We Need To Take The Word 'boundaries' Away From TikTokers. I Saw A Vid Where Someone Was Happy That Their
We need to take the word 'boundaries' away from TikTokers. I saw a vid where someone was happy that their boyfriend didn't hate her best friend and tried to make her feel included and all the comments were extremely nasty, accusing the best friend of being a homewrecker, and whenever someone said something positive or called the others out they'd get spammed with "It's just boundaries!!! We have different boundaries!!! Stop attacking us for our boundaries!!!"
That's not boundaries, that's insecurity. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you're going to act like this. Get some help and/or work on yourself, target why you feel there's a problem with your boyfriend not hating every woman on the planet. This can't be healthy and I feel sorry for anyone who's experienced this but you can't let being hurt a few times make you try controlling other people's relationships, a bitch, or push your insecurity onto innocent and happy relationships
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this song as Varian's equivalent version of Rapunzel's "Wind In My Hair" song
also yknow what's actually crazy?
it's the way this song... could even foreshadow the possession in the final act. Like imagine a twisted (darker reprise) version of this song ...sang by Ulla possessing her son.
"I wanna live again I'm gonna live again One day I'm gonna die But I'll put up a fight til then"
Just think about it- Do yall see the vision?
MAGNE FROM MHA I SWEAR ive only ever seen horrible transphobia surrounding her and her masculine appearance when its almost like... thats the point... she can't physically transition because she doesn't have the money or support... shocker!! /sarcasm
Literally sick to death of twitter throwing a fit every single day about art depicting visibly trans people, GNC trans people, etc, and calling it a hateful caricature. ESPECIALLY when often it turns out to be explicitly based on someone the artist is friends with, and people still say the most horrible things about their appearance.
this is how i imagine a conversation between shu and his lover :
Non DL content but I hope you guys enjoy.. since some of you freaky like that.
it's actually blinding unfiltered hatred and the reason it can't be platonic is because they'd stab each other if you put them in the same room
"it's clearly not platonic! it can't be!" oh? and why is that? why can't it be platonic? what clear and definable qualities move it beyond the realm of platonic love? if you say "well friends would never do that" or "it's just obvious" i'll kill you btw
one thing i really love about once upon a time is how in nearly every episode there is someone angrily stomping into gold's shop, and he's there polishing a seemingly innocent trinket that can actually end the world and is like... "what a lovely weather for a dramatic entrance, what can i do for you dearie"
the way i commented yesterday “rejet get off ur ass and give us yui content” AND THEY DID? THEY DELIVERED?
i know this is a laito blog but it’s yui okay :( cut some slack she’s a cutie pie
she looks ADORABLEEEE ADORABLE ADORABLE my pinkie cutie pie she’s so cute 🗣️🗣️
Hiii!! I saw you rb with you question about non-sharing yume, thought I could answer because I am (and since you especially talked about popular character (I think he was like 7th on the Tumblr's ranking this year lol) and mine is one too, I feel like my input could help you) ^-^
I'm gonna start by saying that, even if we sometimes forget it because we're deep in the community, yumeshipping/selfshipping is actually kinda niche and most selfshippers don't fandom tag their content or interact with the fandom at all. So even if you do interact with the fandom, there is low chances you'll see a double/dupes there. At most, you'll see a ton of fanboys/girls, so it's mostly about your sensitivity and how non-sharing you are (aka do you accept fangirls even if they don't selfship).
In my current (f/o) relationship. I don't interact with the fandom at all, but it's mostly because I had very bad experiences with the fandom so seing fan content and all kinda triggers me. But with my last f/o, even if I was non-sharing, I interacted with the fandom everyday and even if fangirls sometimes made me uncomfortable, I mostly didn't care.
When it comes to canon x canon ships it's a bit trickier. From my personal experience, I mostly don't care as long as they aren't canon and not too popular. With my last f/o I even collectionned ships art because I just wanted to see him. But in my actual one, the fanon ship is so popular that's its the kind of ship people screams "it's canon" and get defensive about, so I'd rather have nothing to do with it. It used to bother me more, now it only does when I'm already not feeling good. Because to me, I know that in canon there is no romantic implications between them so. But I also know non-sharing yume that would rather not see any ship with their f/o, and that's fair, how deeply it actually bother them is deeply personal tho.
When it comes to what to do when you're non-sharing, it's pretty easy : blocking people + blacklisting tags. Once you get used to curating your online experience, it's like nothing can bother u :3
But I'll finish by saying that, I have seen friends give up on f/os because they were too popular, or force themselves to become sharing. I'd say being non-sharing with a really popular character isn't for everyone.
I hope it kinda make sense lol, you can also ask other questions if I didn't answer everything, I don't mind.
YOOOO YOURE ACTUALLY SO SO COOL FOR ANSWERING THIS !!!! That makes a lot more sense !! Yall seem neat ya definitely dont deserve the harassment I've seen yall get before :( But yeah thank you for explaining this it actually made sense to me and answered a lot of the questions I might have !!!
