Butchfemme - Blog Posts

k not sure why people are starting to think 'futch' is a thing... butch/femme are identities, not aesthetics. its not a fashion genre its a lifestyle... HAVE WE STRAYED SO FAR?????????

they should make a bat signal but for butches id spam the shit out of that

butchfemme love is so beautiful to me

some new buttons i made for an event i vended at! leftovers for sale here 💌✂️

"pillow princess just do nothing" okay so WHO'S spending hours doing their hair up so their butch can tangle their fingers in it? who's putting on their makeup making sure to choose lipstick that leaves marks on their butch's skin, choosing mascara they know will run to spur their butch on further? who's done their nails so they can drag it down the length of their butch's biceps? who's put on the perfectly-calculated set of lingerie knowing it will set off their butch the moment it peeks underneath their dress- need i go on?

femmes when their butch is away and they can't physically be with them

(it's me i'm femmes)

you know you're dating an Acts of Service love language butch when they've gone radio silent and you Instantly Know that they're Up to Something (/pos)

i haven't seen my butch in a while.

every time i sleep i dream his arms are wrapped around me, his kisses are so tender on my aching temple, i melt into his embrace. all my dark clouds dissipate into nothingness when he creeps up behind me, plants a bird-kiss on my shoulder. he's so gentle with me; he protects me in my dreams.

oh, my darling butch! how i miss you so!

hear me out, subby knight just trying to do her job x pervy princess who wants her so so so bad

A little comic zine I made for my butch along with several other valentine goodies a year ago! I deleted the fucking file from procreate while updating my portfolio and panicked and cried to him on the phone about it until I managed to find cropped versions of the original 😓

how it feels to rewatch old disney animations and headcanon all the romances as butchfemme

[minors dni]

i love you femmes who work blue collar jobs. i love you femmes who work minimum wage gigs. i love you femmes who do manual labour and heavy lifting for a living. i love you femmes who have rough hands and dirt-caked nails. i love you femmes who cannot afford to dress up every day, who trade in their loveliest dresses for a poorly-fitting uniform every time they clock in. femmes who have to tone down their makeup and take off their favourite earrings because it's just not practical for work. i love you femmes even if you cannot present as yourself, especially if you cannot present as yourself, at work.

sometimes i feel so detached from the femme identity just because of like certain elements of who i am.. like im really tall and i’m fat and like they’re not necessarily things i gaf about but it’s clear that it’s not the ideal type. like im fully ok with itv but idk something to ponder about

i want to be in love with a stud I WANT TO BE IN LOVE like all giddy and all.

listening to i’m your man by leonard cohen and i want to be punished by them.. i feel like such a pervert wanting to be hurt during intimacy..

im not sure what’s wrong with me. like i was telling them that i don’t care that they talk to other people.. i dont know why im feeling this all encompassing need to be needed by them or by anyone and i feel like this is gonna ruin me in the future. but like i dont think my need to be hurt is really bad at least i hope not.

i was watching edits of secretary and like in the ideal world i find someone like mr grey, someone who can appreciate the erotic elements of butchfemme as well as respect and wouldn’t make me feel bad about the way i approach sex. because i can see my desperate nature in lee but the way mr grey is so disgusted by himself is ME.

What God do I have to please to get this job?

femme who are in charge everywhere but the bedroom. (my dream job)

Gyns…. I had a date and finally got kissed on the lips by a girl for the first time yesterday 🤭🤭🤭 y’all have to deal with my rant now lol

I made her a bouquet of her favorite flowers and took her to dinner at a Thai place nearby my house, and then we went to see “Sinners” afterwards (good movie btw) and ugh it was so healing and peaceful after how anxious I always felt trying to date men.

She’s so pretty too, 70s-90s vintage femme to my 70s-90s vintage butch lol. And she respects that I’m a stone top; while she didn’t previously understand the Stone/Princess dynamic before meeting me, she said it’s actually something she’d wanted but didn’t know had a name. She’s also spiritual like I am, and she’s got big 1920s pouty eyes and a nose piercing and UGH y’all I think I have a crush 😭 We’ve been talking for about 6 weeks now but she was preparing for finals at college about an hour’s drive away so we couldn’t meet up until after she got through with them and moved back home for the summer nearer to where I live.

Anyway tho we were sitting in her car waiting for my dad to pick me up after the movie, and she kept stalling even after he arrived so I figured she wanted a kiss, so I asked her, and she said yes but she wanted me to close my eyes because she was shy, so I did and she grabbed my cheek and gave me a few all one after the other and UGH I just love being a lesbian so much.

It’s also really healing to take the part of the “pursuer” in this circumstance (which obviously isn’t necessarily a thing butches or tops have to do, I just happen to be a stereotype lol) after past experiences that left me a little shaken. This time around I get to take that role and do it right, and I think I’m already doing a good enough job because she trusted me to hold her purse when she went to the restroom lol.

Idk I’m just really happy and it’s like that deep, calm happiness where everything just feels right for the first time in your life and you can just enjoy the experience.

The time I made my butch bf watch princess and the pauper and it got too real

no thoughts, just imaging a puppy butch whining to eat me out while rutting on my thigh, waiting for my permission to drown themselves inside and have my nails scratching their head, gripping when I'm close to cummimg.

insatiable hunger.

yearning yearning yearning, i write more of these little poem things than i do actual fan-fiction ‘m sorry </3 i hope you enjoy this too, though!!

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i see her face. in the ever fast movement the spinning world around me makes, i always catch her face — she’s driven me mad.

wether it be her or not, i’m hungry, and the more i starve the more insatiable i am bound to get. i need to feel the warmth of her flesh beneath my own, purposeful fingers holding, kneading, gripping her in place right next to me.

right on to me.

right, being one with me. yeah, thats right..

i am hungry in a way no plate of food can fix, nothing can take this empty feeling away from me, someone can only fill it.

and she looks so pretty, my body wants her to be the one to fill it. my mind is sick and elsewhere, twisting every other face on the street to have the same curve of her lips, the sharpness of her eyes missing the gleam they get at the sight of me. oh how she loves me.

in a moment of such depravity the roles have no names attached and the bodily abilities are only for each others hands to touch. i wanted her to hold me by my hair, and i find myself gripping the back of her neck. i wanted her to greedily steal sounds from my lips to fill hers with, and i find myself devouring her every breath whole. i didn’t want her to do things to me anymore, i wanted her.

Happy Valentine's Day 🩷 make sure you give your butch flowers and tons for kisses!!

Tumblr is the only social he’s not on so sorry gang prepare yourself for that ig

Broke up with my butch literally 4 hours ago and he’s posting like normal piss take innit

The things I'd do to come back from work just to spoil my stay at home butch with an online shopping spree after I eat them out.

Who wants to be saved?(⁠っ⁠˘⁠з⁠(⁠˘⁠⌣⁠˘⁠ ⁠)

a femme with thick thighs, a fat ass, and a soft tummy will save you btw

I'll get us munchies I promise😣

need a little weed and makeout sesh with a hot butch like yesterday 😾

Yearning hours ughnh

They need to invent a butch who wants me..

STOP THIS IS SO CUTE^⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠_⁠^

Yes do all the hard work while I make you lemonade and take care of the house(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)

on my knees begging to be someone’s butch husband. i have a carnal desire to fix things around the house in my boxers. make sure my femme’s gas tank is full. mow the lawn in shorts in and a wife pleaser. build a coop for the chickens she rescued. plant vegetables in our little garden. cook meals on lazy weekends. cuddle while watching a movie. enjoy the easy silence between us.