuddle with your grandparents, you can cuddle with your aunts and uncles, you can cuddle with your cousins, you can cuddle with your pets (while big dogs are the best for keeping you warm, cats are my personal favorite bc I'm biased and love mine), hell, you can cuddle with your friends regardless of their gender. It is NOT inherently sexual. Regardless, the meaning of an act is determined by those performing it and if they decide that their cuddling session is completely platonic or just as a way to display innocent affection, then that's what it fucking is.

This pisses me off on a primal level as an aroace whose main form of physical affection is hugs/cuddling with my friends. They know it's strictly platonic, I know it's strictly platonic, therefore it is platonic. And if you're an asexual who's interested or okay with sex, then it's still up to you and your bf to decide if your cuddling is sexual or not.

pls rb if you think cuddling doesn't have to be s3xual

im tryna prove a point to my bf's mother help me out