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Sl bbasically I was going to my cousins wedding (but like not quite the wedding just like the groom has to give the bride some money idk what they're called) and my mom was like we gotta giver her a gift yk. My my brother said "biao mei" which is incorrect as we only use biao when it comes to those not under our surname. So like people on the mother's side or aunts side, cuz my aunt is married too, and also she's older than us so we gotta use jie.
And my ma said that we use tan jie to refer to her I think that's how it's said... And she sajd
You can marry your biao cousins, but not your tan ones and I was like. Is that why you asked if I wanted to marry my cousin? (mom side)