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We need to take the word 'boundaries' away from TikTokers. I saw a vid where someone was happy that their boyfriend didn't hate her best friend and tried to make her feel included and all the comments were extremely nasty, accusing the best friend of being a homewrecker, and whenever someone said something positive or called the others out they'd get spammed with "It's just boundaries!!! We have different boundaries!!! Stop attacking us for our boundaries!!!"
That's not boundaries, that's insecurity. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you're going to act like this. Get some help and/or work on yourself, target why you feel there's a problem with your boyfriend not hating every woman on the planet. This can't be healthy and I feel sorry for anyone who's experienced this but you can't let being hurt a few times make you try controlling other people's relationships, a bitch, or push your insecurity onto innocent and happy relationships